Plainwell Counseling Center

02/06/2026

101.6K likes, 88 comments. “because once someone feels unheard, the fight isn’t about the topic anymore — it’s about safety. listening to respond keeps a conversation going. listening to understand keeps a connection alive. the moment love stops being the filter and ego takes over, everythin...

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02/05/2026

Real accountability isn't just saying sorry. It's admitting when you're wrong without waiting for them to prove it. Changing the behavior, not just apologizing for it. Asking what they need from you instead of getting defensive.

Taking feedback without making them feel bad for giving it. Noticing patterns in your behavior and addressing them. Showing progress over time, not just promising change.

Most people confuse regret with accountability. Regret is feeling bad about the consequences. Accountability is taking responsibility for the choice and doing the work to be different next time.

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