01/12/2026
Tales from a Chronic Starvation Dieter
I have practiced starvation dieting since I was 12 years old.
Not intentionally starving… just constantly eating less than my body needed because that’s what women were taught to do. Smaller portions. Lean protein. Low fat. Diet drinks full of harmful artificial sweeteners.
Did I ever hit my weight goals? Sure, once or twice. But I also struggled with thyroid issues, hormonal issues, PCOS, chronic illness, and autoimmune issues.
Here’s what I see over and over again in practice now:
The biggest metabolic issue women have isn’t overeating. It’s chronic under-eating.
When you consistently fail to fuel your body, your thyroid adapts. Your metabolism downshifts. Your lymphatic system slows. Your hormones conserve instead of thrive.
Then menopause hits. 🫣
And everyone blames menopause…when in reality, many women are entering it already metabolically broken from decades of starvation dieting.
Two years ago, I changed everything.
I stopped fearing red meat.
I embraced animal fat.
I ate real breakfasts like this one.
And my body responded immediately.
My lymphatic system started draining properly. My energy stabilized. My body composition changed. My nervous system felt safer. Most of my chronic issues went into remission. I felt good. I had energy. And my weight was actually decreasing.
But healing isn’t linear.
Last year, without intending to, I slipped back into starvation mode, simply because life got busy, overwhelming, and relentless. I was also battling depression, and for the first time in my life, I genuinely had no desire to eat. No hunger cues. No appetite. Just survival mode. And once again, my body felt the consequences.
That experience reminded me just how quickly a woman’s body will adapt to scarcity and how unforgiving it can be when fuel is removed again.
Now, I’m consciously returning to the way I ate when I was thriving, because I’ve lived the difference. I know what under-fueling does to a woman’s body, and I know what happens when you give it what it actually needs.
My new years promise to myself was intentionally returning to eating 1,700–2,000 calories a day, with a minimum of 120g of protein, because my body (and yours) cannot heal, detox, or regulate hormones without adequate fuel.
Food is not the enemy.
Protein is not the problem.
Fat is not what broke you.
Starving your body did.
This plate isn’t indulgence.
It’s my restoration….and I couldn’t finish it! 😅 But I ate all I could and thats better than I was doing last month.
Shout out to Eggcellent Cafe in Jonesboro for this amazing meal. I’ll definitely be back.