11/06/2024
Let’s remember a lesson from
When Bing B**g loses his wagon, his prized possession, his connection to Riley’s childhood. He’s shattered. Joy, ever the relentless optimist, pushes him to get up, shake it off, and keep moving forward. She’s charismatic, persuasive, unflappable.
But Bing B**g can’t just “get up.” He’s too broken, too deep in his sorrow.
Sadness comes, who doesn’t try to fix him, doesn’t try to hustle him out of his pain. She just sits with him, lets him speak his grief, honors what that wagon meant to him. And it’s only in that quiet, connected space that Bing B**g begins to heal.
He finds the strength to get back up, not because someone pushed him, but because someone listened and was willing to “be with”him- authentically.
The lesson is sometimes, life hits us hard, and the solution isn’t to bounce back instantly or power through. Sometimes, we need to feel the weight, sit in it, let it say what it has to say. Because only when we acknowledge that sadness can we truly move forward.
So today, if things feel heavy, don’t rush. Take the time you need. And when you’re ready, we’ll be here—ready to move forward together.
~ Cary