12/14/2025
What If We Weren't Afraid To Be Ourselves?
December 14, 2025
Hello again, my friends! Welcome back.
As I mentioned a couple of posts ago, I found a huge stack of old writing from other blogs I started over the years. Here is a really old one, over five years old, to be exact, but it is just as true today as it was then. I hope you enjoy.
What if whatever is holding us prisoner vanished tomorrow?
What form of new normal would we choose?
What if, during this time of reflection, we chose to follow our bliss instead of following the herd? Would we still go to jobs that pay the bills but leave us emotionally, spiritually, and physically bankrupt?
What if we chose occupations that provided for all of our material needs, but also filled our emotional, spiritual, and physical bank accounts to overflowing? What if we admitted that emotional bliss is more important than financial abundance?
What if we chose to believe in who we truly are, who we were destined to be on the day of our birth, who God sent us here to be, instead of who others and society told us to be?
From the day we are born, our parents, communities, and society begin teaching us who we should be, how we should behave, how we should eat, when we should eat, when we should sleep, what we should study, how we should look, who we should love, who we should hate, how we should earn a living, what we should fear, and what we should desire.
What if we recognized that much of this conditioning is simply the deep desire of others to make us be like them, or at least what they deem acceptable?
What if we gave ourselves permission to be who we want to be? To eat, sleep, and work when and how we choose? What if we chose to support the human race instead of the rat race?
What if we, as a collective, chose to rid ourselves of the desire to climb that elusive ladder, to compete until we could hold our competitor’s severed head high above the crowd to prove we were the victor?
What if we realized that we always need others in order to succeed?
What if we worked with a sense of cooperation instead of competition? What if we chose to do whatever we do with a servant’s heart instead of a winner’s heart?
What if we chose to live our lives in tune with the rhythms of the earth instead of by the never-ending sweep of the hands on the clock?
What if we chose to be guided by the light of the sun, the moon, and the stars instead of the buzzing, flickering, false glow of fluorescent bulbs at the other end of a light switch?
It has taken me over sixty years, but I have finally decided to follow my bliss.
Do you know what I am at my core?
Do you know what I came here to do?
I am a writer.
I came here to write and to give my writing to anyone who wants to read it as a gift. Not with the singular goal of becoming wealthy, but with the intention of gift-giving. If I am given an outlet for my words, I am already wealthy.
Do you know when I first realized I was a writer?
I was a second-grade student in Mrs. Huff’s class. She was gone for the day, and we had a substitute teacher. Our assignment was to write a paragraph about anything we wanted.
In my mind’s eye, I saw a glorious sunrise spilling over the high-rise buildings of New York City. I wrote about the sun pouring its golden rays over the tops of the buildings like syrup flowing over a stack of pancakes. (LOL! So dramatic!)
When the substitute read my paragraph, he swiveled his chair around, leaned forward until we were eye level, looked me straight in the eye, and told me my writing was amazing.
In that moment, I knew I had the ability to see something in my mind and bring it to life on paper.
To this day, it amazes me that we can string letters together to form threads of thought, and weave the very fabric of life itself.
For most of my life, I kept my writing hidden away in journals stored in a tote in the attic. Why? Because like so many of us, I let others tell me their version of truth. They told me that becoming a writer was nearly impossible, that even if I published a book I could never truly make a living from writing. They told me I needed to be more than a writer, more than a dreamer.
So now, fifty-five years after that day in second grade, it is time for me to be my authentic self.
It is time to write.
What if you chose to join me on this quest for truth?
What would you be if you allowed yourself to truly be you?
Thanks so much for being here.
Until next time, I am forever yours,
Suzy