12/02/2025
If your brain replays embarrassing moments, highlights your flaws, or insists nothing you do is “enough,” you may be stuck in a fixed mindset.
This mindset makes mistakes feel like proof that you’ll never improve — which leads to shame, avoidance, and low self-esteem.
A growth mindset doesn’t ignore the hard stuff. It simply reframes it. You’re allowed to make progress slowly. You’re allowed to try, fall short, and try again. Every moment is practice.
When you begin acknowledging what went well, you shift your brain’s negativity bias. Confidence grows through repetition, not perfection.
If you want help strengthening a growth mindset, self-esteem therapy can support you. To schedule with one of our therapists, call our intake line at 215-922-LOVE (5683) x 100 or self schedule online at https://thecenterforgrowth.com/therapy/schedule-an-appointment