11/20/2025
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When your child or teen melts down, it’s not defiance. It’s their brain saying, “I’m at my limit.”
Those moments that look like “bad behavior” are really moments of overwhelm.
Their nervous system is flooded. The part of their brain that helps them think and respond calmly has gone offline, and what’s left is survival.
It’s not dramatic. It’s not manipulative. It’s a brain that’s maxed out.
What helps most isn’t correction, but connection. Your calm presence tells their body: You’re safe.
So what helps?
• Take a breath before you respond.
• Use few, gentle words.
• Offer quiet presence over lectures or logic.
• Let recovery come before reflection.
You’re not “letting them get away with it.” You’re helping their brain come back online. And that’s where real learning and connection begin.
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