Mother Bear Sanctuary and Retreat Center

Mother Bear Sanctuary and Retreat Center An animal sanctuary and retreat center that fosters connections to your body, nature & each other Fostering connections between animals, people, and the Earth.

Mother Bear Sanctuary’s Mission is to remind people of their innate connections to their bodies, the Earth, all animals, and each other and to inspire joy and service to a new paradigm of sustainable living that allows all people and animals to thrive. Care for our future generations and the larger narrative is part of the maturity of consciousness: we are ALL parents. A common anthropological characteristic of all advanced mammalian species who survive and thrive is the fierce behavior on the part of an adult female of the species when she senses a threat to the cubs. Our complacency about the immense suffering is a sickness. Moral outrage is not born of anger… it is born of Love.---Marianne Williamson lecture, “The Art of Aligning Body and Soul”

Please note Mother Bear Sanctuary is also our home. ---Please come only by appointment or at scheduled events---

**********OUR UPCOMING EVENTS
http://www.motherbearsanctuary.com/events-calendar/

About the founders
BarbraWhite.com
DaveTuscany.net

Men's Healing and Brotherhood
ManKindProject.org

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11/16/2025

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11/15/2025

Grace's jump of joy at the end!?! Right!?!
It is courageous to follow what brings you alive. What does this mean? It means trusting Joy...more than the rules you play
or
the hustle for worth.

Trusting peace more than worry.

Going towards what brings joy
is scary.
Why?
Because the unknown is your joy.
Paradoxically getting present and listening inward to the next baby step towards joy
requires leaning into mild discomfort
The unknown is your next co-creative edge This is why we stay in the familiar.
We stay in the job we hate
or we stay in the "okayness"

And we do this because we don't have the tools to meet that fear with compassion and body based regulation.
We pathologize ourselves and think something's wrong with us cause we can't seem to follow through

There's nothing wrong with you.
Nothing.
You were told to perform, push, appease
and not listen...
We needs tools to meet our nervous system rather than being trapped in our over self analysis.

Isn't it time break free into your joy without apology and be celebrated in a community that loves your authentic jumps!?

Join the powerful energy chi Kong and nature-based activations starting the 25th
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Join us at Mother Bear Sanctuary for a community dinner.
Dec 20th 12-4pm!!
Gratitude ritual with Dave Tuscany
Ecopsychology coming alive practice with Barbra White Crow
Group share and dinner
If you're struggling, come as a gift.
$20 to cover dinner. Or bring a vegan dish to pass.
$55 for your dinner and workshop.
$55 to $155 if you'd like to contribute to our amazing mission or scholarship another.

11/14/2025

When an animal has been traumatized and has forgotten their place in the living web, they often lashes out at whatever mirrors their fear. What you’re witnessing here is extraordinary: Nikki is literally borrowing Brece Clark regulated nervous system and becoming settled enough to invite connection through those tiny exploratory pecks.

A nervous system stuck in fight-or-flight reacts to even the smallest cues as danger.

That reaction creates a feedback loop—more fear, more chaos, more reactivity.

You ever have days or years like that?

People reacting to you and you don't know why!?!

This is exactly why Nikki would attack people who were scared of him. Their fear confirmed his neuroception of threat, pushing him deeper into sympathetic activation.

But that’s not what happens when he stands beside another being who is deeply grounded.
Beside Brece, Nikki can co-regulate. This is not “woo.” This is Polyvagal Theory 101.

Neuroscience shows we literally borrow the cues of safety from another mammal’s nervous system. This process—called neuroception—runs beneath conscious thought. It’s how herd animals survive--and how humans heal!!

This is also the power of holding space.
When we witness someone’s pain while staying rooted in our own regulated body, we offer them a bridge back to themselves.
Not by fixing them.
Not by rescuing them. But by showing—through our physiology—that safety exists, and that who they already are is enough.

When we relax into being home in ourselves we serve as temporary tuning fork for others.

We are like a gentle alarm clock of awakening.

I’m honestly beyond geeked that Dave and I both teach body-based, polyvagal-informed programs that incorporate shadow healing. We each bring our own unique voice and soul signature to our work:

Radical Self-Love-Self Acceptance Process (my program) Barbra White Crow MotherBearSanctuary@gmail.com

Shame to Sovereignty (Dave’s program)
Dave Tuscany thruthefire@gmail.com

Both re-start again in January. After decades of service, our programs tend to sell out—something we’re deeply grateful for. If you feel called to begin the year inside a trauma-informed, body-led transformation, reach out.

Nov 25th 6-8 online Trauma informed activations and psychic development
Also chi Cong, journeys, visioning
Still time to join
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🐻December 20th 12-4pm
Roots of Friendship: An embodied circle of Thanks
Gratitude ritual with Dave. Awakening ecosychology practice with Barbra
Also!!
Whole Food plant-based awesome meal spaghetti squash and vegan Greek salad.
At Mother Bear Sanctuary and Retreat Center
Options:
Receive as a gift If you're struggling
Bring a vegan dish
Or
Give $20 to cover the meal.
Give $55 to cover food and workshop
Donate more if you like towards mother Bears incredible work and mission
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🤣🤣. Inl this life, I’m a woman. In my next life, I’d like to come back as a bear. When you’re a bear, you get to hiberna...
11/14/2025

🤣🤣. Inl this life, I’m a woman. In my next life, I’d like to come back as a bear. When you’re a bear, you get to hibernate. You do nothing but sleep for six months. I could deal with that.

Before you hibernate, you’re supposed to eat yourself stupid. I could deal with that too.

When you’re a girl bear, you birth your children (who are the size of walnuts) while you’re sleeping and wake to partially grown, cute, cuddly cubs. I could definitely deal with that.

If you’re mama bear, everyone knows you mean business.

If you’re a bear, your mate EXPECTS you to wake up growling.
Yup, gonna be a bear!

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The scariest thing in the world is an insecure, entitled man, a man raised by a social system that taught him to be “Iro...
11/12/2025

The scariest thing in the world is an insecure, entitled man, a man raised by a social system that taught him to be “Iron Man,” hardened and hollow, floundering in emotional waters with no life raft of tenderness. Women quick to caretake, and coddle, victims to their own survival patterns. Shielding him from the growth his Soul is asking for, they enter The Great Pretend.

An insecure man receives your needs as attack,
your tears as threats, your boundaries as betrayal.
His worth is so fragile that your happiness
must exist to affirm his existence.
His words echo: “Smile, clown.”
While your chest cracks open like desert clay,
yearning for real connection,
he cannot meet you there,
not until he meets, with kind regard,
his own scared, tender parts.

Your radiance feels like a verdict
against his false crown until he learns
to love himself.

Your empowered voice and success
threaten the myth that to be king is to control.
Every being is a dimension of God,
deserving of love, gentleness, and affection.
Yet trapped in the illusion of kingship,
he forgets that he is enough,
not for what he conquers,
but simply for Who He Already Is.

Patriarchy tells him to provide, to protect,
to become his “kingness” through domination.
But without the nourishment of safe vulnerability,
he starves inside the very armor meant to keep him strong.

A man cannot breathe behind a mask of superiority.
An awakened man must shed the narcissism
that turns another’s pain into his reflection
that endless loop where victimhood feels like identity.
To see another’s suffering as your own failing
is not empathy; it is self-absorption disguised as love.

And women-----
we, too, have been woven into this pattern.
Too afraid to ask for more.
Too afraid to say no.
We pretend.
We pretend to be satisfied without emotional intimacy
We hide our fear in patterns of codependency

We pretend to be small
so he will not feel threatened.

This is the Great Pretend.

A play written long ago,
when women healers and leaders
were murdered for their power,
labeled “witch” to justify the violence.
That memory still hums
in the tissues of our bodies,
an ancestral trauma that whispers, be careful, stay small.
Her perceived inner protector whispers:
“Be afraid of your own radiance.
Shine, and you will pay the price.”
But she has already paid the ultimate price—
the betrayal of her own Soul’s full expression.

Her cultural programming to be seen as loving, “nice,” killed her authenticity. The “good girl” is the antithesis of embodied compassion.
Striving to be something she is not,
she dwells in pools of resentment
for the men she still blames as captors.

All the while, resentment keeps her trauma-bonded, and starring in her special egoic role as victim.
The web of history keeps women believing
that security comes through silence,
that love means protecting a man’s fragility
rather than embodying her own light.

So she lays her voice upon the altar of his insecurity, and calls it devotion.

I have experienced in retreats and trainings I offer....decades into their healing work too afraid to write that book, or design that program. Yet, many times a man only a few years into his awakening creating a program or writing that book.
Entitled? Or Empowered?

Yet...everyone has a unique Soul signature that deserves to be heard.
But why does she hesitate for decades to claim her unique voice?

But who is to blame?
No one.
Blame does not heal.
Shame does not awaken.

Lets move through these trauma patterns and cultural wounds.
These patterns are not personal;
they are systemic,
centuries deep in the erasure of female prophets, the severing from nature,
the worship of intellect over intuition,
individualism over community,
synthetics over herbs,
structure over flow,
certainty over mystery,
thought over embodiment.

The pull away from yin, from the soft and fertile ground of being,
has wounded ALL of us.... every gender expression

We all ache for the lost soil of tenderness,
the place where strength and softness are not enemies, but two wings of our inner peace.

Healing begins when we remember:
our wholeness is not in domination,
nor in over-tolerance,
but in our willingness to be touched
by the great, trembling truth
of our shared,
precious, vulnerable humanity.

Back at Unity Downriver
Nov 23 🥰

Email me at: MotherBearSanctuary@gmail.com

To receive a zoom link for Nov Groups!!

Radical Self Love TONIGHT
Nov 13 online Thursday
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Tuesday Nov 25th 4 weeks or drop in. Trauma informed spiritual activations
communication with nature and angels. How to stabilize your Light body/Joy/ Purpose with the elements
Info here
https://www.facebook.com/share/1A7BjqetCc/

Barbrawhite.com
Mother Bear Sanctuary and Retreat Center
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Books on Amazon

The body is an ecosystem.  Every breath mirrors the forests’ exchange of oxygen and carbon. Your heartbeat synchronizes ...
11/11/2025

The body is an ecosystem. Every breath mirrors the forests’ exchange of oxygen and carbon. Your heartbeat synchronizes with the magnetic pulse of the Earth.
When we are cut off from nature, we are cut off from the regulatory rhythms that sustain mental clarity, immune balance, and emotional coherence.

The United States—driven by domination and expansion—committed genocide against Indigenous peoples who lived in relationship with the land. That rupture severed more than human cultures; it disrupted the nervous system of a continent.

Animals, women and people of color;
now objects to dominant.
Lawns replaced gardens as symbols of wealth and control. Religion preached mastery over our “animal nature” rather than reverence for it. We forgot that intuition, emotion, and body are not obstacles to spirit--—they are its instruments!

Japan, in contrast, has institutionalized nature connection as public health. Over forty-eight designated forest-therapy sites stand as living laboratories where researchers like Miyazaki measure cortisol, immune markers, and parasympathetic activation. Their science begins with belonging.

American research, shaped by cultural trauma and skepticism, often asks instead: What can nature do for us?—framing the living world as intervention rather than kin.

After years of teaching, I remind students that nature is not a backdrop to healing; it is the foundation of our bioelectric system.

Contact with soil and trees literally grounds the body’s charge, balances circadian rhythms, and restores ventral-vagal tone. When we reconnect with the Earth, we stop fighting for worthiness and begin resonating with the deeper coherence of life.

***This is why there are specific ecopsychology poly vagal based practices I infuse into every program, retreat or session that support this foundational inner and outer grounding***

This Thursday 13th radical self-acceptance and transpersonal activations on 25th both infused with ventral-vagal safety—
physiological permission to expand.
Without this ...
Many programs get you high; few get you free.

Body-based ecopsychology and poly vagal toning
re-roots transformation in the body–Earth circuit, where regulation, belonging, and spirit are one continuum.

Still time to join November 13th this Thursday. Radical self-love.
Body-based eco-psychology powerful transformation that roots you into your sense of belonging.

Tuesday 25th trauma informed activations: re-remembering the intrinsic web of life that flows through you

Back at Unity Downriver
Nov 23 🥰

Email me at: MotherBearSanctuary@gmail.com
To receive zoom link for Nov Groups!!

More info here

Radical Self Love Nov 13 online Thursday
https://www.facebook.com/share/1BSZnMEp5m/

Tuesday Nov 25th 4 weeks
communication with nature and angels. How to stabilize your Light body/Joy/ Purpose with the elements -
Info here
https://www.facebook.com/share/1A7BjqetCc/

Barbrawhite.com
Mother Bear Sanctuary and Retreat Center
motherBearsanctuary.com
7 books on Amazon

Photography donated to Mother Bear Sanctuary and Retreat Center and Dave Tuscany
by Tamara Wade
Silver Thumb Photography

11/10/2025
Animals are teachers of presence love and interdependence. May we have the humility and wisdom to learn from cats, dogs,...
11/05/2025

Animals are teachers of presence love and interdependence. May we have the humility and wisdom to learn from cats, dogs, cows, goats, chickens, dragonflies bees, worms, whales etc...
A stray cat walked into a classroom in 1952—and attended school for the next 16 years.
It was autumn at Elysian Heights Elementary School in Los Angeles. A teacher was in the middle of a lesson when a thin, hungry tabby cat walked through the door, settled calmly in the center of the classroom, and began grooming himself.

The students were delighted. The teacher was bemused. They gave the cat a little milk.
The cat spent the day attending class with perfect dignity. When school ended, he stood up and left.
The next day, he came back.
And the day after that.
It became clear: this cat had enrolled himself.
The students named him Room 8—after the classroom he'd first entered.
Over the next 16 years, Room 8 would become one of the most famous cats in America.
THE SCHOOL CAT
Room 8 quickly established his routine. He arrived each morning, attended classes, napped in sunny spots, allowed students to pet him, and departed each afternoon.
Among students, no privilege was more coveted than "the one who feeds the cat" or "the one who gets to move the sleeping cat to a better spot."

Room 8 had impeccable classroom manners. He never disrupted lessons. He seemed to understand when to be quiet. He attended reading time, math lessons, art projects—a silent, furry observer of elementary education.
And every year, when yearbook photos were taken, Room 8 sat proudly in the center of the class photo—in the place of honor.
If you flip through Elysian Heights yearbooks from 1952 to 1968, nearly every class photo features Room 8, looking dignified and vaguely smug, as though he knew exactly how special he was.

THE LEGEND GROWS
By the early 1960s, Room 8's fame had spread beyond the school.
In 1962, LOOK magazine—one of the biggest publications in America—ran a feature story about him. The article called him "the most famous cat in America."
Fan mail began arriving. Hundreds of letters from around the country, addressed to "Room 8, Elysian Heights Elementary School, Los Angeles, California."
Children wrote to him. Adults wrote to him. People sent gifts—toys, treats, letters expressing their love for this cat who'd chosen to attend school.

Room 8 had become a celebrity.
Guitarist Leo Kottke would later discover the story and compose an instrumental piece titled "Room 8" in his honor—a gentle, contemplative melody that captured the cat's quiet dignity.
THE DECLINING YEARS
By 1963, Room 8 was aging. He got into a fight and was injured. In 1964, he developed pneumonia and became seriously ill.
One of the teachers, Virginia Finley, offered him something he'd never had: a real home.
She lived in a house directly across the street from the school. Room 8 began spending nights at her house and days at school—a perfect arrangement for a cat who'd spent over a decade as an independent wanderer.
When he felt well, he'd walk across the street to school himself each morning.
As he grew weaker, teachers and students would carry him between the two buildings—ensuring he could still attend class even when his legs wouldn't carry him.
Room 8 had given them 16 years. They weren't going to abandon him now.

THE END
On August 11, 1968, Room 8 died peacefully. He was approximately 21 or 22 years old—ancient for a cat, especially one who'd spent years as a stray before adopting Elysian Heights.
The Los Angeles Times ran a three-column obituary.
Not a brief notice. A real obituary. On the front page.
The headline read: "Room 8, Famous Feline, Dies at School"
The obituary detailed his 16-year tenure, his fame, his dignified manner, and the love thousands of students had for him. It treated his death with the seriousness usually reserved for important civic figures.
Because that's what Room 8 had been: an important civic figure. A beloved member of the community. A cat who'd touched thousands of lives simply by showing up and being present.
Room 8 was buried with honors. Students mourned him. Teachers mourned him. People across the country who'd followed his story mourned him.

THE LEGACY
What made Room 8 so special?
He was just a stray cat who walked into a school. But he represented something deeper:
Belonging.
Room 8 had no home, no family, no obvious purpose. He was alone in the world.
Then he walked into a classroom, and suddenly he had hundreds of families. Thousands of children who loved him, took care of him, made him part of their daily lives.
He went from nameless stray to beloved institution—not because anyone planned it, but because a community recognized that sometimes the best things happen when you simply make room for unexpected guests.
Every child who attended Elysian Heights from 1952 to 1968 has a Room 8 story. He's in their yearbooks. He's in their memories. He's part of their childhood.
In 2006, author Beverly Mason Cleary wrote a children's book about him: Room 8: The True Story of the School Cat, ensuring new generations would know about the tabby who enrolled himself in elementary school.
THE LESSON
Room 8's story reminds us that:
Sometimes the best education isn't in textbooks—it's in learning to care for something fragile.

Sometimes the most memorable classmates have four legs and fur.

----belonging doesn't require permission—just showing up and being yourself

And sometimes, the most dignified response to a stray cat walking into your classroom is simply this:
"Welcome. You can stay."
Room 8 showed up for 16 years.
And Elysian Heights Elementary never stopped making room for him.
Room 8 (c. 1947-1968)
Attended Elysian Heights Elementary School, 1952-1968
Featured in LOOK magazine
Received fan mail from around the world
Honored with Los Angeles Times obituary
Immortalized in Leo Kottke's instrumental composition
A stray cat who walked into a classroom and stayed for 16 years.
Who taught children about kindness, responsibility, and unconditional acceptance.
Who proved that sometimes family isn't who you're born to—it's who lets you stay.
Rest in peace, Room 8.
You earned that place of honor in every yearbook photo.

11/02/2025

What a beautiful hay-day celebration and coed circle. Hay delivery was so easy, share circle after around fire nourishing
Wow. So grateful.
Dave Tuscany
Barbra White Crow

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