Intimate Ascension Journals

10/01/2025

09/27/2025

Lady Lair (closet section) update: Getting Creative ✨

For several reasons - such as privacy, protecting my perfumes (from direct sunlight), and desiring a moodier light in the room - I wanted to cover the main windows in my closet. There are 5 total.

I just bought a set of inexpensive curtains to throw on the big one for now, just to have something there… but I was fairly stuck with what to do with the smaller, side windows. My hubby was tossing out ideas such as custom curtains or blinds of some sort, and then he arrived at the idea to do stained glass window film… which I don’t think would have ever naturally crossed my mind. Go, him! Lol.
Insert side quest to Home Depot 🤗

I found one I liked, we got all the little supplies we needed, and went home to work on some projects around the house.

My little reminder that “the universe has got me,” lol, was that I didn’t look at the size of the film before buying - it looked like a lot to me… I guess; so I did a grab and go. When we unwrapped it, we both stared in surprise, “Oh, is that it.” 🤦🏾‍♀️ Apparently the ONE sheet was only 24x36. Well, after finally measuring the windows, we found that each one was exactly 12 inches across 😅 Perrrfect. And, I can cut straight 🙃

I am absolutely loving how it turned out!

This was a part of my self-care today - setting up more of my Lady Lair. The Man got around to hanging some artwork in a hallway, my closet, and my office, and we solved my window dilemma. It has enhanced my comfort and the degree to which my spaces are aesthetically pleasing to me, which can help my overall mood and groundedness on a day-to-day basis

09/15/2025

Jealousy/Envy is one of the lowest energetic vibrations across the entire emotional spectrum.
Love… self-love is one of the highest.
I look like me, talk like me, dream like me, love like me, dress like me; I do me because there’s no one else I’d rather be 💜

09/15/2025

Our garden is still giving 💜

08/29/2025

Tonight, I had my first pilates class - starting with private sessions 🙃 - and absolutely LOVED it. I have tried and gotten excited about other workouts and exercise classes before, but this felt soooo good for my body, was easy for me to pick up, and I can definitely see myself sustaining this practice. The studio (pictured below) is also in a super convenient location for me so it’s easily accessible, which can support my intention to keep my commitment to my physical health. And most importantly, the vibe of the space and the connection with the teacher was easy and peaceful👌🏾.
Lately, I’ve been reprioritizing setting new time boundaries during the week so that I have space to go to 2-3 yoga and/or pilates classes per week. I still work late some evenings… but less evenings than before.
Literally all of my full-time jobs, and even my “side gigs” have bled into my evenings, weekends and personal time… and I’ve been doing that for like 10 years. That’s not quite what I want for my Self forever. I crave having time and energy to take care of my body and learn new things, and have a yummy, hot meal ready for my man when he gets home from work, or time to explore my other passions and have the capacity to do some creative writing. My nervous system needs a rest! Lol. And more so because it makes me feel more in flow, more imaginative, and grounded in contentment.

And- 😂 I can give myself a reason to buy cute little workout outfits, lol

08/28/2025

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08/18/2025

Year 3 of gardening. Our garden that keeps on giving! 😋 I’ve also learned that I really enjoy pruning - keeping everything vibrant and growing

08/12/2025

Something I celebrated and felt proud of so far this week was that I finished putting together all the furniture for the primary closet in my Lady Lair- yay 🤗
Got it done all by myself, too! Which was preferred because I actually enjoy putting together furniture, and find it to be kind of relaxing 😅 They are really big puzzles that I get to admire for a while, lol. Over the past few weeks, I built two dressers, the wardrobe island, display case for some of my purses, a shoe rack, and two dress racks 💪🏾
Baby steps, yet it’s progress… and slowly but surely my vision is becoming a reality. I’m looking forward to the day everything is decorated, unpacked and has a proper place 😮‍💨 Until then, just enjoying the journey of living with my significant other, unifying our lives further, and continuing to build our life and home together 💜

08/03/2025

Sunday Dinner salad: spring mix, grilled peaches, grilled chicken, red onion, walnuts, feta, black cherry tomatoes and basil from the garden, and a balsamic vinegar-honey dressing 😋

08/01/2025

Environmental Wellness: The main room of my Lady Lair is maaaybe 20-30% done, but it is in fair use! 🤗
My boyfriend said one time that it’s like a whole other apartment up here, and it really is my own little retreat and oasis. As we do little renovations in the house, we’re making joint decisions, but this is truly my personal little dream space I’m creating. (Also, important to note that he already has his own walk-in closet space and office, too; so it’s not like I’m encroaching on his needs or he’s sacrificing any space.)
I’ll go into detail once it’s complete, but everything is intentional and purposeful - it usually takes me months to fully plan out, research and then commit to any kind of purchase, especially because I’m still spending my own moolah and have a budget, lol.
Everything from the colors to the fabrics, placement/organization, artwork, patterns, etc. is a carefully curated decision to promote the vibe I’d like to have influence how I feel in this space. Interior design can be art - it’s a type of creative expression. My space reflects me and my personal taste, as best as possible.
My favorite investment into my Lady Lair has been a rocker/glider/recliner. One, because an 80-year-old person lives inside me; and two, rocking and/or putting my feet up and leaning back is sooooo relaxing and soothing to me. I just be up here chillin’ after these long days at work lol. Getting this piece of furniture was pretty key to my vision.
Home, to us, is supposed to be your base for rest, peace, safety, contentment, and comfort. It’s an escape from a lot of the obligations, productivity and stressors of life. It’s one of the reasons I had chosen to live alone for so long - less disruptions (in various ways). To make such a drastic change in both of our lives by unifying our homes… we’re truly in sync 🥰. More on that later.
Anyway, I was just settling into my chair and was overwhelmed with joy and gratitude, and wanted to share some of the moving progress. Hopefully I’ll get some more time to write this weekend 🤞🏾

07/29/2025

"We must come to recognize that God is an unlimited supply and that everyone has access
God does not run out of blessings, someone else receiving a gift from God is not one taken away from you and I wanna apply this and practice this in my daily life, thank you
Receiving God's good is an act of worship and cooperating with God's plan will manifest goodness in your life
God has lots of money, God has lots of song ideas, lyrics, strategies, acting jobs, lovers, friends, houses, etcetera that is available to me and by listening to the crеator within I will be led through the right path, and on this path I will find mеaningful work.....recognizing that God is unlimited supply, there is no limitations, there is an unlimited supply of creative energy in me, there is an unlimited supply of opportunities around me, and jobs, and lyrics, and ideas, and visions, and really accepting that.....If I am a product of the greatest artist of all time, which is God, if I am a product of the original creator and he has an unlimited supply of creative energy, that means I have access to an unlimited supply of creative energy..."

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