11/29/2025
🫶 Calling all Rochester moms & working parents!
Here at Pacifica, we frequently hear from mothers who wonder why their babies seem to only want them most during times of distress. Our newest blog post explores this important developmental pattern through the lens of attachment theory.
Research consistently shows that infants seek out their primary attachment figure—the person who represents emotional safety—when they are overwhelmed or dysregulated. This response is not a sign of parental inadequacy; rather, it reflects the child’s profound trust and expectation of attunement.
The article also highlights the “good-enough mother” concept, the role of emotional availability, and the ways secure attachment is built through repair, responsiveness, and presence—not perfection.
This piece is especially relevant for working parents balancing multiple responsibilities, and for professionals supporting young families in medical, educational, or behavioral-health settings.
A tender reflection for Rochester mothers on secure attachment, mentalizing, and the power of being the person your child reaches for in distress. This piece explores why a baby often cries “mama” during overwhelm—not as a form of blame, but as a gesture of trust—and how working moms can cul...