
07/29/2025
“I don’t think I have a vision for my life anymore…”
That’s what a client told me recently.
And whew — it hit me right in the heart.
Because I’ve been there.
Maybe you have, too.
You’re high-functioning. Capable. Always “fine.”
But underneath?
You’re stuck.
Not because you’re lazy or lost — but because a fixed mindset has been running the show.
It says things like:
• “If I were going to do something big, I’d have done it already.”
• “I don’t have time for a vision — I’ve got real responsibilities.”
• “People like me don’t do things like that.”
That mindset doesn’t just stop your actions.
It stops your imagination.
And the most heartbreaking part?
You start believing that maybe this is just… it.
Maybe you missed your chance.
Maybe your dream expired.
False.
Here’s what I need you to hear today:
You don’t need more time —
You need permission to matter again.
Your dream didn’t disappear.
It just needs space, belief, and a little bit of care.
A growth mindset doesn’t mean you have all the answers.
It just means you’re willing to believe something new is still possible.
-You are not too old.
-It’s not too late.
-And the best version of your life? She’s still possible.
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This week’s reflection prompt:
What’s one story I’ve been telling myself about what I can’t do or don’t have time for?
And then ask yourself:
Who might I become if I stopped believing that?
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