
07/10/2025
The last couple of weeks I've been hearing some doubt about whether tending to mental health is a betrayal to our values. For example - if I manage my depression, will I stop wanting to leave my job? If I manage my anxiety, will I stop wanting to take action?
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My short answer is, "no." Tending to our mental health actually widens our bandwidth to act in accordance with our values. And while we can't eradicate the mental health impact of unjust and unhealthy situations, we can mitigate it to an extent, which can enable us to stay connected with ourselves and our loved ones, and to take more effective action.
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I think a relevant piece here is the old Buddhist adage that "pain is inevitable, but suffering is not." We can't eradicate pain. We can't eradicate fear. But we can take care of ourselves and stay connected with our own true north within that circumstance.
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That's where therapy comes in. Clearly I'm a therapist so I'm biased, but I absolutely believe that therapy can facilitate sweeter, more effective responses to awful circumstances.
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We can be in this together.
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Much love and onwards.
💙 Allison
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