
10/29/2024
Yet another big decision was made in my business.
I am taking an indefinite break from giving out free stuff.
I used to LOVE giving free stuff to my community. For the last 6 years, I have done hours of rituals, energy medicine, money magic, ancestor healing, 5-day challenges, and more.
People love my rituals and devour all the free stuff.
They tell me I am amazing, helped them so much, and I’m a gift from above.
I felt I was doing God’s work and helping where I could be of service.
However, something landed for me in the past month that’s changed my view.
I realized the women who eat up the free stuff haven’t moved forward very much.
An example of what I hear weekly: “I have been in your free group for 5+ years, done all of your money rituals and free healings, love your work, and still don’t have $99 to join a masterclass.” If this sounds like you, it isn’t directly at you or about you - it’s everywhere.
So I asked myself why is this happening and am I truly serving by creating more free stuff.
The answer isn’t rocket science but it’s worth a look.
I’ll tell you why.
Nobody has held their feet to the fire in the free stuff.
Nobody has said, “Wow, your story is artfully crafted and you’re full of sh!t.”
Free stuff presents no real challenge and no sense of accountability.
They keep eating the fish without learning how to fish.
They are participating only to the level of depth that they get some movement, some release, and relief, but never to “cauterize the bleeding”. In this way, they still feel they are doing something but are also being kept safe and in place by the ego’s protective mechanisms.
This surface-level change is the playground of the Leaky Feminine.
Real transformation requires
Initiation
Sacrifice
Ego obliteration
A free buffet will never provide what you need to get results.
Free stuff is useful when you’re new to a mentor or their teachings.
Free stuff is like an aperitivo, an appetizer to get a taste.
5 years later, free stuff = classic avoidance.
I love my community and still do.
But my commitment and devotion is to service and God.
It is loving to be honest and say - no more free stuff.
Time for transformation or to admit you don’t really want it.
In Love,
Dr. S