
09/13/2025
We love to celebrate birthdays in the Taylor home. Ali usually makes a nice dinner for the family and we usually follow it up with one of her famous birthday cakes (most often an ice cream cake).
But this year was different. Our daughter turned 18 this past Thursday, and because she had rehearsal from 3:00 to 9:00 p.m., we had to adjust our plans.
The day started with a sunrise walk on the beach, followed by breakfast at a local café. Later, her brother took her out to lunch. but the grand finale was that afternoon at rehearsal for her school’s upcoming musical, The Prince of Egypt.
My wife showed up with flowers, balloons, cakes-in-a-cup and party favor bracelets for the entire cast.
When everyone suddenly broke into “Happy Birthday,” the look on my daughter’s face was priceless…genuine shock, followed by surprising joy, laughter, and hugs.
At least… that’s what was remembered.
You see, my wife asked one of our sons to record it all. And record it he did. With great enthusiasm. But there was just one small problem: the camera wasn’t focused on my daughter.
So instead of capturing the once-in-a-lifetime reaction, we now own a high-definition, two-minute cinematic masterpiece of… a wall.
It’s funny now (and yes, we’ll have fun teasing him about it in future days), but it also reminded me of something important: when your focus is off, you’re not going to get the ‘results’ you’re wanting.
And that’s not just true with cameras. It’s true with health.
Think about how often we put our health focus in the wrong place:
Relying on pain relievers to cover up discomfort instead of asking, “What’s causing this in the first place?”
Putting off care and hoping the issue will simply “work itself out.”
Ignoring warning signs until the problem grows bigger and harder to manage.
Focusing only on where it hurts instead of looking at how the whole body is working together.
When the focus is wrong, the picture is blurry. You might get temporary relief, but you never capture the full image of health you were hoping for.
When the focus stays blurred, you don’t just lose clarity, you lose the moments that make life rich: a sunrise stroll, a meal around the table, the celebration you’ll never get back.
But here’s the good news: focus can be adjusted. Just like turning a camera lens brings the picture back into clarity, shifting your attention from covering up symptoms to addressing the root cause can bring results that are life changing.
When you look past the symptoms and restore function at the root, good things begin to happen.
The body, designed by God as a self-regulating, self-healing organism, can finally do what it was created to do: repair, recover, and restore.
Pain decreases, function improves, and suddenly you’re able to take on the tasks and moments that once felt out of reach.
And that’s the real reminder of the birthday “wall video.”
Yes, we laughed about it.
Yes, we’ll always joke that the wall got more screen time than my daughter.
But we were thankful the family was healthy enough to celebrate, laugh, love, and make memories together.
That’s really the bigger picture with health.
It’s not about having perfect circumstances, or perfect footage, or perfect plans.
It’s about being present, able to show up for the sunrises, the family breakfasts, and the once-in-a-lifetime celebrations.
Because those moments don’t come twice.
You can laugh off a missed video, but you don’t want to miss the memories themselves.
So be a good steward of your health so you can be there, fully present, for the people and the moments that matter most.
Dr. Derek ‘off the wall’ Taylor
www.drderektaylor.com
561-867-1020