
03/21/2025
My Dear Lorenzo,
Today, we celebrate you once again! Although it’s not your birthday, we love to honor you on Down Syndrome Awareness Day. You are now 2-1/2 years old, and you have no idea how profoundly you have impacted our lives and how much you teach us every day. You are getting stronger, and it’s a true joy to watch you grow.
We recently interviewed at a preschool, and I chose to be honest about your diagnosis. I asked them to meet you before making a decision, and thankfully, they accepted us! They only required you to be potty trained before starting. Initially, I considered placing you in the 2-year-old class to ease the potty training pressure, but I reminded myself to believe in your capabilities. To my joy, you became fully potty trained in just 2 weeks!
When we learned that you had an extra chromosome, my biggest concern was how it would affect your brother and sister. Now I understand that you are making them better human beings. The other day, when I picked up Adeline from school, she shared that she needed to do a book report and she chose the book I bought to help explain your diagnosis to her. Adeline needed to give it a Christian perspective and had already picked the perfect verse: “But the Lord sees not as man sees; man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart” (1 Samuel 16:7). She aimed to teach her friends that true worth comes from one’s heart, not appearance. In that moment, I was overwhelmed with gratitude, knowing she understands that a person’s worth is not based on their appearance or achievements but rather what lies within their heart.
Lorenzo, I experience God’s love through you every single day. I don’t know what I did to deserve you, but I am so grateful that God chose me to be your mom! I pray that your life is filled with love, kindness, and happiness, and that you never have to face rejection or discrimination because you are truly worthy of love and respect.
Lorenzo, we love you so very much!