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05/09/2026

Fear not!
They control you with fear.
They weaken your immune system with fear.
They make you sick with fear.
Rebuke all of this insanity.

05/08/2026

05/06/2026

HERE WE GO AGAIN….

Three people are dead following a reported hantavirus outbreak on a cruise ship.

Pause and look at the pattern.

- Hantavirus is not new. It is a rodent-borne virus linked to exposure to contaminated droppings, urine, or nesting materials
- Symptoms can escalate fast. Early flu-like illness can progress into Hantavirus Pulmonary Syndrome (HPS), which involves fluid filling the lungs and respiratory failure
- Case fatality rates for HPS can reach 30 to 40 percent in severe cases [1]

Now connect this to what I found earlier today. A vaccine was already in motion.

In July 2024, a report confirmed that Moderna entered a full-scale collaboration with Korea University to develop an mRNA-based hantavirus vaccine [2]

- This was not reactive
- This was already planned
- This was already funded
- This was already moving forward before headlines like this

So ask yourself:

Why hantavirus? Why now?

Hantavirus outbreaks have historically been rare and geographically limited, often tied to specific environmental exposures, not widespread global transmission patterns.

Yet we now see:

- Increased attention on hantavirus in media cycles
- Vaccine platforms already being built
- Expansion of mRNA pipelines into less common pathogens

This is how the pattern forms.

A pathogen moves from obscure to headline to “urgent public health focus” to vaccine rollout. You are watching the early stages in real time.

What can you do? Understand the terrain.

Hantavirus thrives in environments where:

- Rodent populations surge
- Sanitation breaks down
- Immune systems are compromised
- Inflammatory load is already high

Your protection is not just about avoiding exposure. It is about internal terrain resilience.

- Strong innate immunity
- Stable blood sugar
- Low inflammatory burden
- Proper detox and lymphatic flow

This is not fear. This is awareness.

Watch what emerges next.

Drop your thoughts below. Are you seeing the same pattern?



Disclaimer: The information and opinions shared are for informational purposes only including, but not limited to, text, graphics, images and other material and are not intended as medical advice or instruction. Nothing mentioned is intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

References

[1] Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2023). Hantavirus Pulmonary Syndrome. Retrieved from https://www.cdc.gov/hantavirus/index.html

[2] Kim, C. (2024). Moderna and Korea University to co-develop hantavirus vaccine. Korea Biomedical Review. Retrieved from https://www.koreabiomed.com/news/articleView.html?idxno=24477

Moderna said Friday that it has entered into a full-scale collaboration with the Vaccine Innovation Center at Korea University College of Medicine to develop an mRNA (messenger ribonucleic acid)-ba...

04/03/2026

The Hidden Cost of Sweet: How “Healthy” Sweeteners May Be Keeping You Sick

If you’re using “sugar-free” products to stay healthy, stay lean, or stay in ketosis… you may want to read this twice.

A recent paper on erythritol is raising a very uncomfortable question:

What if one of the most “keto-friendly” sweeteners is not as harmless as we were told?

Researchers found that erythritol was not as safe as we have been lead to believe. In lab models, it increased oxidative stress, reduced nitric oxide signaling, increased endothelin-1, and blunted t-PA release in brain microvascular endothelial cells. Translation? It appeared to push the vascular environment in a direction that is less relaxed, less protected, and potentially more clot-prone [1]. That matters because the blood-brain barrier is not just a wall. It is an active, living interface that helps regulate what gets into the brain and what stays out.

This lines up with earlier human data showing that higher circulating erythritol levels were associated with a significantly higher risk of major adverse cardiovascular events, including heart attack and stroke, and that erythritol exposure increased platelet reactivity and thrombosis potential [2,3]. In plain English? This is not just about “bloating” or “gas.” This is about what these compounds may be doing to your blood vessels, clotting behavior, and possibly even brain perfusion.

And erythritol is not the only issue.

If you are trying to heal metabolically, reduce inflammation, reverse insulin resistance, or actually become fat-adapted, sweeteners can keep your body hanging onto the sweetness signal even when glucose is not arriving. That matters more than most people realize.

Here is the hierarchy I would personally rank from worst to least problematic for someone trying to get truly metabolically clean:

1. Sugar alcohols
(Erythritol, xylitol, sorbitol, maltitol, mannitol, etc.)

These tend to be the most problematic overall. They are notorious for digestive distress, osmotic diarrhea, bloating, gas, and gut irritation in many people [4]. And now erythritol in particular has raised additional vascular concerns that go far beyond the gut [1,2].

2. Artificial sweeteners
(Aspartame, sucralose, saccharin, acesulfame-K, etc.)

These may not contain sugar, but they are not metabolically “neutral.” Research has shown that non-nutritive sweeteners can alter glucose handling, insulin signaling, appetite regulation, and gut microbiota in ways that are not always favorable [5,6]. They may help someone reduce sugar short term, but they are not a free pass for metabolic healing.

3. “Natural” high-intensity sweeteners
(Stevia, monk fruit, allulose)

These are generally better tolerated by many people and often less irritating than sugar alcohols. But “better” does not automatically mean ideal. If your nervous system, taste receptors, and reward pathways are still getting a constant sweetness input, you may still be keeping one foot in the glucose world while trying to force your body into a fat-burning state.

That is the part most people miss.

When the brain repeatedly detects sweetness, it anticipates energy. It anticipates fuel. It anticipates a metabolic response. Even when that response is incomplete or inconsistent, the signal itself still matters. Sweet taste can influence cephalic phase insulin signaling, appetite, reward pathways, and metabolic expectation before calories even arrive [7,8]. If you are trying to fully transition from glucose-burning to fat-burning, repeatedly stimulating sweetness can keep that adaptation muddled.

And that is why so many people say they are “doing keto” but still feel inflamed, hungry, puffy, foggy, or stuck.

They removed bread, but they never removed the sweetness loop.

Deep ketosis is not just “low carb.” It is a metabolic reprogramming.

It is the body finally giving up its demand for constant glucose and learning to efficiently run on fat and ketones instead. That shift is where many people begin noticing steadier energy, calmer hunger, less inflammatory volatility, and better mental clarity. Ketogenic states have also been linked with activation of autophagy-related pathways under the right conditions, especially when carbohydrate exposure stays consistently low [9,10].

And no, this usually does not happen in 4 days.

For many people, especially those with years of metabolic dysfunction, nervous system dysregulation, hidden infections, mold burden, hormone issues, or mitochondrial stress, real fat adaptation can take weeks, not days. A lot of people do not hit a deeper, more stable groove until they have had sustained carbohydrate restriction long enough for the body to stop bargaining.

That is why “cheat bites,” keto desserts, sugar-free gum, sweetened coffee creamers, and “healthy” sweeteners can keep some people metabolically stuck far longer than they realize.

If your goal is true healing, your body may need a season of no sweetness at all.

Not forever.
But long enough to actually adapt.

Because once inflammation drops, cravings calm down, your brain clears, and your energy stabilizes… you start realizing that some “healthy swaps” were never helping you. They were just making the “transition” more comfortable while stunting forward momentum towards true healing.

And sometimes comfort is exactly what keeps people from getting free.



References

[1] Berry, A. R., Ruzzene, S. T., Ostrander, E. I., Wegerson, K. N., Orozco-Fersiva, N. C., Stone, M. F., Valenti, W. B., Izaias, J. E., Holzer, J. P., Greiner, J. J., DeSouza, C. A., & Garcia, V. P. (2025). The non-nutritive sweetener erythritol adversely affects brain microvascular endothelial cell function. Journal of Applied Physiology, 138(6), 1571–1577. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/40459966/

[2] Witkowski, M., Nemet, I., Alamri, H., Wilcox, J., Gupta, N., Nimer, N., Haghikia, A., Li, X. S., Wu, Y., Saha, P. P., Demuth, I., König, M., Steinhagen-Thiessen, E., Cajka, T., Fiehn, O., Landmesser, U., Tang, W. H. W., & Hazen, S. L. (2023). The artificial sweetener erythritol and cardiovascular event risk. Nature Medicine, 29(3), 710–718. https://doi.org/10.1038/s41591-023-02223-9

[3] National Institutes of Health. (2023, March 14). Erythritol and cardiovascular events. https://www.nih.gov/news-events/nih-research-matters/erythritol-cardiovascular-events

[4] European Food Safety Authority. (2010). Statement in relation to the safety of erythritol (E 968) in light of new data, including a new paediatric study on the gastrointestinal tolerability of erythritol. EFSA Journal, 8(7), 1650.

[5] Suez, J., Korem, T., Zeevi, D., Zilberman-Schapira, G., Thaiss, C. A., Maza, O., Israeli, D., Zmora, N., Gilad, S., Weinberger, A., Kuperman, Y., Harmelin, A., Kolodkin-Gal, I., Shapiro, H., Halpern, Z., Segal, E., & Elinav, E. (2014). Artificial sweeteners induce glucose intolerance by altering the gut microbiota. Nature, 514(7521), 181–186. https://doi.org/10.1038/nature13793

[6] Pearlman, M., Obert, J., & Casey, L. (2017). The association between artificial sweeteners and obesity. Current Gastroenterology Reports, 19(12), 64. https://doi.org/10.1007/s11894-017-0602-9

[7] Teff, K. L. (2000). Nutritional implications of the cephalic-phase reflexes: Endocrine responses. Appetite, 34(2), 206–213. https://doi.org/10.1006/appe.1999.0282

[8] Mattes, R. D. (2009). Brief oral stimulation, but not gastric, sweet taste, and energy source have modest effects on appetite and energy intake in humans. Physiology & Behavior, 97(5), 579–587. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.physbeh.2009.04.008

[9] Newman, J. C., & Verdin, E. (2017). β-Hydroxybutyrate: A signaling metabolite. Annual Review of Nutrition, 37, 51–76. https://doi.org/10.1146/annurev-nutr-071816-064916

[10] Paoli, A., Rubini, A., Volek, J. S., & Grimaldi, K. A. (2013). Beyond weight loss: A review of the therapeutic uses of very-low-carbohydrate (ketogenic) diets. European Journal of Clinical Nutrition, 67(8), 789–796. https://doi.org/10.1038/ejcn.2013.116

01/12/2026

Tales from a Chronic Starvation Dieter

I have practiced starvation dieting since I was 12 years old.

Not intentionally starving… just constantly eating less than my body needed because that’s what women were taught to do. Smaller portions. Lean protein. Low fat. Diet drinks full of harmful artificial sweeteners.

Did I ever hit my weight goals? Sure, once or twice. But I also struggled with thyroid issues, hormonal issues, PCOS, chronic illness, and autoimmune issues.

Here’s what I see over and over again in practice now:
The biggest metabolic issue women have isn’t overeating. It’s chronic under-eating.

When you consistently fail to fuel your body, your thyroid adapts. Your metabolism downshifts. Your lymphatic system slows. Your hormones conserve instead of thrive.

Then menopause hits. 🫣

And everyone blames menopause…when in reality, many women are entering it already metabolically broken from decades of starvation dieting.

Two years ago, I changed everything.

I stopped fearing red meat.
I embraced animal fat.
I ate real breakfasts like this one.
And my body responded immediately.

My lymphatic system started draining properly. My energy stabilized. My body composition changed. My nervous system felt safer. Most of my chronic issues went into remission. I felt good. I had energy. And my weight was actually decreasing.

But healing isn’t linear.

Last year, without intending to, I slipped back into starvation mode, simply because life got busy, overwhelming, and relentless. I was also battling depression, and for the first time in my life, I genuinely had no desire to eat. No hunger cues. No appetite. Just survival mode. And once again, my body felt the consequences.

That experience reminded me just how quickly a woman’s body will adapt to scarcity and how unforgiving it can be when fuel is removed again.

Now, I’m consciously returning to the way I ate when I was thriving, because I’ve lived the difference. I know what under-fueling does to a woman’s body, and I know what happens when you give it what it actually needs.

My new years promise to myself was intentionally returning to eating 1,700–2,000 calories a day, with a minimum of 120g of protein, because my body (and yours) cannot heal, detox, or regulate hormones without adequate fuel.

Food is not the enemy.
Protein is not the problem.
Fat is not what broke you.

Starving your body did.

This plate isn’t indulgence.
It’s my restoration….and I couldn’t finish it! 😅 But I ate all I could and thats better than I was doing last month.

Shout out to Eggcellent Cafe in Jonesboro for this amazing meal. I’ll definitely be back.

12/13/2025

I had a few moments to scroll Facebook the other day, something I rarely have time to do lately, and what stood out to me wasn’t one specific post, but a pattern.

EDS.
POTS.
Chronic fatigue syndrome.
Long COVID.
Chronic Epstein-Barr.

Post after post of people talking about “my chronic illness.”

And I found myself thinking:
We are naming the symptoms… but we are missing the root.

I say this as someone who just came out of months in Cell Danger Response myself, and who is now actively pulling myself back from another crash.

My immune system dropped below a viable threshold and crossed into true immunocompromised territory. Not because I didn’t “know better,” but because knowing and doing are not always the same thing, especially when you’re trying to hold space for clients, family, work, and life seven days a week.

I tell people every day to slow down.
To nourish their bodies.
To protect their energy.

And yes, I am often my worst patient.
(I’m in therapy for that. For real.)

What pulled me back wasn’t a new diagnosis or a new label. It was restoring energy.

Here’s what I’ve done the last month:
A very aggressive full moon cleanse.
Massive mineral repletion with fulvic and other mineral complexes.
Oxytocin therapy.
Deep energetic work.
Setting boundaries.
And finally honoring the reality that I cannot outwork biology.

Here’s what I want people to understand:

Most “chronic illnesses” are not separate diseases.

They are different expressions of the same underlying problem: ATP depletion.

ATP is the energy currency of every cell in your body:
Every nerve signal.
Every immune response.
Every digestive contraction.
Every detox pathway.

No ATP = no function.

When the body perceives threat, infection, toxin load, emotional trauma, and chronic stress, it enters what’s known as the Cell Danger Response [1]. Survival becomes the priority. And survival is expensive.

The two most ATP-hungry systems in the body are the immune system and the digestive system. They can not run at full capacity at the same time.

When the immune system is activated, digestion slows or shuts down [2].
That’s why you lose your appetite when you’re “coming down with something.”
That crushing fatigue isn’t weakness — it’s energy reallocation [3].

But here’s the part almost no one talks about:

Once ATP drops below a certain threshold, the body can no longer build the very mitochondria required to make more ATP [4].

At that point, you’re not tired because you’re doing too much.
You’re tired because your body cannot generate energy even at rest.

And this is where people get stuck.

We chase diagnoses.
We collect labels.
We argue over whether it’s POTS or EDS or EBV or Long COVID.

But underneath the name is the same reality:
The cell’s energy budget has collapsed.

So how did we get here?

Mitochondria are not magic.
They require massive amounts of minerals to function like magnesium, iron, copper, zinc, manganese, selenium, iodine, sulfur, and more [5].

We have stripped our soils for decades.
We grow food fast, not nutrient dense.
Calories are abundant.
Minerals are NOT.

You can eat enough food and still be starving at the cellular level [6].

What used to take decades of depletion, I am now seeing in children.

Metabolic dysfunction.
Immune dysregulation.
Neurological symptoms.
Gut shutdown.

That’s not genetics. That’s environment.

Healing does not start with chasing another diagnosis. It starts with restoring energy.

Feeding mitochondria.
Rebuilding mineral reserves.
Supporting the nervous system.
Respecting the body’s energy economy.

When ATP comes back online, the body remembers how to heal. The body has ENERGY to heal.

And sometimes, even practitioners need to be reminded of that too.



Disclaimer: The information and opinions shared are for informational purposes only including, but not limited to, text, graphics, images and other material and are not intended as medical advice or instruction. Nothing mentioned is intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

References

[1] Naviaux, R. K. (2014). Metabolic features of the cell danger response. Mitochondrion, 16, 7–17. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.mito.2013.08.006

[2] Pavlov, V. A., & Tracey, K. J. (2017). Neural regulation of immunity: Molecular mechanisms and clinical translation. Nature Neuroscience, 20(2), 156–166. https://doi.org/10.1038/nn.4477

[3] Dantzer, R., O’Connor, J. C., Freund, G. G., Johnson, R. W., & Kelley, K. W. (2008). From inflammation to sickness and depression: When the immune system subjugates the brain. Nature Reviews Neuroscience, 9(1), 46–56. https://doi.org/10.1038/nrn2297

[4] Wallace, D. C. (2012). Mitochondria and cancer. Nature Reviews Cancer, 12(10), 685–698. https://doi.org/10.1038/nrc3365

[5] DiNicolantonio, J. J., & O’Keefe, J. H. (2018). Magnesium in man: Implications for health and disease. Open Heart, 5(2), e000668. https://doi.org/10.1136/openhrt-2017-000668

[6] Davis, D. R., Epp, M. D., & Riordan, H. D. (2004). Changes in USDA food composition data for 43 garden crops, 1950–1999. Journal of the American College of Nutrition, 23(6), 669–682. https://doi.org/10.1080/07315724.2004.10719409

12/12/2025

The Science Behind The “Woo”
- Why Energy Work Matters

Most people are taught to think of the body as purely physical: muscles, organs, labs, diagnoses. But long before symptoms show up in tissue or bloodwork, dysfunction shows up in the energetic nervous system.

That’s where modalities like acupuncture, specialized kinesiology, Reiki, and sound/frequency healing come in.

In Traditional Chinese Medicine, acupuncture works by restoring the flow of Qi (the Chinese word for energy or life force) through meridians that directly interface with the nervous system, immune system, circulation, and organ function. When energy stagnates, the nervous system stays locked in fight-or-flight, inflammation rises, and healing stalls. [1–4]

Through my training in specialized kinesiology that includes Touch for Health, Stress Indicator Point Systems (SIPS), Kinergetics, MNRI, and others, I’ve seen this firsthand the impact energy work has on restoring health and removing blocks to healing. Muscle testing isn’t mystical; it’s neurological. The body responds instantly to stressors long before the conscious mind catches up. The Qest4 scan is also called a meridian stress assessment tool because it operates within this area of the body as well. These energetic systems help identify where the nervous system is dysregulated, where stress is stored, and what the body actually needs to return to balance. [5–6]

Acupuncture, Reiki and sound/frequency healing work on the same principle: regulating the autonomic nervous system, improving coherence, and shifting the body out of survival mode so repair mechanisms can turn back on. This isn’t “woo;” it’s bioelectricity, frequency, and resonance. Every cell communicates electrically. Every nerve fires through energy. Ignore that layer, and you’re only treating part of the problem. [7–10]

Research continues to show that acupuncture and related energetic therapies influence autonomic nervous system balance, vagal tone, stress hormone regulation, pain perception, and inflammatory signaling. [1–4, 7–9]

In other words, the energetic body is the bridge between the mind, nervous system, and physical tissue.

Most chronic illness doesn’t persist because the body doesn’t want to heal; it persists because the nervous system doesn’t feel safe enough to release the energetic blockages and trauma trapped in the fascia and tissues.

When you address the energetic layer, the physical body often follows.

This is why true healing is never just biochemical. It’s neurological. It’s electrical. It’s energetic. And it’s been overlooked for far too long.



References:

[1] Hui, K. K. S., et al. (2000). Acupuncture modulates the limbic system and subcortical gray structures of the human brain: Evidence from fMRI studies. Human Brain Mapping, 9(1), 13–25.

[2] Napadow, V., et al. (2007). Acupuncture decreases sympathetic nervous system activity and increases parasympathetic activity in healthy subjects. Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine, 13(4), 409–414.

[3] Kavoussi, B., & Ross, B. E. (2007). The neuroimmune basis of anti-inflammatory acupuncture. Integrative Cancer Therapies, 6(3), 251–257.

[4] Takahashi, T. (2011). Acupuncture for functional gastrointestinal disorders. Journal of Gastroenterology, 46(7), 743–755.

[5] Goodheart, G. J. (1988). Applied kinesiology research manuals. Detroit, MI: Privately published.

[6] Walther, D. S. (2000). Applied kinesiology: Synopsis (2nd ed.). Pueblo, CO: Systems DC.

[7] Baldwin, A. L., et al. (2010). The effect of Reiki on autonomic nervous system activity. Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine, 16(9), 989–997.

[8] McCraty, R., et al. (2009). The coherent heart: Heart–brain interactions, psychophysiological coherence, and the emergence of system-wide order. Integral Review, 5(2), 10–115.

[9] Oschman, J. L. (2000). Energy medicine: The scientific basis. Edinburgh: Churchill Livingstone.

[10] Thayer, J. F., & Lane, R. D. (2009). Claude Bernard and the heart–brain connection: Further elaboration of a model of neurovisceral integration. Neuroscience & Biobehavioral Reviews, 33(2), 81–88.

12/07/2025

A little surprise showed up today! My motto is officially framed!

“When in doubt, p**p it out”

My cousin’s wife absolutely nailed it! Honestly, if more people understood how many symptoms start with sluggish bowels, we’d have a much healthier world.

Daily p**ping isn’t optional. It’s your body’s primary detox channel. When things back up, EVERYTHING backs up. Hormones, lymph, mood, immune function, skin, sleep… you name it.

I’m proudly displaying this on my bookshelf.
Sometimes the simplest wisdom is the truest:

If you’re not p**ping, you’re not healing.

And thank you Beverly. This made my entire week!!!

11/16/2025

As I was sitting in my quiet time this morning, I stumbled across this quote in Brené Brown’s new book Strong Ground.

Middle age has a way of waking us up. Your body will whisper for years…until one day it stops whispering and starts demanding your attention. And the truth is, those “demands” are never random. They are invitations. Some quiet, some loud.

Every symptom is a message. Every ache, every shift in hormones, every wave of fatigue, all of it is your body trying to reroute you back to yourself.

Taking care of your body is not optional. It is the most important thing you’ll do today. Because when your body breaks down, everything you’re trying to hold together goes with it. And when your body is supported, everything in your life strengthens alongside it.

Middle age isn’t a downfall. It’s a turning point. Listen to what your body is asking for. Do something you may consider “selfish” and take some time for yourself today. Sit quietly. Ask God to reveal what your symptoms are trying to tell you. It’s never too late to heal; but it is time to pay attention.

11/12/2025

To the men we love, please hear this:

Our family has been rocked by another su***de. I wasn’t close to my step-cousin, but as a survivor of su***de, I know what my step-family is about to endure. And because today is Veterans Day, the weight of this truth hits even harder. We are living in a quiet epidemic and it’s stealing our men.

Men make up about half the population, yet nearly 80% of su***des are male. Middle-aged men, the ones holding families, careers, and communities together, are quietly falling apart inside. From fathers to veterans, this crisis is everywhere.

Between 2002 and 2022, the rate of male su***de rose sharply and has stayed heartbreakingly high. Veterans carry an even heavier burden, with an average of 17 a day taking their own lives. These aren’t just numbers, they’re fathers missing from dinner tables, sons whose laughter has gone silent, and husbands who leave wives trying to rebuild lives shattered overnight.

Almost half of all adults in this country personally know someone who’s died by su***de. It touches nearly every family now. And the aftershocks are lifelong.

Men aren’t choosing to die because they’re weak, they’re dying because they’ve been told their whole lives not to feel. They’re taught to “man up,” to carry pain in silence, to hold everyone else up even as their own world collapses. When identity, finances, health, or relationships crumble, many internalize the pain until it becomes unbearable.

Middle age becomes a perfect storm, the years when they’re supposed to have it all together are often the years they’re barely holding on. For veterans, the burden runs even deeper. They come home carrying trauma most people will never understand: moral injury, survivor’s guilt, a nervous system wired for war trying to live in peace. The world keeps telling them to “move on,” but trauma doesn’t just fade because someone says it should.

If men could truly see what su***de does to the ones left behind, they would understand: it doesn’t end pain, it multiplies it. A single su***de ripples through entire generations.

Spouses carry lifelong scars, the anxiety, the depression, the sleepless nights replaying every moment, wondering what they missed. Children grow up with holes in their hearts they can’t name. They learn to be “strong,” but they also learn that love can vanish overnight. Parents and siblings live with a kind of grief that never softens; it changes holidays, songs, the smell of rain, the way light falls in a certain room. It changes everything.

Families do not get over su***de. They adapt around it. They rebuild around an absence that will always ache.

To the men reading this: you are needed here. Not for what you do, but for who you are. You are irreplaceable to someone, even if you can’t see it right now.

If tonight feels impossible, please, don’t make a permanent decision in a temporary moment.

Tell someone. Anyone.

Walk into a firehouse. A police station.

Call or text 988.
If you’re a veteran, call 988 and press 1, or text 838255.

And to those who love a man who’s struggling, speak up. Sit with him in silence if you have to. Remove anything that could be used in a moment of despair. Feed him, walk with him, help him breathe again. Keep checking in even when he says he’s fine, especially then.

For every man: staying costs courage.
Leaving costs generations.

Today, on Veterans Day, we honor those who have served, but we must also fight for the ones still here, fighting invisible battles on their own soil. Let’s not wait to honor them until it’s too late. Let’s reach for them now, while there’s still time.

11/07/2025

This post is about you.
And it’s about me.

Many of my friends and family will think this post is about them, and it is. But it’s also about me, and what I’ve had to learn the hard way.

We live in a world where women (and some men) wear exhaustion like a badge of honor. We say “I don’t have time” while pouring from an empty cup. We prioritize everyone else, our kids, our partners, our jobs, our commitments, and we call it love.

But what it really is… is avoidance.

We’re running from the quiet. From the parts of ourselves that need rest, reflection, and healing. From the truth that self-neglect is still self-abandonment, no matter how noble the reason.

The same women who tell me they don’t have time to exercise, meditate & pray, drink water, go for a walk, or cook a real meal, spend hours tending to everyone else’s needs.

And here’s the part that stings:

If you don’t start prioritizing you,
you won’t be here to keep prioritizing them.

READ THAT AGAIN.

Your body will make you stop.
Your nervous system will force you to listen.
Your health will demand the time you refused to give it.

Taking care of yourself is not selfish, it’s stewardship.
It’s saying: I am worthy of the same care I give away so freely.

Let me know in the comments if you’ve learned this lesson the hard way too.
And if you haven’t yet, let this be your warning and your permission.

Do something today that takes care of YOU. That feeds YOU.

Drop it in the comments to inspire others to do the same.



Disclaimer: The information and opinions shared are for informational purposes only including, but not limited to, text, graphics, images and other material and are not intended as medical advice or instruction. Nothing mentioned is intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.