04/16/2026
Love is the Way. Truth is the Path by Bill Gisclair-Sullivan - A Reflection on the phrase that has become my Mantra
I used to think there was somewhere to arrive…
a place ahead of me
where everything would finally make sense…
where I would feel whole…
at peace.
So I searched.
Through ideas…
through roles…
through the many versions of who
I thought I needed to be.
But the more I searched…
the more I felt it…
a quiet tiredness.
Tired of chasing…
tired of trying to become
someone other than who I already was.
And one day…
in a moment that felt almost ordinary…
I stopped.
Not because I had found the answer…
but because I could no longer pretend
the search was taking me where I longed to go.
And in that stopping…
something softened.
The noise quieted…
the effort fell away…
and for the first time…
I wasn’t trying to get anywhere.
I was simply here.
Breathing…
feeling…
listening…
And it was there…
in that quiet presence…
that I began to see.
Love was never waiting at the end.
It wasn’t something to earn…
or prove…
It was already here.
In the breath…
in the heart that still opens…
in the willingness
to stay with myself
without turning away.
Love was not the destination…
Love is the way.
And truth…
truth was never something
to figure out.
It wasn’t hidden…
or far away…
It was here too.
In the honesty of what I feel…
in the courage to see clearly…
in the willingness
to be with what is.
Truth is not a place…
Truth is the path.
And in that…
I no longer need to chase
a future to feel complete.
Because when I walk in love…
and stand in truth…
I am already
where I’ve been trying to go.
So now…
when I feel lost…
I return to something simple.
I soften into love…
and I listen for truth.
And in that…
the way appears…
the path unfolds…
and I remember…
I was never separate
from what I was seeking.
Love is the way…
Truth is the path.
— Bill Gisclair-Sullivan