07/03/2025
Helping Preschoolers After a Storm: Comfort, Reassurance, and Healing
Storms can be scary—even for adults. For preschoolers, the experience of loud winds, flashing lights, or damage to their home can be deeply confusing and frightening. After a storm, it’s important to support their emotional and physical well-being with patience, love, and clear guidance.
At Lake Country Associates we have several trained counselors who work specifically with young children and their families. Attached is a link to a child-friendly activity that you can do with your children at home.
You are your child’s safe place. With your love and support, they will weather this storm—and every one to come. If you need help, let us know!
~Jessica Croatt Niemi, LICSW IMH-(IV)
Here’s how you can help:
🌧️ 1. Reassure with Safety and Love
Let your child know they’re safe now. Hugs, calm words, and routines provide powerful comfort. Say things like, “The storm is over, and we’re okay now,” to help them feel secure.
🏠 2. Acknowledge Their Feelings
Preschoolers may not have words for what they feel. They might act out, become clingy, or regress a bit. Let them express their emotions through play, drawing, or simply talking. “It’s okay to feel scared,” goes a long way.
🎨 3. Play is Healing
Children process big emotions through play. Offer toys, dolls, or art supplies, and let them lead. You might hear them "replaying" the storm with toys—that’s a healthy way to make sense of what happened.
🧸 4. Rebuild Routines
Familiar routines help children feel in control. Try to return to normal sleep, mealtime, and play schedules as soon as possible—even in temporary housing.
📚 5. Use Simple Stories
Read books about weather or overcoming fear. Stories help children understand that they’re not alone and that others have felt scared too.
👂 6. Keep Communication Simple and Honest
Answer questions honestly, but in age-appropriate ways. Too much detail can overwhelm them. Stick to facts: “The wind knocked down trees, but people are helping fix everything.”
🤝 7. Involve Them in Helping
If it’s safe, let them help clean up or comfort others. Giving them a “job” (like holding a flashlight or passing out snacks) can help them feel capable and brave.
💬 8. Watch for Signs of Stress
If your child seems unusually withdrawn, aggressive, or has trouble sleeping long after the storm, consider talking to an Early Childhood Mental Health Professional.
💞 Most of All: Be Patient
Healing takes time. Your calm presence is the greatest source of comfort they have.
Check out this link: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1dgA1uIQF5CALObiZaapdWTJ2exTYGQMo/view?usp=sharing