01/04/2026
Lots of us are tired…we desire to be excited about the New Year but year after year…month after month..and sometimes even our whole lives…WE NEVER REALLY HAVE GOTTEN A BREAK.
Now, not just a break is necessary but an actual change.
At some point, healing asks us to stop bracing.
To stop holding ourselves up in case everything falls apart.
To stop rehearsing the worst while pretending we’re fine.
Surrender is not giving up. It’s accepting that even if the worst happened, you would still be here. Still breathing. Still capable of choosing what comes next.
That acceptance creates space.
Space for clarity.
Space for real rest.
Space to make brave, honest decisions instead of fear-driven ones.
When we stop resisting the process, we conserve energy. And that energy becomes available for healing.
Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is put the weight down and let yourself be held.
It doesn’t matter what we are facing…I believe in God and this plays a large role in my perspective; however this can apply to anyone, anywhere.