Kiwi's Korner Transitional Coaching

09/28/2023

There's a saying... what you did to get with someone is what you have to do to keep them. That goes for women and men.
Fellas ...If you used to bring her flowers and gifts and then you stop... the fallout is on you. Fellas if you used to be physically fit and now you have a beer belly...the fallout is on you.
Ladies, the same goes for you...if you used to fix yourself up and make him lunch for work and then you send him to work empty handed and you stopped getting dolled up...the fallout is on you.
What BOTH parties must remember is that to have a stable relationship you can't just stop making the effort. In either case what you no longer do, someone else will.

In the coming weeks I'll be expanding on these and other points that I have successfully coached couples through so stay tuned

05/02/2023

So you may have noticed that I've been in crisis. My last treatment was back in February. We paused for a few reasons... trying to move... double memorial... platelets tanking... tumor progression. Well the move went so far left that it sums up the phrase too good to be true. My PTSD has kicked into double quadruple mode. Lbs was on a 10 day lock up... he's back with us. So let's recap... I believe that's 3 major battles that can't be avoided or ignored.

All of the battles scream and taunt me that I have less and less control over my own existence. THAT PI**ES ME OFF!!! I tried some support groups to no avail. I tried talking with family and that blew up in my face. I don't really have many local friends but a few have reached out... thank you. Just being real, I don't think anyone close to me can take hearing my truth or the frequency of which I have to adjust things based on what new or recurring issue pops up. I know that I will get through most of the current issues in a matter of months. Some I've already checked off my list. Unfortunately Cancer and Control are tied together and I have yet to think up a plan that tackles both. But I will.

04/30/2023

04/30/2023

It's getting even shorter