01/11/2026
💬 “I Don’t Believe People Are Resistant.”
When people don’t change, shut down, miss appointments, or seem stuck, it’s easy to label them as resistant.
But what if those behaviors are actually signs of protection, fear, overwhelm, or survival?
In this Substack essay, Chelsea Reed-Lahey, M.A., LPC-Associate (supervised by Erin Alexander, LPC-S) challenges the idea of resistance and reframes it through a trauma-informed lens—one rooted in compassion, curiosity, and nervous-system awareness.
This piece is for:
✨ Anyone who’s been labeled “unmotivated” or “resistant”
✨ Therapists, caregivers, and helpers wanting a gentler framework
✨ People trying to understand their own stuckness without shame
Because behavior always makes sense in context.
And understanding comes before change.
🕊️ Read the full article here:
👉 https://chelseareedlahey.substack.com/p/i-dont-believe-people-are-resistant