01/15/2024
Another piece of paper, wooo! š„³ Certificates and diplomas are nice to have but they donāt really mean much in this line of work if you donāt have āthe touchā.
Bodywork is all about connection. Connecting to a persons body, their nervous system, their breath, their nonverbal communication, their energy, etc. The interesting part that Iāve learned through the years and reflected in my classes recently is that for the therapist to have āthe touchā, they have to be deeply connected with themselves. If they cannot tune into their own body, their own nervous system, their own breath, their own internal communication, and their energy then there is no way they can tune into another persons.
Weāve probably all heard that āwe can only meet someone as deeply as they have met themselvesā and that rings true especially in this art form. One of the things that I love about this craft is that it forces me to bring awareness to my mind and my body. It keeps me centered because I have to be.
If my mind is cluttered and my body is tense, I can still massage but the quality of the session is reduced. This is a huge reason why in my practice I focus much more on quality in a session rather than the quantity of sessions. I only do a few a day and leave time in between so I am not rushed and I can focus all of my energy and attention on the present moment, for myself and the client I am working with.
Yes, I know some fancy techniques and the advanced ones are cool to show off. Yes, I could wow a person by explaining certain scientific phenomena that is happening in their body. But the real āmagicā and āhealingā happens when I am centered in the present moment and hold space for another person to do the same. As much as I would love to take credit for the healing and claim the title of the āhealerā, itās simply not true.
Yes, healing can take place in my presence but it is being done by you. We all have the power to heal and regenerate our body in many ways. Is it the doctor that heals your broken arm or is it you? It is you, it was always you the whole time. Healing is about awareness, relaxation, and letting go. We cannot heal if we are not aware, relaxed, or attached. šāÆļø