11/22/2025
I Do It for Her is one year old 🥳 I can’t believe it’s already been one year since this memoir was published.
I was terrified before this book came out. Writing a truly authentic book meant telling a lot of flawed, ugly and raw things about me and my family.
But, if I’m going to help other women like me, with complex trauma, addiction, betrayal love and s*x addictions then I need to be real about it. Who am I to walk others through their shame if I have not?
It was cathartic for me to write this memoir but even more cathartic to release it.
In this past year I have stepped into a confidence that I never thought would be attainable. The kind where I am so at peace with who I am, where my life is and where it is going. Literally, this has been a handing over to God what he wants to do with this book and my story. My mom, dad, sister, brother and I have never been closer. I don’t think that’s by mistake. We have a deep love and one that only can be felt when you’ve walked through a bunch of crap together and we’re all still standing. No longer are we bound by secrets and addiction.
My kids still haven’t read it and really don’t care to read it lol. They know who their mom is. They’ve been raised by her.
Now, if my hormones would get on board with all of this feel good stuff it would be great! lol This perimenopause is no joke.
Thank you to every single one of you who have supported this book. Thank you to who have messaged me, emailed, called to tell me your experience with the memoir. Thank you to all the ones who have written a review (that really helps other people find it), and thank you to my friends and family who have supported this walk through my shame to release such a story.
Love ❤️
Kim
