05/05/2026
Many adults think praise is always helpful. It is not.
When children only hear “good job” or “you are so smart”, they can start to rely on approval instead of learning how to cope, try again, and improve. Over time, this can make them give up more easily, avoid challenges, or feel pressure to always be “the best”.
What children actually need is to feel seen. Not judged. Not labelled.
They need adults to notice effort, small progress, and the behaviours they can repeat. That is what builds real confidence and resilience - not empty praise.
This is a small shift, but it changes how children see themselves for life.
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