10/30/2025
Day 30 – Yesterday we talked about breast implants and the complications many women face after reconstruction.
Today, we’re diving into flap reconstruction — an option that uses your own tissue (often from the abdomen, back, thigh, or buttocks) to recreate a breast.
It’s often presented as a more “natural” alternative to implants. But what’s not always highlighted is that flap surgeries are major operations — involving long hours in the OR, multiple hospital stays, and an intense recovery process.
I’ve known many women who chose flap reconstruction hoping for a more natural look and feel, but the truth is:
✨ It doesn’t always restore what was lost.
✨ Complications can be overwhelming — from tissue failure, infection, and asymmetry to chronic pain or loss of strength/stability where tissue was taken.
✨ The emotional and physical recovery can last months, even years.
Many women have told me they expected to feel “whole” again, but instead ended up feeling disappointed, disfigured, and exhausted from the long healing journey.
After walking alongside so many women on this path, I realized that for me, staying flat was the best option. My recovery was smoother, my body feels strong, and I’ve learned to love the woman I see in the mirror — scars, strength, and all.
If you’re facing these decisions, know this: you have the right to say no to reconstruction. You have the right to take your time, ask hard questions, and choose what serves YOUR body and your peace of mind. 💗
Reconstruction isn’t right or wrong — it’s personal. Just make sure your choice is fully informed and rooted in self-love, not pressure or expectation.