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07/24/2025

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07/23/2025

She explains the difference in types of Dementia and Alzheimers which of a the most
common type of dementia .

07/17/2025

🌙 The Long Goodbye 💔

If you’re caring for a loved one with dementia, Alzheimer’s, or chronic illness… you may know exactly what “The Long Goodbye” feels like.

It’s grieving someone who’s still here.
It’s watching pieces of them fade, memory by memory.
It’s having conversations that feel one-sided, and visits that feel heavier with each goodbye.

This kind of loss doesn’t come all at once—it comes in slow waves. And with every wave, we say goodbye to a little more of the person we once knew.

💬 Maybe you’ve said:

“She’s not the same anymore.”
“He doesn’t remember my name.”
“I miss them… even though they’re right in front of me.”
That’s the long goodbye.
And if you’re walking through it—you’re not alone.

Hold space for your heart.
You’re doing something sacred.
And even if they can’t say it anymore…
You are deeply loved.

🕊️💞
Know that we have Grief Resources to assistDuring tve journey 🙏🌹

07/07/2025

⏳ How Long Does It Take for a Loved One to Adjust After Moving Into a Care Home?

The honest answer:

It depends—on their personality, health, and level of memory loss or dementia.

But here’s a general guide many families experience:

✅ 1 to 2 Weeks:

Initial adjustment period.
They may feel confused, withdrawn, or even upset.
This is normal—remember, they’ve left behind familiar routines and surroundings.

✅ 1 to 3 Months:

They begin to recognize caregivers, adapt to daily routines, and engage in small ways.
Familiar faces and activities help spark comfort.

✅ 3 to 6 Months:

Most residents begin to feel “at home” during this stage.
They may have favorite staff, favorite spots, or favorite activities.

💡 Important Tip:

For seniors with dementia or memory loss, this process can take longer and may look different.
They may not fully “remember” the move, but they often adapt emotionally to routines, faces, and daily life.

❤️ What Helps?

🌸Consistent visits and reassurance from family
🌸Bringing familiar items from home (photos, blankets, favorite chairs)
🌸Keeping a calm, positive tone during visits
🌸Giving them—and yourself—grace and patience

✨ Closing Thought:

Adjustment takes time, but with compassionate care and support, most seniors find comfort and connection again.

If you’re feeling unsure about your loved one’s adjustment, we’re here to listen and help guide you through it.

📞 386-338-8856

“New environments take time—especially for aging loved ones. Patience, routine, and love go a long way.”

07/07/2025

🏡 When Is It Time to Sell Your Parents’ House?
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It’s a question many families wrestle with…
"Is it time to sell my parents’ home?"

The truth?
This decision isn’t just financial—it’s deeply emotional.

That house holds decades of memories, milestones, laughter, and love. ❤️

But here’s something to gently ask yourself:

💡 Is holding onto the home helping your parents—or holding back their care?

Here are a few signs it might be time to consider selling:

✔️ Your parents have permanently moved to assisted living, memory care, or in with family
✔️ The home is sitting empty, becoming a financial and emotional burden
✔️ Selling could help fund their care, reduce stress, or support their quality of life
✔️ Maintenance, taxes, or repairs are piling up, with no clear benefit to them

💬 Remember: Selling the home doesn’t erase the memories inside it.
You can still:

👉🏻Save keepsakes or heirlooms
👉🏻Take photos or videos of meaningful places inside
👉🏻Hold a family gathering to honor the home and its legacy
👉🏻Focus on making sure your parents are safe, comfortable, and well cared for
❤️ If you're facing this decision, know this:
You are not alone. Many families have walked this path—and we’re here to help guide you through it with care, compassion, and resources.

📞 386-338-8856
📍 Let’s navigate this together.

07/07/2025

🚫 When “Helping” Can Put Your Loved One in Danger: The Hidden Risk of Driving with Dementia
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It’s one of the hardest decisions a family can face:

👉 Taking away the keys.

Many families try to “help” by:

👉🏻Adding GPS devices
👉🏻Printing written directions
👉🏻Setting speed limit alerts
👉🏻Calling frequently during trips

But here’s the hard truth:
Even with these tools, getting lost isn’t the only risk.

💡 What if they:

👉🏻Panic when traffic patterns change?
👉🏻Confuse gas and brake pedals?
👉🏻Forget what street signs mean?
👉🏻Freeze mid-drive and block traffic?
👉🏻Wander on foot after parking in an unfamiliar area?
👉🏻Memory loss affects judgment and reaction time, not just navigation.

❤️ It’s not about independence—it’s about safety.
Protecting your loved one means protecting other drivers, pedestrians, and them from harm.

✋ If this sounds familiar, it may be time for a tough—but necessary—conversation.

Our team can help guide you through these difficult transitions with compassion and resources.

📞 Call us anytime to learn more about safe care options.

07/07/2025

Understanding the Stages of Dementia: A Journey of Compassion & Care
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Dementia isn’t just forgetfulness. It’s a progressive condition that affects memory, thinking, and daily function over time.

Here’s a gentle overview of the common stages many families experience:

1️⃣ Early Stage (Mild):

👉🏻Forgetfulness of recent events
👉🏻Misplacing items
👉🏻Difficulty finding words
👉🏻Mild mood changes

➡️ Many people still live independently but may need reminders and emotional support.

2️⃣ Middle Stage (Moderate):

👉🏻Increased confusion
👉🏻Needing help with daily tasks (meals, hygiene)
👉🏻Sleep disruptions
👉🏻Personality changes or wandering

➡️ This is often the hardest stage for family caregivers, as supervision becomes necessary.

3️⃣ Late Stage (Severe):

👉🏻Severe memory loss, including recognizing loved ones
👉🏻Difficulty walking, swallowing, or speaking
👉🏻Full-time care required for safety, comfort, and dignity

➡️ Compassionate, specialized care makes all the difference here.

💡 Remember: Every person’s dementia journey is unique—but no one has to face it alone.

If you're feeling overwhelmed or unsure about the next step for your loved one, we’re here to listen and help guide you. 💛

📞 386-338-8856

📍 Schedule a private tour or consultation.

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07/05/2025

Have not posted in a couple of weeks here. I will get back to it. We have had some changes in our care home and needed to reset. We lost our resident who was with us for the past 5-6 years. Losing our family members never gets any easier.
However, in the process of it all my heart was filled with memories of him. Heaven Gaines an angel and all the while recently an angel kissed my grand daughter and sent her here. I’m now basking in being a first time grandmother ❤️
God is so good in SO many ways 🙏😇
Love your people and hold them tight. 💕

06/26/2025

Morning Blessing for Families
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"May today bring you peace, reassurance, and the knowing that your loved one is safe and surrounded by love at Inverness Cottage."

06/20/2025

🕯️ Preparing the Room: A Holistic Approach to End-of-Life Care

Creating a space of peace, dignity, and presence at Inverness Cottage

End-of-life is a sacred time. A well-prepared room honors not just the resident’s comfort but their spirit. It should feel safe, soothing, and sacred — a place where they are held with love and presence.

🌿 Step 1: Physical Comfort & Clinical Readiness

✔️ Ensure clean linens and soft blankets (not overly clinical)
✔️ Adjust lighting to a soft, warm glow (dim overhead lights, use lamps)
✔️ Position bed for easy breathing, sitting, or turning
✔️ Place comfort items within reach: tissues, water, lip balm, eye drops,mouth swabs,prayer beads, etc.
✔️ Keep medication, supplies, and PPE nearby — but discreet

🌼 Step 2: Sensory & Emotional Environment

✔️ Use essential oils gently (lavender, frankincense, or eucalyptus)
✔️ Play soft, calming music (resident’s favorite hymns, nature sounds, etc.)
✔️ Bring in fresh flowers or plants (low-scent, non-allergenic)
✔️ Avoid alarms or loud hallway noise — promote a hush of calm
✔️ Keep temperature cozy and adaptable (resident may chill easily)

✨ Step 3: Personal & Spiritual Touches

✔️ Add framed photos of family or special memories
✔️ Offer a spiritual symbol: cross, rosary, scripture, affirmations, or other item based on their beliefs
✔️ Invite family to bring personal items or keepsakes
✔️ Leave a blank notebook for loved ones to write thoughts, prayers, or letters

💞 Step 4: Connection and Caregiver Presence

✔️ Use gentle voice tones and slow, intentional movements
✔️ Sit with the resident, hold hands, or offer gentle touch as desired
✔️ Speak lovingly even if the resident seems unresponsive — hearing is the last sense to go
✔️ Encourage family members to be present, or simply rest nearby in a chair or recliner

🌙 Optional: Sacred Rituals
Light a candle (real or LED) at bedside
Offer hand or foot massages with lotion
Read aloud poems, scriptures, or letters
Play a recording of a loved one’s voice or a favorite prayer

Inverness Cottage Philosophy:

We believe end-of-life is not just a medical moment — it’s a meaningful transition. Preparing the room with holistic care brings peace to the resident and all who enter.

🕊️ “What we do in the final hours echoes in the hearts of families forever.” 🕊️

One my of my favorite moments during this spiritual journey; the last bath—- I take my time with each step while embracing each moment each stroke each wipe, breathing in the aromatic scents in the soaps and lotions as we prepare our loved one’s body for transition. Eternalizing them feeling the moments of peace and love and serenity. As we both make peace knowing we loved, cared and appreciated each other so deeply. 🌹🎁

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