04/25/2026
Last night our family celebrated my son Jordan’s 12th birthday.
It was a special one, especially with my oldest son in town from California, so the whole crew was together.
We have a family tradition on birthdays: after dinner and dessert, we go around the table and each share what we love and appreciate most about the birthday person.
It’s simple, yet meaningful & something we all look forward to.
As we went around sharing about Jordan, one theme kept coming up:
We all love watching him play baseball.
It started years ago in California: front yard games with his older brothers, a plastic bat, a wiffle ball, and very questionable strike zones.
He loved it then and somehow loves it even more now.
A week ago today, his team played in the championship game, and I had the privilege of helping coach.
We were up against the top team in the league, the same team we had lost to by one run earlier in the season and tied the second time.
This was the rubber match and we came out smoking hot in the first inning with a 7-0 lead, bases loaded and my son up to bat.
Momentum fully on our side. Coaches high-fiving. Everything clicking.
Then the unthinkable happens…the umpire stops the inning.
“Seven-run limit,” he says.
Only problem… our league rule is eight.
We politely brought it up. He politely snubbed our plea.
He wasn’t budging.
And just like that… the momentum shifted.
Add to this we had two key players missing, a few tough calls, and the game slipped away in the last inning with the final score: 9-8. We lost by one run.
Major heartbreaker.
If you’ve been around youth sports, you know, those losses hit hard. There were tears, quiet moments, and plenty of “what if” conversations.
After the game, we headed to closing day ceremonies.
Awards were handed out across the league, and our team did well: Golden Glove, Most Improved, Best Sportsmanship, and by God’s grace, Jordan was voted MVP.
A great honor. He was grateful, but later, sitting over cheeseburgers, fries, and root beer at Duffy’s, when I asked him what he thought about winning the award, he said,
“I’d trade it for the championship.”
Two days later, we went to a Marlins game to watch JJ Wetherholt, a second baseman with the St. Louis Cardinals who attends our church. After the game, we all got to go on the field and spend a few minutes with him.
Jordan walked away with an MLB baseball, a conversation he won’t forget, and a birthday memory that topped them all.
We finished the night at Versailles in Little Havana with Cuban food, chocolate shakes, and a late bedtime that was 100% worth it.
And somewhere in all of that, the loss started to look a little different.
Because here’s the truth:
Losses, disappointments, and setbacks often give us more than wins ever could.
Wins feel good. Losses make you think.
They make you replay moments. Reevaluate decisions. Refocus your effort.
That one run? I promise you, it’s been replayed from about 12 different angles already.
And because of that, it’s going to make him better.
The same is true with your health.
Most people don’t think about their body when everything feels fine.
But when something hurts…
Something tightens up…
Something keeps you from doing what you love…
Now you’re paying attention.
Now you’re asking questions.
Now you’re motivated to do something about it.
Nobody wants the setback, but those moments often become the turning point.
A few weeks ago, I injured my foot.
Not ideal, but it forced me to slow down, pay attention, and address things I probably would have ignored and much good has already come because of it.
Just how that game will make Jordan better the next time he steps on the field.
Because in the end, it’s not just about the outcome, it’s about what it teaches you.
So, whether it’s a tough loss or something in your body that just isn’t quite right, don’t ignore it, but lean into it and learn from it, because sometimes the thing you wish didn’t happen is the very thing you needed most to move forward.
Have a GREAT Saturday!
Dr. Derek “One Run Short, Many Lessons Long” Taylor