01/25/2026
The news out of Minneapolis is heavy. This year has been heavy and we're not out of the first month.
The shooting of Alex Pretti is horrifying, unjust and infuriating. A man was executed in broad daylight by his own government.
For those of us who care deeply and work with those who care for others like nurses and other healthcare professionals, moments like this can create an internal tug-of-war:
I need to speak up, speak out, be informed, share information, do more, resist, take action...on and on.
And I also need to protect my mental health and preserve my physical and emotional energy.
Both can be true.
Speaking out doesn’t require burning yourself out. And caring doesn’t require consuming every headline, comment thread, or argument. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, a few gentle reminders:
• You’re allowed to pause before reacting. Thoughtful responses matter more than fast ones (this is something that does not come easy to me!)
• You can set boundaries around news and social media without being disengaged or indifferent.
• Rest is not avoidance. It’s how we sustain our ability to care long-term.
• Speaking up looks different for everyone: learning, donating, voting, mentoring, listening, advocating, or simply refusing to stay silent when it matters most.
If you’re in a leadership role - formal or informal - your steadiness matters. People take cues from how we process hard moments, how we name pain without amplifying panic, and how we model compassion without collapsing under the weight of it.
And I’m reminding myself that protecting my mental health is not separate from creating change and taking a stand. It’s part of it.
Take care of yourselves. Then, when you’re able, speak with clarity, humanity, and purpose.