04/15/2026
It happens in the quietest part of the session. You’ve been working together for weeks. You thought you were on the same page about body trust. And then... the request for a weight-loss plan lands in your lap like a lead weight.
In that moment, a Relational Tug-of-War begins.
On one side:
Their lifelong history of body distrust and the crushing weight of diet culture.
On the other:
Your clinical ethics and that expert voice in your head telling you that you HAVE to have the perfect response to fix them.
It’s no wonder RDs report a 9/10 on the imposter syndrome scale in these moments.
When we feel that pull, our instinct is to force or fix. We over-explain the science or print out more handouts—not because the client needs them, but because we are trying to manage our own anxiety about the murky session.
But the data shows that forcing creates a disconnect. Clients fade away. We’re left wondering what we did wrong, carrying the shame of a session that felt like it lacked real work.
You don't have to win the tug-of-war. You just have to drop the rope.
I’m teaching RDs how to move from fixer to navigator—so you can stay grounded even when the session gets sticky.
🔗 DM me to join the waitlist for my Clinical Case Circle and stop carrying the clinical boulder home.