02/17/2026
1. No chance I was uttering things like, “it’s hard to find the love of your life”, “men are intimidated by successful women”, “guys don’t commit because ____”, “men only want one thing”
Think, but don’t say it out loud- when I wanted a relationship I thought I WASN’T successful.
I stopped all jobs to focus on hypnotherapy biz and had 0 $ — “a real man wouldn’t want an amateur” was my rationale.
Once I started manifesting him I knew that “he” would love me for me and work through anything, like roles, with me.
When I was a match, he would show up. Period.
2. FULL STOP on writing any lists of what he looks like, had, his interests, family, if he wanted marriage or kids, goals ETC.
That will prolong it.
Instead I wrote the long list of what does a successful relationship look like TO ME?
Words create pictures in the brain. 🧠 Pictures create feelings. Feelings create your reality.
My list created a 5 second scene in my head of my relationship and when I thought of it, I could feel it.
The more I felt it, the more moments I knew I was in a relationship.
That compounded into him showing up after 7 months. 💍
3. TBH I said I was going to listen to my intuition and I did..
I picked out a bureau he might need
I made space in my closet
I updated my space knowing a guy was coming .. something he could enjoy as well.
I did the meditations and journaling, not every day but every week.
I said “thank you” while I felt the scene almost every morning and evening.
I made sure “he” was accounted for when planning the accommodations for my brother’s upcoming wedding.
Your intuition may be completely different than mine!
It gets stronger as you use it.
If you want my help with any of these, head to my link in bio! 💌🔗 should be extremely helpful.
ANY woman can do this and be with a caliber man — it’s not an impossible task I can promise you that.
Love you, beauty🖤
