Hopedale Cottage Assisted Living

09/10/2025

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09/09/2025

Tuesday:
We are celebrating Assisted Living Week at Hopedale Cottage at Smallin Cave in Ozark!

09/09/2025

Monday was our Safari Hunt!

09/09/2025

We are celebrating Assisted Living Week at Oaks Cottage!

07/24/2025

06/25/2025

We are excited to share our new webpage! Check it out 😃

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06/23/2025

We want to extend our heartfelt sympathy to Aletta’s family! Aletta was a precious lady who received the ultimate blessing when she entered her heavenly home on the morning of her birthday! 🙏🏼

In Loving Memory of Aletta Belle Essary June 18, 1936 – June 18, 2025 Our beloved mother, Aletta Belle Essary, peacefully went home to be with her Heavenly Father and her cherished husband, Guy Essary, on Wednesday, June 18, 2025—her 89th birthday. In God’s perfect timing, she received the ....

06/23/2025

**2025 DEFICIENCY FREE ASSISTED LIVING MEMORY CARE COMMUNITY**

I AM HONORED TO SHARE…. That the State of Missouri, Division of Health and Senior Services ( DHSS) came unannounced to do our annual State Licensure inspection last week. Hopedale Cottage was found to be in substantial compliance with Missouri Assisted Living Rules and Regulations! 💕
Hopedale Cottage is meeting or exceeding state requirements in our community environment, our care and our services.
We are blessed by dedicated Hopedale Cottage team members, friends and family!
We appreciate each of you!
Thank you!

06/05/2025

Bingo, walks and enjoying the beautiful outdoors! 🌞

06/04/2025

If I get dementia, I’d like my family to hang this wish list up on the wall where I live. I want them to remember these things.

Every time you enter the room announce yourself.

“Hi Mom- it’s _ _ _.”
NEVER ask- Do you know who I am??? That causes anxiety.

1. If I get dementia, I want my friends and family to embrace my reality.

2. If I think my spouse is still alive, or if I think we’re visiting my parents for dinner, let me believe those things. I’ll be much happier for it.

3. If I get dementia, don’t argue with me about what is true for me versus what is true for you.

4. If I get dementia, and I am not sure who you are, do not take it personally. My timeline is confusing to me.

5. If I get dementia, and can no longer use utensils, do not start feeding me. Instead, switch me to a finger-food diet, and see if I can still feed myself.

6. If I get dementia, and I am sad or anxious, hold my hand and listen. Do not tell me that my feelings are unfounded.

7. If I get dementia, I don’t want to be treated like a child. Talk to me like the adult that I am.

8. If I get dementia, I still want to enjoy the things that I’ve always enjoyed. Help me find a way to exercise, read, and visit with friends.

9. If I get dementia, ask me to tell you a story from my past.

10. If I get dementia, and I become agitated, take the time to figure out what is bothering me.

11. If I get dementia, treat me the way that you would want to be treated.

12. If I get dementia, make sure that there are plenty of snacks for me in the house. Even now if I don’t eat I get angry, and if I have dementia, I may have trouble explaining what I need.

13. If I get dementia, don’t talk about me as if I’m not in the room.

14. If I get dementia, don’t feel guilty if you cannot care for me 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It’s not your fault, and you’ve done your best. Find someone who can help you, or choose a great new place for me to live.

15. If I get dementia, and I live in a dementia care community, please visit me often.

16. If I get dementia, don’t act frustrated if I mix up names, events, or places. Take a deep breath. It’s not my fault.

17. If I get dementia, make sure I always have my favorite music playing within earshot.

18. If I get dementia, and I like to pick up items and carry them around, help me return those items to their original place.

19. If I get dementia, don’t exclude me from parties and family gatherings.

20. If I get dementia, know that I still like receiving hugs or handshakes.

21. If I get dementia, remember that I am still the person you know and love.”

R.E.S.P.E.C.T -
The biggest and most deserved
gift anyone can give each other -

ᴄᴏᴘʏ ᴀɴᴅ ᴘᴀsᴛᴇ in Honor of someone you know or knew who has dementia. In Honor of all those I know and love and lost who are fighting Dementia/Alzheimer’s.

06/04/2025

Surprise trip to Braum's for a sundae!