10/24/2025
We used to shake our heads at the word calm. I mean seriously, who had time for that?
We had work to do, laundry to flip, fitness goals to achieve, and meals to prep…
You know exactly what we’re talking about, right?
We thought
→ “I’m not here to relax, I’m here to be productive.”
→ “I don’t have time to journal, breathe, and sit in silence.”
→ “I’ll rest when I’m on vacation.”
But now we know calm also means we don’t snap at loved ones when we’re overwhelmed.
It means we can focus and finish what we started.
It means we don’t need a nap at 3 p.m. and then try to crank up our energy with caffeine.
Being calm doesn’t mean you’re living in a zen-like state ALL the time…
It means having the mental reserves (aka bandwidth) for the things that actually matter—like enjoying time on the golf course or taking our dog for a long walk.
And once we started caring about that… everything changed.
Tell us — what would more bandwidth mean for you? More energy? Better focus? Greater patience? We’d love to hear!