Michelle Scharlop, LMFT, Relationship Expert

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Michelle Scharlop, LMFT, Relationship Expert

Michelle Scharlop, LMFT specializes in marriage counseling, couples therapy, relationship therapy. I am an experienced Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.

I work collaboratively with my clients to utilize their strengths to cope with their current situations and meet their needs. I will help facilitate change by listening to everyone in the therapy room and gaining an understanding of all perspectives. We will have meaningful conversations that restore broken connections and rebuilds communication. My innovative approach is positive and encouraging, compassionate and respectful, warm with a gentle sense of humor. In this safe, confidential, nonjudgmental environment we can uncover and reshape unhealthy patterns. Together we can embark on an empowering journey to find a happier you.

10/16/2025

Welcome to the middle of October! The children are back in school and usually by now set with their new classes, schedules and friends. The holidays are approaching, but not here yet. If you live in a place with seasons, the leaves are changing color and the air is feeling a little brisk. If you live in Florida, like I do, then the leaves are still green and the occasional breeze puts a big smile on your face. Autumn is a perfect time to focus on your marriage. It is a great time to take a moment for a marriage “check in”. Let’s face it. Life is busy! You are probably juggling your busy schedule, while your spouse is juggling a busy schedule, your children have a busy schedule and then there is the hectic never ending housework, errands, paying bills and so much more! How do you make time for your spouse? Are you and your spouse connecting in a satisfying and fulfilling way? Possibly you are nodding your head yes, but you might be saying no or I’m not sure. This blog will hopefully get your mind thinking in the direction of I can do that tip, that tip is something I never thought of or that tip gives me an idea and I am about to be creative. Go for it! For tips on connecting with your spouse while balancing a busy schedule, read the blog by clicking on the link in the comments.

10/15/2025

Many couples say, “I just want to be happy in my marriage.” As a Relationship Expert in Florida, I often ask, “What does happiness look like for you?”

Many people use the word happy often, and yet it might mean something different for every person and for every couple. For some couples, happiness looks like laughter and playfulness, intimacy and romance. For others, it is feeling emotionally safe, deeply understood or simply appreciated. For some couples, it is all of the above.

When couples come to counseling and say they want to “feel happy again,” we take time to talk about what that truly means to them. A few of the questions we might explore are, “What moments in your life make you smile? What moments in your relationship bring you joy? When do you feel most connected? What do you need from your spouse to feel emotionally fulfilled?”

Defining happiness for yourself and sharing that definition with your spouse creates clarity and direction. It transforms “I just want to be happy” into a shared vision you can work towards together.

Hi, I’m Michelle Scharlop, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Your Relationship Expert. I help couples in Florida reconnect, rebuild and rediscover joy in their relationship. I Transform Relationships, one relationship at a time and yours could be next.

10/10/2025

Today is World Mental Health Day, If you are struggling with anything, please reach out to a family member, a friend, or a therapist. If you are in Florida and struggling with your relationship, whether you are dating, engaged, married or on the brink of divorce, call me, I can help.

10/09/2025

Effective communication is the cornerstone of a successful marriage. It fosters understanding, trust and emotional connection between partners. By openly sharing thoughts, feelings and concerns, couples can navigate challenges, resolve conflicts and build a stronger bond.

10/08/2025

*Marriage counseling gives you and your spouse a safe space to focus on the relationship.
*A space to be able to communicate and feel heard.
*A space to learn effective communication tools that are practical and relationship transforming.
*A space to work on your emotional connection and to feel that bond so the physical connection can be rekindled.
*A space devoted to you, your spouse, and your relationship needs, wants and desires.

Working with me as Your Relationship Expert, you will benefit from my 20 plus years of experience working with couples in all different types of life’s struggles. Bonus, online marriage counseling is the opportunity to work with me while in the comfort and convenience of being in your own home.

Hi, I’m Michelle Scharlop, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Your Relationship Expert. I Transform Relationships, one relationship at a time. If you live in Florida and you are experiencing relationship struggles, call me,
I can help.

10/02/2025

In , it’s easy to think our way is the right way. And yet a healthy relationship means being open to your spouse’s perspective too. Sometimes, the solution isn’t about who’s “right” or “wrong”. Sometimes it is about that there may be more than one way to do things. When you slow down, listen, and truly consider your spouse’s viewpoint, you might not only solve the problem, you can also strengthen your marital bond. Think about the times your spouse’s surprised you (in a good way)?

09/29/2025

Happy National Coffee Day!
One of my favorite rituals of connection that I share with my husband is the mornings where we can sit, relax, talk and drink our morning together. Think about your favorite rituals of connection with your spouse. How do you keep the connection alive in your ?

09/23/2025

Do you and your spouse take time to communicate about your , and future desires? These conversations go beyond, “What’s for dinner?” or “Who is picking up the kids?”. When dream out loud and talk about it with their spouse they build deeper emotional connection, alignment and excitement for the future. Ask your spouse, “Where do you see us in a year, 5 years, 10 years?” and “What would make our life more meaningful?” Start having that are connecting.

09/22/2025

Happy First Day of Fall! Even though Florida doesn’t give us the crisp air or colorful leaves, there are still so many ways to embrace the season here in the Sunshine State. My husband and I love visiting pumpkin patches, strolling through Fall festivals, and of course, tasting all the pumpkin-inspired treats we can find.

Fall isn’t just about the weather, it’s about creating moments and making memories with the people you love. In marriage, those little shared traditions matter more than we realize. It helps couples to stay connected as well as gives couples and families something to look forward to year after year. What are some of your Fall traditions as a couple or as a family?

09/18/2025

When you and your spouse look in the mirror, what do you see? Is it a couple full of love, hope and dreams? Or is it a couple walking on eggshells, struggling to communicate, feeling unheard, feeling unseen and feeling disconnected? If you and your spouse are struggling to see the positive qualities in each other and the relationship, call me, I can help. I Transform Relationships, one relationship at a time and yours can be next.

09/17/2025

When you become parents, your marriage matters more not less.
Why? Because now, other people are counting on you. The love and teamwork you model sets the foundation for their sense of safety and connection. As parents, you are your children’s role models and they are learning what healthy relationships look like from you. Are you satisfied with what you are showing them?

09/16/2025

Now you have an adult who is independent and ready to move to the next chapter of independence. As your child moves on to his/her next chapter, you and your spouse are transitioning into yours. Surviving and thriving through this transitional phase is essential.

Keep in mind, your parenting is not over, it is just changing. Your child will still need you; it might be different. This was always the goal, to raise a confident child who can flourish on his own. As parents, you gave your child roots and now as they find their wings and fly, seize the opportunity to rediscover yourself and your life as a couple as you soar into your next chapter.

If you and your spouse are struggling to get reconnected, contact me, I can help. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Florida, with over two decades of experience, I have helped hundreds of couples communicate and reconnect during any phase in their relationship.

Address

8551 W Sunrise Boulevard, Ste 206
Plantation, FL
33322

Telephone

+19542459608

Website

http://plantationrelationshipcounseling.com/

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