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08/02/2025

Great resource!!!

Join us Saturday 8/2 in Melbourne, FL for a Disability Resource Fair. Come see me at the Orlando LetterBoard Community I...
08/02/2025

Join us Saturday 8/2 in Melbourne, FL for a Disability Resource Fair.
Come see me at the Orlando LetterBoard Community Inc table!

The MOST incredible weekend was had by over 600 families, nonspeakers, S2C practitioners and nonspeaking allies!   fille...
07/28/2025

The MOST incredible weekend was had by over 600 families, nonspeakers, S2C practitioners and nonspeaking allies! filled my cup and gave me more tools in my tool belt to be a better S2C practitioner and Mom! I honestly feel such a sadness when it’s over, this conference is always truly transformative! Thank you International Association for Spelling as Communication! You are giving us the resources to hep our clients and families have their voices! My cup runneth over.

Another fantastic article by Steven May! Two Controllers: Understanding Apraxia and the Brain-Body Disconnect for Parent...
07/13/2025

Another fantastic article by Steven May!

Two Controllers: Understanding Apraxia and the Brain-Body Disconnect for Parents of Nonspeaking and Unreliably Speaking Autistics

The Two Controllers

Imagine this:
Your child’s body is being controlled by two entirely separate systems—two “controllers.”

The first controller is their true self, THEM. This is who your child really is—the inner intelligence, the emotional being, the compassionate and curious spirit that sees you, understands the world, and is actively trying to connect, continuously. This is the version of your child that you sense in quiet moments when your own mind is clearest,
distracted from the daily grind and open. This IS who they are.

The second controller is the Apraxic Controller—and this is not your child.
It is their nervous system, functioning in a disorganized, disconnected way. It operates their body without their permission. The Apraxic Controller affects everything: movement, speech, facial expression, posture, sounds, responses. It causes the body to act in ways that do not match their inner thoughts or intentions. IT IS NOT THEM!

Spellers across the world—once they gain reliable communication—describe this dynamic again and again:

“My body doesn’t listen to me.”
“I scream when I want to be quiet.”
“It looks like I’m not paying attention, but I hear everything.”
“My face lies.”
“It’s like watching someone else drive my body.”

This is not a behavioral issue. This is not lack of intelligence, nor a lack of desire to connect. This is a neurological movement disorder—apraxia—where the brain’s messages to the body are scrambled, delayed, or blocked entirely. REMEMBER - This is NOT them.

This is why spelling becomes a lifeline. Through the structured support of a spelling board, your child finally gains access to an alternate route—a way to bypass the Apraxic Controller and communicate directly from their true self to you.

As you journey together, you will begin to see it clearly:
Your child is in there. They always were.
But the Apraxic Controller is fighting for control, every step of the way.

Flipping the Lens: From Outside-In to Inside-Out

As parents, carers, and professionals, we are often trained—formally or unconsciously—to look from the outside in.

We interpret behavior. We expect responses. We rely on expressions, gestures, or spoken words to signal engagement, interest, or intelligence.
And when those things aren’t present, we’re taught to assume lack: lack of attention, lack of understanding, lack of readiness. That’s simply 100% not true, it’s the opposite and WE are the error.

Here’s the truth:
These expectations are built on neurotypical standards, not autistic experience.

Presuming competence means changing our lens.
It is the shift from:

“Why are they doing that?”
to
“What are they experiencing moments ago and right now?”

This new lens asks us to:
• See behaviors as adaptive, not disruptive
• Understand that movement and expression may not align with intention
• Regulate ourselves first, before we respond
• Remove or reduce sensory overstimulation in the environment
• Be open to alternative forms of communication that begin with spelling, not speaking
• Replace demand with curiosity, flexibility, and deep trust

When we do this, we stop demanding that our child meet our social norms, and begin the work of meeting them where they are—with clarity, respect, and love.

The Golden Keys to Open Communication

There are three essential elements—call them your golden keys—for supporting your child’s communication journey:
• Presume Competence – Assume that your child is understanding everything, even when their body says otherwise. Hold this belief especially when it’s hardest.
• Belief – Your unwavering belief in your child’s intelligence and capability is not a nicety—it’s a necessity. It is the soil in which open communication grows.
• Love – Love regulates. Love anchors. Love softens frustration, fear, and resistance—yours and theirs. It is the single most powerful tool you carry.

As spelling becomes part of your shared world, expect surprises. Expect resistance. Expect joy. Expect setbacks, and expect miracles.

And always stay watchful and fully aware for the Apraxic Controller—not because your child is broken, but because their Apraxic Controller hijacks their body and works totally against their will.

Your role is not to fix them.
Your role is to see them.
To believe in them.
To walk beside them—no matter how uneven the path.

Step by step, letter by letter, connection by connection…
Communication will open.
And the person you’ve always known was inside will come shining through.

❤️

This is another article that will feature within PresumeCompetence.co.uk and in the Facebook group Presume Competence where articles are posted once input, suggested additions and corrections are provided first hand by parents within the groups.

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07/07/2025

This is a fantastic explanation and example of brain-body disconnect so prevalent amongst nonspeakers.

Thanks, Steven May!

Spinning Chairs and Chocolate

What Is the Brain-Body Disconnect?

In many non- and unreliably-speaking autistic individuals, the brain-body disconnect refers to a disruption in how the brain sends messages to the body (motor planning, initiation, and control) and how it receives and interprets feedback from the body (sensory input). This disconnect can make it difficult for the person to:
• Accurately feel what’s happening in their body (e.g., motion, balance, internal state),
• Control how their body moves in response to that input,
• Modulate or adjust those movements to stay within a comfortable or functional range.

This is not a cognitive or intellectual problem. These individuals often have total intact understanding and rich internal lives—but they struggle with motor-sensory ex*****on and regulation.

Case Example: Spinning in a Chair

Let’s use the example: a child spinning rapidly in a swivel chair.

This act—stimming—is a self-directed movement or behavior often used for regulation (to manage internal overwhelm or sensory need). However, what appears paradoxical is that:

The child may be seeking regulation but ends up dysregulating themselves further by spinning at high speed or for excessive durations.

Why does this happen?

What’s Happening Underneath?

1. Proprioception + Vestibular Confusion
• The vestibular system (balance, motion) and proprioception (body position in space) may be under-responsive, confused, or difficult to sense.
• The child may not fully perceive how fast they are spinning or how much movement their body is experiencing. So, they spin more to “feel it.”

Result: They overshoot the input they need. Instead of calming their system, they flood it.

2. Body Not Matching Intention
• The child may intend to spin gently for calming.
• But the message from brain to body may be too delayed, imprecise, or poorly modulated, resulting in faster-than-intended spinning.

Result: Their body does something more extreme than what they mentally intended.

3. Feedback Loop Breakdown
• Neurotypical bodies get real-time feedback (“I’m spinning too fast — better slow down”).
• But for the autistic non-speaker with a brain-body disconnect, the feedback is disrupted, dulled, or delayed.

Result: They don’t know they’ve overdone it until they’re already dizzy, disoriented, or dysregulated.

4. Inability to Stop
• Even if they realize the spinning is now overwhelming, initiation of motor stopping may be impaired.
• The command “Stop now” is clear in the brain—but the motor system is delayed or uncooperative.

Result: They stay in the dysregulating movement longer than desired, reinforcing the disconnect.

Spinning as a Way to “Zero Out” the World

In some cases, spinning is not accidental or out of control—it is a conscious or semi-conscious strategy used by the individual to completely overwhelm their sensory system and deliberately shut out the world.

For some, reaching this extreme threshold is pleasurable, comforting, or even necessary. They may use spinning to:
• Flood the visual, vestibular, and proprioceptive systems to the point where everything else drops away,
• Escape an overwhelming or confusing environment by intensely focusing on one overpowering sensory input,
• Reach a kind of sensory “blankness”—a reset point or internal stillness through external chaos.

This experience can feel addictive or satisfying, not unlike how a neurotypical person might consume a full pack of extra large bar of chocolate in one sitting—not because each bite is needed, but because the momentum, sensation, and emotional drive carry them through the complete bar until it’s gone. Imagine their internal sense within their digestive system notifying them - Sugar levels are rising, Sugar levels reaching maximum, Taste is overwhelming, Taste and Pleasure in the mouth reaching maximum “But I like it, I love it, I’m keeping going until there’s no more, wow it’s amazing!”
The person can, so they do.
It becomes a loop of sensation, relief, and habit, often without pause for self-assessment until the end. They have ignored the inputs just to experience the sensory ‘high’ and disconnected from the world for a moment using a combination of senses that from the outside looks like just one - taste through eating.

In this way, spinning may not just be a tool for regulation, but a way to blot out the complexity of interoception, proprioception, social demands, or emotional stress by overriding all systems with one overwhelming input.

What It Looks Like From the Outside
• A caregiver sees a child spinning wildly and assumes they’re enjoying it or being hyperactive.
• But the internal experience may be one of:
• Trying to feel “normal”
• Losing track of where the body is
• Frustration that the spinning won’t stop
• Overwhelm from too much movement but no ability to exit it
• Or, in some cases, choosing to spin intensely in order to block out the world

Supporting Regulation with Understanding

Instead of suppressing stimming or removing the spinning chair, support could look like:
• Helping the person learn to notice early signs of dysregulation (visual tools, co-regulation, interoception scaffolding),
• Creating a structure or boundary for spinning (e.g., a visual timer, “three turns then pause”),
• Offering alternatives that provide similar vestibular input but are easier to modulate (rocking, bouncing, rhythmic movement),
• Observing with curiosity, not correction: “Is this movement helping or getting too big?”
• Respecting the intention behind the spinning while teaching safe ways to access that sensory satisfaction

Summary

In autistic non-speakers, the brain-body disconnect means that the intention to regulate (e.g., spinning to calm or escape) may not match the body’s ex*****on of that regulation. Sensory-seeking stims like spinning can go from helpful to overwhelming because:
• They can’t feel how fast is “too fast,”
• They can’t control the stop-start of the action,
• They may not get reliable feedback from their bodies,
• Or they may be intentionally using it to overpower all other sensory experiences as a way to reset, escape, or find satisfaction.

Understanding this dynamic helps us replace judgment or misinterpretation with supportive, compassionate, and structured guidance.

01/23/2025
Oh I LOVE when Tiffany Fidgets and Fries speaks her mind. This is SPOT ON, an absolute 🎤 drop!!!
01/11/2025

Oh I LOVE when Tiffany Fidgets and Fries speaks her mind. This is SPOT ON, an absolute 🎤 drop!!!

Question that needs answering; in their own time, not mine. I gots work to do.

01/05/2025

This is so important to understand! Thank you NeuroClastic for putting this together!

We have some exciting news! Spring Break Spelling 2 Communicate Intensives are coming to Orlando! 2 and 4 day options ar...
12/29/2024

We have some exciting news! Spring Break Spelling 2 Communicate Intensives are coming to Orlando! 2 and 4 day options are available. Registration deadline Feb 21st. Each family will have a complimentary 20 minute zoom session upon registration. Reach out for more information or to register.

Ooof, this is that other part of having a nonspeaker in my life. My eyes were opened by a panel of young adult nonspeake...
08/02/2024

Ooof, this is that other part of having a nonspeaker in my life. My eyes were opened by a panel of young adult nonspeakers on the topic of gate keeping adult nonspeakers. So much to ponder and consider.

https://i-asc.org/the-elephant-in-the-nonspeakng-room/?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR0J626LIIhnClYX5ObFZbilT3eCg4Qk6tbv-O5r3qRETmgDcz0fkd5Tgxk_aem_9SkSd04GqDEhsjiIvSs6RA

It looms, large & obvious, yet we pretend it’s not there. It crushes the life out of nonspeakers. Let us spell it out for you (did you get what we did there?)

06/25/2024

Hampton roads friends: if you have a nonspeaking (or unreliably/minimally speaking) loved one, or know someone who does not yet have access to robust communication….you’re in luck! There’s a Spelling to Communicate Practitioner in Virginia Beach now!!! I’ve heard nothing but AMAZING things about her! I’ll happily connect you, just let me know!

This is awesome!!! Seeing Nonspeakers on national news stories is exactly what we need! Jordyn is an amazing advocate!!!...
05/10/2024

This is awesome!!! Seeing Nonspeakers on national news stories is exactly what we need! Jordyn is an amazing advocate!!!

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/VDKJxakzgVLwpcaa/?mibextid=WC7FNe

At 29 years old, Jordyn Zimmerman is autistic and nonspeaking but she's making her voice heard on some of the most prestigious stages. Jamie Wax sat down with Zimmerman in her first broadcast television interview to discuss the struggles she faced growing up, the way that a communication app on an i...

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