
07/21/2025
“He wasn’t a burden to me. But I shouldn’t have had to fight so hard for someone I loved. That was the burden.”
When Pete, who had Down syndrome, was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, his sister Mary became his fiercest advocate.
She navigated seizures, fought for compassionate care, and surrounded him with music, art, and joy, all while holding onto their unbreakable sibling bond.
By Meghan McCarthy Editor’s Note: This article is part of the Disability and Dementia Series, an ongoing project highlighting the experiences of individuals with intellectual disabilities who are affected by Alzheimer’s disease and related dementias (ADRDs). Mary Sparkes-Merriman was born on Sep...