09/26/2023
New clients often ask me to help them come up with "kid-friendly" recipes so they can get their kids to eat, and I always have the same answer which is: kid-friendly food is not in my vocabulary. I know this isn't always a popular answer but I feel pretty strongly that only offering children salty, beige food because that's what they gravitate towards rarely serves anyone.
So, if I don't do "kid-friendly" recipes, how do I support moms who want to get their kids to eat better?
There are several factors I take into consideration when I create a customized plan with a client. I always look at the energetics and expectations around mealtime. The ages of the child(ren) definitely determines how we approach shifts to family eating habits. And one of the most important pieces in the plan is to work on the parents' eating habits and relationship to food.
In order to create a family environment where the children learn to experiment with new foods and nourish their body in a healthy way, it's essential that the adults are doing those things too.
If that feels like a lot of work, it's probably because you know you need to make some shifts yourself and I TOTALLY get it (I myself struggled with a poor relationship with food for the majority of my life). Here is what I can promise you, it's NOT all or nothing. For most of the families I work with (my own included) the children learn with the adults. It's not about perfection, it's about growing together as a family.
If this is something you would like support with, please send me a DM and let's make a time to chat. A connection call is simply an opportunity to get to know each other better and to see if I might be able to help you (no strings attached!) and I'd love to hear from you!