12/20/2025
As a speech therapist and a mom, I have a love/hate relationship with milestones.
✨On the one hand, they are important! A basic awareness of milestones is important because they help us identify when a child may need extra support, which (hopefully) results in accessing early intervention services. Having this knowledge can help parents feel empowered to support their child’s development.
✨On the other hand, milestone charts can be stressful. If we focus on them too much, these charts can rob our joy as parents. It’s hard to enjoy the present when we are constantly looking forward for what “should” be happening next. And for families who already know that their child needs extra support, these charts are often not helpful and can feel very discouraging.
✨So please take what you need from this and leave the rest behind.
You’re doing great 💛