05/07/2026
Fortunately, I have not needed a doctor often, but today was necessary for me to reestablish myself with a G.I. specialist since I am due for a colonoscopy and address my IBD flare (which flares in postpartum for me).
If you were a fly on the wall, you would say that it was an OK appointment. I got what I needed.
But I left and I just felt ick.
She said something that I knew was incorrect, but acted like it was.
I also shared that I ran the stool test that I use in my practice and started myself on a regimen of supplements that are addressing my results- in addition to a few diet changes, but nothing crazy there. I even said that my symptoms are now quieting down since I’ve started everything. 🙏
She really did not care to ask about any of that or want to learn more. Just that there’s a medication that I can take. I stated that I tried it in the past and it made me feel weird. At that time, I was able to put my symptoms into remission through diet. supplements, and lifestyle.
Anyway, this is a little bit more like a rant, but it made me think of all of my clients who have shared a similar story with me. I feel your pain too.
How you feel towards the medical provider you are working with is important. Even if that person has all of the right credentials and is super intelligent, if they make you feel any less than you are- don’t work with them.
If that person makes you feel stressed at all- it’s going to impact your progress and ability to get the help you deserve.
You might share less if you do not feel heard.
It is going to be harder for you to trust what they are saying and recommending when they cannot listen and consider your story and what you bring to the table.
In my practice, I hold space for each and every person I meet. There’s never a one pill solution or quick fix because that can’t possibly address all of the underlying factors behind - IBD, IBS, SIBO or any other health condition or concern.
I left feeling very validated as a dietitian specializing in gut health, metabolism, and hormones. People NEED us because there’s a whole 75% you’re not getting simply with a doctor visit. But it’s up to you to bui