01/23/2026
It’s a trap ⚠️
Ya should’ing all over yourself! Maybe you realize it, maybe you don’t. Really what a “should” does is sets unrealistic expectations.
• I should get up and move (yet you need rest)
• I shouldn’t be eating this (and maybe you need it)
• I should call my mom back (but I want time for myself right now)
A “should” makes you feel guilty and so disappointed in yourself. It really doesn’t help you do the thing, it just digs a digger hole for yourself.
If you struggle with guilt, my practice is here to help! Better Minds therapists offer free consult meetings before starting therapy. If you’re in PA, reach out via link in bio today ♥️