Self Healing Immersion, Palmyra, WI (2025)

10/27/2024

Storytelling is the #1 way to inspire clients and create Brand for your online business.

The Heroes Journey is a key to storytelling that has been used by Hollywood and Broadway for years. That makes Billions of $ every year.

So, what could keep a person from telling their story with the power to influence and impact generations?

Shame, Guilt, Resentment and procrastination are all symptoms of limiting beliefs and hidden traumas that pile up on top of your original story.

For many years like more than 21 years I was in shame to share my story and now people continue to tell me how amazed they are of my story and the quality of the storytelling ability.

But, how?

I needed to accept, forgive, and reframe my view of the narrative I had been telling myself.

I needed a coach, actually several coaches to help me get to the point of sharing with joy and passion; my story did not happen to me, it happened for my ability to tell a story so powerful and so deeply impacting that now it is on demand and has been shared in many podcasts. It seems surreal and like it is someone elses' story.

come back to yourself and the original self will emerge.

Link in comments to watch the full YouTube video.

Hector

10/09/2024

EVERY BUSINESS IS A SPIRTUAL EVENT (business of people). Businesses is no business!

That statement is something I learned from Tony Robbins years ago.

Every one has a story they believe why they can't; also learned from Tony Robbins

Storytelling is a term that sounds salesy, and most people think they already know what it means.

But and it is a BIG BUT Storytelling like an Epic Hollywood Movie is so much more than a tool, technique or a slick way of communicating.

The Legacy Blueprint: How to tell YOUR Story Like A Epic Movie To Attract Soul Aligned Clients In The 90 Days- this is and all in one...

Branding, Marketing, Messaging, and Offer is all in this workshop.

Your properly positioned story is the quantum entanglement and the song of the mermaid in the ocean of emotions and the rocks of distraction; your tribe is dying to hear and resonate with...

There is still time to show up and register {deets bellow)
, Legacy Leaders

09/10/2024

Why storytelling is important for entrepreneurs and selling themselves, their coaching programs and their services

In summary, storytelling is not just a marketing tactic; it's a strategic tool that helps entrepreneurs connect with their audience on a deeper level, differentiate themselves, and effectively communicate the value of their offerings. It turns abstract concepts into relatable experiences, builds trust, and ultimately drives action.
StoryTelling, when done right is Branding, Callout to potential Clients, Marketing, even the Offer in your voice and your soul’s mission (context of your identity).

For example; My story is that I was a professional boxer, soldier and entrepreneur. I had community, family and wealth, all I wanted to achieve I did have… Except I was living inside with fears of falsehood, the imposter syndrome. I became a quadriplegic in a horse related accident. It took me 4 years to recover, physically and 21! Years to get my head back on my shoulder and stop the victimhood mindset. On 2-22-2023 I walked into a boxing gym and spared 2 men in their 20’s while I was in my 50’s.

Victory!

The life lessons and the wisdom as a foster parent to 40 children, 1000’s of hours as pastoral counselor (former), training and self development tools to heal myself. Gave me the wisdom; practical application of multi disciplined knowledge to help me and others. I learned by living out the word RESILIENT.

When you can craft your storytelling, this is known as wordsmith. You drive deep into the subconscious that we are all one. The only difference is who is activated enough to take action.

Storytelling does what for the reader;

1. Building Emotional Connections
Engagement: People are naturally drawn to stories. They captivate attention and keep the audience engaged. For entrepreneurs, telling a compelling story helps create a connection with potential clients, making them more likely to trust and buy from them.
Relatability: Stories allow entrepreneurs to showcase their personal journeys, struggles, and successes, making them more relatable. When clients see themselves in the entrepreneur’s story, they feel understood and are more inclined to engage.
2. Differentiation from Competitors
Unique Identity: In a crowded market, (Blue vs red Ocean) storytelling helps entrepreneurs stand out. While competitors may offer similar services, the unique narrative behind an entrepreneur's journey and values sets them apart.
Memorable Impact: Stories are easier to remember than facts or figures. A memorable story can keep an entrepreneur’s brand in the minds of potential clients long after the initial interaction.
3. Demonstrating Value and Purpose
Clarifying Mission: Storytelling can articulate the “why” behind an entrepreneur’s business. It helps convey their passion, purpose, and the value they bring to their clients, making their offerings more compelling.
Showcasing Results: Through storytelling, entrepreneurs can share real-life examples of how their coaching programs or services have made a difference. These success stories serve as powerful testimonials, providing social proof of their effectiveness.
4. Building Credibility and Trust
Transparency: Sharing personal stories, including challenges and failures, demonstrates authenticity. Clients are more likely to trust someone who is open about their journey rather than someone who only presents a polished image.
Establishing Expertise: Entrepreneurs can use stories to showcase their expertise, experience, and problem-solving abilities. By narrating how they’ve overcome obstacles or helped others succeed, they build credibility with their audience.
5. Inspiring Action
Motivation: A well-told story can inspire potential clients to take action. Whether it’s signing up for a program or purchasing a service, stories that resonate emotionally can motivate people to move forward.
Call to Action: Stories provide a natural lead-in to a call to action. After drawing in the audience with a narrative, entrepreneurs can guide them toward the next step, whether it’s a consultation, subscription, or purchase.
6. Simplifying Complex Ideas
Breaking Down Information: Entrepreneurs often need to explain complex ideas or processes. Storytelling simplifies these concepts, making them more accessible and understandable to clients who might otherwise be overwhelmed.
Making Abstract Concepts Concrete: By putting abstract ideas into the context of a story, entrepreneurs can make them more relatable and easier for clients to grasp.
7. Enhancing Brand Identity
Brand is what you are remembered by, and what people say about you when you are no longer around to tell your story. Branding brings these 9 elements to a strong association.
1. Creates a Relatable Persona
2. Elicits Empathy
3. Inspires and Motivates
4. Builds Trust Through Vulnerability
5. Aligns with Client Values
6. Demonstrates Shared Experiences
7. Engages the Imagination
8. Provides a Sense of Belonging
9. Invokes Positive Emotions
Positive stories, such as those of success, joy, or gratitude, evoke positive emotions in clients. These emotions are often associated with the brand or entrepreneur who shared the story.
Positive emotional experiences lead to stronger, more positive associations with the brand, increasing the likelihood of long-term loyalty.

I used to be ashamed of my story, embarrassed for my failures and resented the lost time and effort of all the family pain I had caused. I felt without redemption.
It was coaching and storytelling that helped me overcome my mindset. I was suicidal, angry and a dissgruntal veteran. Now I live the life I only thought possible in someone else’s dreams.
I have gone from extreme poverty growing up to closing sales, generating $7 million in revenue, owning 13 horses, 52.5 Acres of land,owning 4 houses and visiting every state in the union.
AND, I WAS ASHAMED OF MY STORY!
Telling me my story in such a way that it is truth and painless, healed my Soul. Brought me into a renewed relationship with loved ones and family. Showed me how to love again, to find my soulmate, to love living in community and serenity.
That is why I am inviting you to my workshop on October 9th.

09/06/2024

Why storytelling is important for entrepreneurs and selling themselves, their coaching programs and their services

In summary, storytelling is not just a marketing tactic; it's a strategic tool that helps entrepreneurs connect with their audience on a deeper level, differentiate themselves, and effectively communicate the value of their offerings. It turns abstract concepts into relatable experiences, builds trust, and ultimately drives action.
StoryTelling, when done right is Branding, Callout to potential Clients, Marketing, even the Offer in your voice and your soul’s mission (context of your identity).

For example; My story is that I was a professional boxer, soldier and entrepreneur. I had community, family and wealth, all I wanted to achieve I did have… Except I was living inside with fears of falsehood, the imposter syndrome. I became a quadriplegic in a horse related accident. It took me 4 years to recover, physically and 21! Years to get my head back on my shoulder and stop the victimhood mindset. On 2-22-2023 I walked into a boxing gym and spared 2 men in their 20’s while I was in my 50’s.

Victory!

The life lessons and the wisdom as a foster parent to 40 children, 1000’s of hours as pastoral counselor (former), training and self development tools to heal myself. Gave me the wisdom; practical application of multi disciplined knowledge to help me and others. I learned by living out the word RESILIENT.

When you can craft your storytelling, this is known as wordsmith. You drive deep into the subconscious that we are all one. The only difference is who is activated enough to take action.

Storytelling does what for the reader;

1. Building Emotional Connections
Engagement: People are naturally drawn to stories. They captivate attention and keep the audience engaged. For entrepreneurs, telling a compelling story helps create a connection with potential clients, making them more likely to trust and buy from them.
Relatability: Stories allow entrepreneurs to showcase their personal journeys, struggles, and successes, making them more relatable. When clients see themselves in the entrepreneur’s story, they feel understood and are more inclined to engage.
2. Differentiation from Competitors
Unique Identity: In a crowded market, (Blue vs red Ocean) storytelling helps entrepreneurs stand out. While competitors may offer similar services, the unique narrative behind an entrepreneur's journey and values sets them apart.
Memorable Impact: Stories are easier to remember than facts or figures. A memorable story can keep an entrepreneur’s brand in the minds of potential clients long after the initial interaction.
3. Demonstrating Value and Purpose
Clarifying Mission: Storytelling can articulate the “why” behind an entrepreneur’s business. It helps convey their passion, purpose, and the value they bring to their clients, making their offerings more compelling.
Showcasing Results: Through storytelling, entrepreneurs can share real-life examples of how their coaching programs or services have made a difference. These success stories serve as powerful testimonials, providing social proof of their effectiveness.
4. Building Credibility and Trust
Transparency: Sharing personal stories, including challenges and failures, demonstrates authenticity. Clients are more likely to trust someone who is open about their journey rather than someone who only presents a polished image.
Establishing Expertise: Entrepreneurs can use stories to showcase their expertise, experience, and problem-solving abilities. By narrating how they’ve overcome obstacles or helped others succeed, they build credibility with their audience.
5. Inspiring Action
Motivation: A well-told story can inspire potential clients to take action. Whether it’s signing up for a program or purchasing a service, stories that resonate emotionally can motivate people to move forward.
Call to Action: Stories provide a natural lead-in to a call to action. After drawing in the audience with a narrative, entrepreneurs can guide them toward the next step, whether it’s a consultation, subscription, or purchase.
6. Simplifying Complex Ideas
Breaking Down Information: Entrepreneurs often need to explain complex ideas or processes. Storytelling simplifies these concepts, making them more accessible and understandable to clients who might otherwise be overwhelmed.
Making Abstract Concepts Concrete: By putting abstract ideas into the context of a story, entrepreneurs can make them more relatable and easier for clients to grasp.
7. Enhancing Brand Identity
Brand is what you are remembered by, and what people say about you when you are no longer around to tell your story. Branding brings these 9 elements to a strong association.
1. Creates a Relatable Persona
2. Elicits Empathy
3. Inspires and Motivates
4. Builds Trust Through Vulnerability
5. Aligns with Client Values
6. Demonstrates Shared Experiences
7. Engages the Imagination
8. Provides a Sense of Belonging
9. Invokes Positive Emotions
Positive stories, such as those of success, joy, or gratitude, evoke positive emotions in clients. These emotions are often associated with the brand or entrepreneur who shared the story.
Positive emotional experiences lead to stronger, more positive associations with the brand, increasing the likelihood of long-term loyalty.

I used to be ashamed of my story, embarrassed for my failures and resented the lost time and effort of all the family pain I had caused. I felt without redemption.
It was coaching and storytelling that helped me overcome my mindset. I was suicidal, angry and a dissgruntal veteran. Now I live the life I only thought possible in someone else’s dreams.

Join me for this workshop in 5 weeks: Oct 9th Register now!

08/26/2024

What’s Your Story, And Why The Hell Aren’t You Sharing It?

I get it. You’re thinking, “Why should I share my story?

I’m too busy building my business, focusing on the next deal, or grinding it out to create something that will last.”

You’ve been told that to build a legacy, you’ve got to sacrifice the now.

That you’ll have time later to talk about your journey, once you’ve ‘made it.’

Wrong.

Dead wrong.

Here’s the Truth....

If you’re not sharing your story right now, you’re leaving money, influence, and legacy on the table.

You’re hustling, but you’re invisible to the people who need to see you the most.

Let’s be real for a second.

In today’s market, just being good at what you do isn’t enough.

There are thousands of entrepreneurs out there, all fighting for the same slice of the pie.

But what separates the ones who rise to the top, who truly become leaders, isn’t just hard work—it’s their ability to connect on a deep, human level.

That’s done through the power of storytelling.

Storytelling isn’t some fluffy, feel-good exercise.

It’s the difference between being a commodity and being a leader.
It’s what transforms an entrepreneur into a Legacy Leader—a man whose impact echoes through time, whose influence isn’t just felt in his lifetime but ripples across generations.

Why does storytelling matter?

Because stories stick.

Facts, figures, and features are easy to forget, but a compelling story?

That resonates.

It’s remembered.

It’s shared.

When you tell your story effectively, you’re not just selling a product or service—you’re selling a vision, a mission, a way of life that your dream clients want to be part of.

Sharing your story positions you as the number one leader in your industry.

It connects you with the right people—those who believe in your mission, who align with your values, and who are ready to follow you because they see themselves in your journey.

And when that connection happens, it creates a viral effect.

Your story gets told, retold, and spread far beyond your immediate reach.

Think about it.

The most SUCCESSFUL entrepreneurs aren’t just businesspeople.
They’re STORYTELLERS.

They know how to craft a narrative that draws people in, keeps them hooked, and leaves them wanting more.

They understand that their story is their most powerful tool.
Not just for building a business, but for creating a legacy.

So, if you’re serious about becoming a leader—if you’re serious about not just making money but making an impact—then you need to start sharing your story.

Not tomorrow, not when you ‘have time,’ but right now.

Your legacy doesn’t begin when you retire; it starts the moment you decide to step up and lead.

If this resonates with you and you want to use your unique story to drive revenue and sales in your business as an entrepreneur, coach, or leader…

I’m hosting a free workshop on October 9th at 6 PM CT / 5 PM EST on this exact topic, and I would love to see you there.
The link to sign up is in the comments.
Hector

07/23/2024

Legacy Builders!

Is your “Achiever lifestyle” negatively affecting your personal/intimate space?

Every single time “the numbers check out”, everything that matters seems to fall apart.

Does your drive work against you?

Are you someone who…. Has been blind-sided by guilt or resentment for all the time you’ve lost?

Have you ever felt “I’ve been less than half of “THE MAN”, for more than half my life”?

Do you feel poorly equipped to handle heart-centered decisions? Or like the GOOD heart-centered decisions you’ve made, you just got lucky and wish there was a manual?

If you answered yes to any one of these Qs above; this is for you.

Even if you thought, maybe? this is also for you.

I have recked my brain for 28 years, wrapping around what was in my face.

The Anterior Mid Singular Cortex {AMSC} in both side of the brain hemisphere is the simple connection I needed to realize.

ALL THE SELF SABOTAGE, PTSD, GUILT, SHAME AND RESENTMENT, GONE AND SETTLED!!

If you are like me who has looked into and or done some (if not all) of the following: Ayyawaska, detox, cleanse programs, decalcification of your pineal gland, amygdala reset or any such things.
What I discovered is that there is no secret but a bounce back power that has changed my life forever.

IAM PUTING A PROGRRAM AND EVENT TO SHARE WITH MEN.

If you resonate with this and want to learn more or would attend a workshop, show you interest and when I get it done I will let you know.
comment; AMSC

06/04/2024

Divorce to Destiny: Transforming Adversity into Triumphs

Because if you get divorced, you know that’s goanna cost you,?

Well, if you’ve got a company that’s running it, let's say $500,000 you might lose half of the company half of your business, you spend two years negotiating your own emotional and mental attitude.

You’ll have to deal with the scorn and the bruising of everyone involved.

You could spend tens of thousands of dollars (and the time loss is incalculable) on counseling and therapy just for you but maybe your kids as well into the hundred thousand.

But I know you don’t want that.

What I do know is that you want respect.

You want a wife that gives you love for the man that you are, not for what you do for her.

You want relationships with the kids so they come running towards you to share what happened in their day with excitement.

You want your name to be called when they hurt or are scared.

You want to walk into your business and be courageous (not act as if) with your stance and your opinions of the direction of where you need to go with the partners in your business.

You want to be able to manage your time so you have more freedom to be able to have that candlelit dinner with your wife, vs being handled by time and urgencies.

So you can have that moment (create the magic) where you can hang with the boys and evolve your own soul so giving yourself some peace inside your own heart.

You want your kids to look into your eyes (not another man) and say, you have taught me so much about how to be a better human.

You wanna get home at the end of the day and be welcomed with loving arms (not to a nagging woman) and know that you are building a legacy together (trust based not legalities) that would last for decades.

If you’re ready to create a vision, and only the most courageous admit that they need guidance to make sure that their family thrives.

You can Google it and watch YouTube videos (maybe that's what you’ve done) until the sun comes up.

You can spend years trying to decipher the information and figure it out or worse, join the club of failure 101.

Or you can spend 60 days with me and shift your whole existence and bring back the love, the respect and the money back into your life by owning who you are as a man and being brutally honest about what it takes to be the leader of your household.

I’ve got space for a one on one client.

Just give me a like on this post and I’ll do the rest

05/21/2024

DA’Man!- why U still F’up
The solution is simple- the application is difficult (not complex)

It’s not the women, not the quantity nor the qualities;
It’s deeper

It’s not the situation (s) nor what happened;

It’s deeper

It’s not about fault finding;

It’s deeper

You’re an empathetic man, you’ve been fighting the Dragon 🐉 in the bottoms of your castle, only to run away again and again.

Are you 🤴 ready to show up and become the dragon rider?

The deeper stuff

Every man has a beast inside of him.

If this man’s father did not initiate him into king 👑 ship - he gets stuck in thin-king without a soul’s mission, afraid of his own heart energies (metaphysical thinking heart).

The depths of the subconscious (thinking heart) become a dungeon for the beast that grows up into a drag-on 🐉 (time drags on and pain increases)

Fatherless thinking attempts to kill; sometimes the dragons other times himself and sometimes…
The dragon 🐉 destroys moments of love and happiness… time drags on and the thin king thrice bitten makes an enemy combatant of the dragon, that beast who deserves no mercy!

In the deepest part of HIM there’s treasure’s untold stories waiting, like goblets of pure gold of magical powers. Once you drink the cup never runs dry! Jewels of wisdom…
But,
The dragon 🐉 can’t be killed, it is eternal, and it has only one ☝️ place of weakness.

The seat 💺 a 🪑 the custom made throne {the stone 🪨 that the builder rejected with a the sword 🗡️ in bedded in it} .

Only you can be the champ stop acting like a chump.

You are not a chimp in need of evolution you are a dragon rider in need of elevation !

Your still playing small the role of a kid in the stage of life!
There’s no damsel in distress, only a witch 🧙‍♀️that offers the apples of temporary pleasures. That which makes you weak and sleepy 🥱.

¡THAT IS NOT YOUR QUEEN!

You’re a SLAVE to money 💰 because, you serve in another’s kingdom- while your Trust and Treasure wait for the claimant of your inheritance…

YOU

THE REAL royalty’s blood-line.
Your soul’s transcendence is the common-unity that will for ever seal and heal the past and secure the future in the present 💝 of your presence .

But you must be willing to pay the price…
The sound of freedom is your soul’s mission alignment.

Youn Grasshopper/Dragonfly;
I have told you nothing!
For U already known this from beforehand when you chose to comeback in this dimension.

So, choose you, today, whom will you serve?

If you’re made in the image of G-D the be
If you’re nothing more than a chip, go on and make noise, swinging from branch to branch…

Or meet me at the scrimmage line (direct message)
Not everyone is welcomed- Fact!

05/17/2024

Tangible FEAR IN MEN is a real thing!

I don’t like surface conversations, specially when it comes to men!
The high value businessmen that I mentor amd provide guidance are powerful and there’s a lot of such guys, even if Social
Media reports otherwise.

Yet, I do meet up with amazing potential and these men literally will SHRINK BACK! they drop their shoulders and move backwards lower their tone of voice as they continue to share with me.
Their storytelling about what happened or why they are still waiting to play full out! They know how to serve, some lnow what to do!

Bit the BLOCKAGE os real and inside their soul’s mission.

I can smell the fear, see it and feel as they embrace it. I don’t think they are as aware as I am. I know they’ve convinced only one person- themselves!

Don’t get me wrong! They are high functioning men in social networks and are raising children, with loving partners, but when I have those deeply moving conversations that touch the soul. That’s a different type of man that retreats into a safe zone.
This is the man that will go to retreats, and vacations, webinars and summits (online,mostly) they come up pumped like pimps but dropped and rolled over like a B!

I am not making fun because this guys are emotionally disconnected and in need of help.

Most don’t even understand their own emotions.

I used to be that man! Young, strong and powerful. A soldier’s soldier, pro boxer and extreme athlete… one day I…

Became a quadriplegic- I also fully recovered and NO! I am not super anything just a man.

Whose struggles and failures made me mature and by default a mentor and spiritual mindset guide. I am not a shamman, channeler nor do I speak for “others” just me and my experiences have found expression in my voice!

I am healed and grounded in body, mind and soul.
My soul’s mission alignment is SOUL'S TRANSENDENCE I can be your cornerman but not your cornerstone, I am the founder of my rapid healing metaphysical program but, not your foundation.

I am an OATH KEEPER like you: “I walk besides you not infront, behind nor above but by your side!

My loyalty to my oat is as my loyalty to my brothers…

Together we are the squad that has your 6!

If I failed you it’s because I have felled.

If you’re resonating with anything here, you’re not alittle allien alone..

Share this with someone and take some action to be all that - you can be!

Simple don’t waste your tomorrow in maybes nor your today’s in someday.

Besides sharing here’s some options;

1-Check in to souls transcendence

2- inquire about our Advance Experience 24 hr ⛺️ 🔥 campfire program.

3- the June online businessmen immersion for a limited number of guys.

4- DM me for a coffee chat

05/16/2024

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