03/10/2026
“Why do I keep ending up in the same type of relationship?”
It’s one of the most common questions people ask in therapy.Relationship patterns don’t just happen by accident. Many of them are shaped by early experiences and the ways we learned to connect with others.
The good news is that patterns can be understood—and changed.
I wrote a new blog post about why relationship patterns repeat and what you can do to start breaking the cycle.
Read it here:
https://lairdfamilycounselingllc.com/f/why-you-keep-repeating-the-same-relationship-patterns
Have you ever noticed patterns showing up in your relationships?
Have you ever found yourself thinking: