Collaborative Minds Consulting

Collaborative Minds Consulting Christina provides virtual parent consulting, and virtual & in-person professional development. Connection Regulation Communication

She specializes in gestalt language processing, scripting, and understanding behavior as communication.

11/27/2025

Happy Thanksgiving!!
I’m thankful for the ability to share my experiences and knowledge with all of you 🫶🏼🍁♾️.

11/21/2025

Across many districts, exclusively special education buildings are being pushed to prioritize academic pacing and state guidelines over what students actually need. These buildings were created to provide individualized instruction, sensory support, and developmentally aligned programming — yet the opposite is happening.

Accommodations are being questioned.
Modifications are minimized.
Sensory and regulation supports are reduced.
Teachers are being asked to “push academics” regardless of readiness.

Meanwhile, the impact is becoming impossible to ignore:

• More frequent meltdowns
• Longer and more aggressive episodes
• Increased dysregulation
• Unsafe environments
• Burnout among students and staff
• Outdated expectations with limited training and insufficient staffing
• Administrators stating “the population is changing,” while programming is not changing with it

And another critical issue is becoming clear:

❗️The lack of top-down support is preventing educators from shifting outdated perspectives and teaching methods, pursuing meaningful continuing education, and providing students with the modified, individualized supports they require.

When leadership restricts flexibility, educators cannot:

✔ implement neurodivergent-centered approaches
✔ update instructional methods
✔ deepen professional learning
✔ deliver instruction in developmentally appropriate ways
✔ integrate sensory, relational, or regulation-based supports
✔ tailor curriculum to actual student levels

This raises an essential question:

💬 If an exclusively special education setting cannot support students where they are… who will?

Special education is meant to be specialized.
Without administrative support, meaningful training, and permission to modify instruction, schools lose the very purpose of special education.

Students deserve:
✔ individualized modifications and accommodations
✔ regulation and sensory-based supports
✔ trauma-aware and connection-centered approaches
✔ predictable, safe environments
✔ educators empowered to learn, grow, and adapt

When systemic support is missing, students communicate that mismatch through behavior — not because they are “noncompliant,” but because their needs are not being met.

Districts must prioritize rebuilding programs, training staff, and aligning expectations with the developmental and neurological needs of today’s learners.

Professional development and consulting are available for districts seeking support with unlearning to learn and restructuring special education programs.

www.collaborativemindsconsulting.com

christina@collaborativemindsconsulting.com









11/21/2025

I gained 647 followers!!! Thank you all for your continued support. I could not have done it without you. 🙏🤗🎉🫶🏼♾️

Reposted from Paula Jones MSc“Things Neurodivergent People Are Sick of Hearing and the Bomb-Drop Reasons WhyThis isn’t p...
11/19/2025

Reposted from Paula Jones MSc

“Things Neurodivergent People Are Sick of Hearing and the Bomb-Drop Reasons Why

This isn’t polite. This isn’t educational. This is the truth we usually swallow so the Normcore Horde can sleep at night. Let’s go.

“Have you tried just being more disciplined?”

Yes. Every day. Since childhood. It didn’t magically fix the wiring, Susan, it just made me really good at hating myself.

Your “discipline” is my nervous system collapse with a productivity soundtrack.

“You can’t be autistic, you’re too clever.”

Ah yes, the scientific diagnostic criteria you pulled out of your arse. Tell me more about your degree in Facebook Memes and Vibes-Based Neuroscience.

“But everyone struggles with that.”

Then explain why your struggle gets compassion, and mine gets suspicion.
I’ll wait.

“You don’t seem disabled.”

That’s because I learned to suffer quietly.
That’s not a compliment — it’s evidence of cultural harm.

“You just need to build resilience.”

I’m autistic. I’ve been white-knuckling a world that wasn’t built for me since I was five. Your resilience is yoga and green smoothies. Mine is surviving sensory warfare with a straight face.

“You’re too intense.”

I’m not intense. You’re anaemic.

“Can you just be a bit more flexible?”

Can you just stop asking disabled people to twist themselves into pretzels so you don’t have to examine your environment?

“Maybe you’re overthinking this.”

I have a whole-ass theatre in my skull with lighting, props, script rewrites, and an anxious stage manager called Trauma. I don’t “overthink.”
I run simulations so I don’t die.

“Your tone is a bit much.”

Your passive aggression is a bit boring.

“Please don’t make everything about autism.”

I’m not making everything about autism.
Everything already is because this world was architected on NT settings and assumes I’m the glitch.

“We all get overwhelmed sometimes.”

You get overwhelmed when Netflix removes your comfort show. I get overwhelmed because the air is loud today.

“You seemed okay yesterday.”

Yesterday the universe wasn’t set to Expert Mode.

“Is it really that deep?”

Yes. Because my brain doesn’t skim the surface.
It excavates.

The real bomb? Here it is.

We’re not tired of the questions. We’re tired of the entitlement behind them.

Neurodivergent people live in a world that expects us to:
perform normality
soothe discomfort
translate our inner languages
never inconvenience anyone
mask our differences
educate without compensation
self-regulate without support
collapse quietly
recover silently
and then come back smiling so no one has to confront their complicity

The bomb is simple:

We are done contorting ourselves for people who have never once adjusted their worldview for us.

No more shrinking to fit rooms that were built without us in mind. No more being grateful for crumbs of tolerance. No more treating our sensitivity like a defect instead of a finely tuned warning system the world actually needs.

Paula-was-here.”

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11/16/2025

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Courses, handbooks, and resources to teach you how to confidently identify, evaluate, and help guide children who script (communicate with echolalia) to original language. Learn about the Natural Language Acquisition framework, gestalt language processing, AAC, and more with Meaningful Speech.

As our Long Island Family Resource List continues to grow please reach out with any recommendations you would like to ad...
11/16/2025

As our Long Island Family Resource List continues to grow please reach out with any recommendations you would like to add ♾️🫶🏼

11/14/2025

It’s disappointing to see conversations in our profession (in largely framed in ways that divide rather than unite. Turning off comments prevents the very dialogue that evidence-based practice requires: respectful discussion, shared perspectives, and collective reflection.

But instead of responding with the same tone, I want to offer something different...
Education, Clarity, and Collaboration..grounded in the real Evidence-Based Practice (EBP) model.

Let’s Revisit What EBP Actually Is

The EBP triangle is clear:

External Scientific Evidence

Clinical Expertise

Client Preferences & Perspectives

All THREE are required, not just one, and not “science vs. feelings.”
The model exists because children do best when we integrate research, professional judgment, and the voices and lived experiences of those we serve.

This isn’t “wokeism.”
It’s literally the foundation of ethical practice.

~On Lived Experience & Neurodiversity

Calling lived experience “propaganda” misunderstands the triangle entirely.
Client and family perspectives are not optional. They are a core pillar of EBP.

Recognizing how identity, regulation, sensory needs, safety, autonomy, and trauma history impact communication is not political. It’s clinical competence.

Understanding a client is not abandoning science, it is applying science skillfully.

~On Research

Yes, high-quality research matters.
But so does acknowledging:

Some autistic communication styles are still being actively researched, even right now, because as our understanding grows, our practice grows with it and when we know better, we do better.

RCTs are limited for populations with high variability. Autistic individuals often present with wide-ranging strengths, sensory profiles, communication styles, co-occurring conditions, and support needs. This diversity makes it difficult to create tightly controlled, homogenous groups that RCTs require. As a result, strict randomized designs may overlook meaningful outcomes or fail to capture the individualized, real-world progress that clinicians observe daily.

Emerging practices often begin with qualitative or observational evidence. For many autistic communicators, the most meaningful information comes from watching how they naturally engage, listening to their caregivers, and learning directly from their lived experiences. These forms of evidence help us understand patterns, needs, and strengths that may not show up cleanly in a traditional experimental design. Qualitative work often becomes the foundation that future research builds upon.

Trauma-informed, sensory-informed, and neurodiversity-centered care are supported by decades of psychology, OT, mental health, and developmental research.

To insist that only RCTs “count” is to ignore the broader landscape of developmental science.

~On “Questioning” and “Critique”

Critical thinking is essential.
But critique is only productive when it is:

rooted in accuracy

open to learning

free from inflammatory language

grounded in curiosity, not contempt

When the tone becomes hostile, clinicians stop engaging!! Not because they can’t defend their work, but because no one learns in environments that feel unsafe.

That applies to SLPs just as much as it applies to the children we serve.

~On “Progress”

Connection-centered, neurodivergent-affirming care is not about lowering expectations.
It is about accurately identifying what progress means for each individual child, especially those who are dysregulated, traumatized, or unsupported by traditional compliance-based approaches.

Many autistic children do not thrive when forced into neurotypical communication molds.
Honoring their communication differences is not “making excuses”—it is aligning therapy with who they are and how they learn.

~A Path Forward

We can uplift our profession without attacking each other.
We can demand quality research and honor client perspectives.
We can expand our understanding of autism and hold high clinical standards.
We can critique methods without dismissing the people who use them.

The future of our field depends on nuance...not name-calling, not fear-based rhetoric, and not shutting down dialogue.

EBP was never intended to be a weapon.
It is a framework for collaboration.

And collaboration—not division—is how we best serve children and families.

♾️🫶🏻

Therapists — remember the middle. Evidence-Based Practice is strongest when we honor research, our clinical expertise, a...
11/13/2025

Therapists — remember the middle. Evidence-Based Practice is strongest when we honor research, our clinical expertise, and the voices and perspectives of the individuals we support.
It’s time to stop the professional divide and focus on true collaboration—because our clients deserve all three sides of the triangle working together.

11/07/2025

The New York State Police have developed the Autism Awareness Visor Card program in effort to assist in communication and reduce confusion and fear during police interactions. Each patrol vehicle will be equipped with a card to use as needed. Copies are also available to the public to be downloaded and printed here:

RESOURCE LIST for Long Island Families I was hoping to have more resources to initially add, but this will be a fluid an...
11/06/2025


RESOURCE LIST for Long Island Families

I was hoping to have more resources to initially add, but this will be a fluid and evolving document!!

I have started a recommended resource list for families on Long Island including restaurants, doctors, activities, informational organizations, lawyers, advocates, podcasts, and MORE!

Please feel free to share (no gate keeping here)!!
Anyone who would like to add to the list can either DM me or email me christina@collaborativemindsconsulting

Please invite families and friends to my FB group Empowering Parents-Autism & Neurodiversity Support

https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1SL6V0dM71KHDJIaDtqM9-fHZij3wQrZHPahO7sK6feM/edit?usp=sharing

**This is a shared Google sheet with different tabs along the bottom to click through.

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