Michelle Scharlop, LMFT, Relationship Expert

Michelle Scharlop, LMFT, Relationship Expert Michelle Scharlop, LMFT specializes in marriage counseling, couples therapy, relationship therapy. I am an experienced Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.

I work collaboratively with my clients to utilize their strengths to cope with their current situations and meet their needs. I will help facilitate change by listening to everyone in the therapy room and gaining an understanding of all perspectives. We will have meaningful conversations that restore broken connections and rebuilds communication. My innovative approach is positive and encouraging, compassionate and respectful, warm with a gentle sense of humor. In this safe, confidential, nonjudgmental environment we can uncover and reshape unhealthy patterns. Together we can embark on an empowering journey to find a happier you.

Are you practicing gratitude daily? What relationships are on your list? Is your marriage at the top of the list?
12/12/2025

Are you practicing gratitude daily? What relationships are on your list? Is your marriage at the top of the list?

Something that I say as a Marriage Therapist in Florida is, “One marriage goal that every couple should have is to nurtu...
12/10/2025

Something that I say as a Marriage Therapist in Florida is, “One marriage goal that every couple should have is to nurture your relationship so you can grow together in all the different phases of your lives.” A quote that goes along with my thoughts is one from Fawn Weaver, “Having a partner in this lifetime-to grow together, love completely, ride out every storm and overcome all of life’s challenges-is one of the most beautiful blessings of marriage.”

If you could have one holiday wish for your marriage, what would it be?Better communication?Deeper connection?Feeling...
12/09/2025

If you could have one holiday wish for your marriage, what would it be?
Better communication?
Deeper connection?
Feeling appreciated?
Working together as a team?
Being a priority?
More intimacy?
Is your wish simply a “fantasy holiday wish” or with a little help can it become your marriage reality?

We charge our phones daily as that is the device we use to communicate with others. What do we do daily to “charge” and ...
12/08/2025

We charge our phones daily as that is the device we use to communicate with others. What do we do daily to “charge” and nurture the communication in our marriage?
For communication tips, read my blog, Conversations in Marriage. Click in the comment for the link to the blog.

Sometimes, Small Changes can equal Big Results. If you are looking for tips on how to make small changes in your marriag...
12/05/2025

Sometimes, Small Changes can equal Big Results. If you are looking for tips on how to make small changes in your marriage or any relationship and hoping for big results, I can help with a free resource, my blogs. I write blogs on love, marriage, relationships, communication, connection, appreciation, resolving conflicts and more. Click on the link in the comments and happy reading!

December is usually an extra busy month for many people and relationships. The added responsibilities of the busy season...
12/04/2025

December is usually an extra busy month for many people and relationships. The added responsibilities of the busy season can sometimes add stress to an individual, couple and/or family. Please take the time to check in with yourself and your spouse. Take some time for self care. Remember, self care is not selfish. It is vital to your well being. If you need support, call me, I can help.

Life is usually hectic, especially around this time of year. Please keep in mind that the little things in marriage matt...
12/03/2025

Life is usually hectic, especially around this time of year. Please keep in mind that the little things in marriage matter! The little things make a difference and send a message to your spouse. The message is, “you are important to me and I care.” What a powerful message for your spouse to receive!
Dr. John Gottman, a world-renowned therapist, says “It’s the small things done often that make the biggest difference”. What do you think about that quote?

In my personal life, as a wife and marriage therapist for over two decades, I know the importance of the little things. For example my husband likes his coffee cold and I keep brewed coffee in the refrigerator. When I notice the container getting low, I brew some coffee and chill it in the refrigerator. That way whenever he goes for a cup, it is always there. Another example is that I do not enjoy pumping gas, so my husband regularly checks the gas gauge and when he sees it getting low, he takes it to the station and fills it up. We both appreciate each other’s gestures of love and it does put smiles on our faces. Click on the comments for the link to read about some things that couples do for each other to show their love in small, often ways.

How often do you and your spouse hug? When you hug, how do you feel? Do you feel happy and safe, wanting the hug to ling...
11/28/2025

How often do you and your spouse hug? When you hug, how do you feel? Do you feel happy and safe, wanting the hug to linger or do you feel uncomfortable, in a hurry for the hug to end? What does the feeling say to you about your relationship?

Wishing you and your loved ones a very happy and healthy Thanksgiving full of love, peace and gratitude!
11/27/2025

Wishing you and your loved ones a very happy and healthy Thanksgiving full of love, peace and gratitude!

Tomorrow is Thanksgiving and many couples are starting to cook the traditional Thanksgiving foods. My favorites are turk...
11/26/2025

Tomorrow is Thanksgiving and many couples are starting to cook the traditional Thanksgiving foods. My favorites are turkey, cranberry sauce and sweet potatoes with lots and lots of marshmallows slightly charred. What are your favorite dishes?

The holidays are approaching and that can mean a mixture of feelings. If you are struggling with communication in your m...
11/25/2025

The holidays are approaching and that can mean a mixture of feelings. If you are struggling with communication in your marriage or any significant relationship, then some of my blogs can be helpful. Hopefully, the relationship tips in my blogs can help you enjoy the holiday season instead of merely surviving and feeling a sense of dread. If you need more than tips and you want to talk about how my marriage counseling and couples therapy sessions can be beneficial, call me, I can help.

When you and your spouse talk about a topic, do you   each other? If you do, stop. Please let your spouse finish their t...
11/19/2025

When you and your spouse talk about a topic, do you each other? If you do, stop. Please let your spouse finish their thought. It is important that you each feel like your voice is being heard and you can fully say what you want to say. can also make your spouse feel shut down, like what they want to say does not matter. It also moves the conversation’s point of view, from the spouse who was speaking to the spouse who was listening. Do you listen to your spouse’s ? When you listen, postpone your own agenda, and please hear your spouse’s perspective. You do not need to agree with their perspective. Just try to understand why they feel that way. For more tips, click on the link in the comments.

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