03/19/2018
I saw this quote today...
"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person."
Isn't that the truth? In June, my husband and I will be married 22 years...and since the day we said, "I Do" I have fallen deeper and deeper in love with him every day. I think it's because each day I find something new to love about him.
Is he perfect? No, but then...neither am I! 😉 However, he is perfect for me!!!
If this is a hard thing for you...do this little exercise for me. Make a list of the things that made you fall in love with your spouse to begin with...then every day for 30 days, add something to that list. Ask your spouse to do it with you! At the end of 30 days take your list out and really look at it. You may just find that there are things you loved to begin with, that you take for granted now. Never take your spouse for granted!
Also, if they are willing, you might trade lists and discuss if there is something on there that may be missing now. Sometimes, when people are married for long time, they get comfortable and stop doing some of the things that meant so much in the beginning. Not on purpose...it's just life.
When all is said and done...may you fall in love with each other all over again. 💝