Port Townsend Family Therapy

Port Townsend Family Therapy Counseling for Individuals, Couples, & Families.

Craig Isenberg, MA, LMFT:
Port Townsend Family Therapy works with individuals, couples and families to address issues ranging from relational conflict to the broad spectrum of mental health.

I’m now offering 2 Tracks for the Couples Intensive. The Standard Track is for couples who are committed to their relati...
08/01/2023

I’m now offering 2 Tracks for the Couples Intensive.

The Standard Track is for couples who are committed to their relationship but are experiencing distress, conflict, or dissatisfaction and are uncertain how to move forward.

The Premarital Track is for newly committed couples who are wanting to enter their commitment with intention.

Read more about this unique half day Intensive here:

Couples Intensive Standard Track The Standard Intensive is a one time half day session for those who are committed to their relationship but are experiencing distress, conflict, or dissatisfaction and are uncertain how to move forward. The half day Intensive will focus on identifying the

There are a few remaining spots available for the Couples Intensive before the end of the year. This is a one time half ...
10/28/2022

There are a few remaining spots available for the Couples Intensive before the end of the year. This is a one time half day session for couples who are committed to their relationship but are experiencing distress, conflict, or dissatisfaction and are uncertain how to move forward.

Couples Intensive This is a one time half day session for couples who are committed to their relationship but are experiencing distress, conflict, or dissatisfaction and are uncertain how to move forward. The half day Intensive will focus on identifying the presenting problem, what’s underneath

Well done Salomon! This is a very honest and raw experience of one professional skier’s experience with Bipolar. Warning...
02/02/2022

Well done Salomon! This is a very honest and raw experience of one professional skier’s experience with Bipolar. Warning: it’s unfiltered, real, and may be unsettling for some. Grateful that this is being talked about with such honesty.

"Every time I talk about this. Every time I give it a voice. All that shame that I used to experience is no longer rooted in the silence."

https://youtu.be/d5ssGdiWXac

Behind closed doors, professional skier Drew Petersen has been living a much different reality than ski films, magazine covers, and Instagram likes have show...

01/13/2022
Therapy doesn’t always have to be sitting on a couch in an office. Especially during this pandemic, clients have embrace...
11/30/2021

Therapy doesn’t always have to be sitting on a couch in an office. Especially during this pandemic, clients have embraced walking AND running sessions in sun, wind, rain, and now even in the dark.

Tonight was a beautiful night for a running session!

10/21/2021

If you’re looking for some parenting support, Love & Logic is a great class and is being offered through Salish. Read below for more info:

Please join us for a class on Parenting the Love and Logic Way. Love and Logic is a proven technique that has withstood over 40 years of testing in homes just like yours. The tools you will gain are simple and effective.

There will be 6 weekly sessions beginning on Tuesday November 9th

Where: The class will be taught via Zoom. We will send a link to your email when you sign up.

When: Once a week on Tuesdays, 6:30pm -8:30pm November 9th, 16th, 23rd, 30th, and December 7th & 14th

Cost: $10 for the workbook

To Sign Up: Call the Salish Coast Office at 360-379-4535 or email Chiarra Klontz at cklontz@ptschools.org or Ellen Thomas at 360-379-4888 or ethomas@ptschools.org

Love and Logic Parenting:

With humor and care, we show adults how to discipline kids without losing their love and respect. We focus on helping children develop personal responsibility, self-control and good decision making skills. Unlike some approaches we don’t use complicated reward or punishment systems only focused on short-term compliance. Instead, we focus on nurturing long-term relationships and reinforcing good character.

Questions?
contact Peter Braden pbraden@ptschools.org or Ellen Thomas ethomas@ptschools.org

It was so nice to be able to see a handful of clients indoors over the past few months, and I’m looking forward to being...
09/03/2021

It was so nice to be able to see a handful of clients indoors over the past few months, and I’m looking forward to being able to open the doors again to office sessions in hopefully the not too distant future. For now, Port Townsend Family Therapy will be returning to teletherapy (video or phone) or outdoor walking sessions only. Community health and safety is at the center of the work I do with all clients and taking appropriate precautions at this stage of the pandemic is a part of that. Please stay safe and support your community where you can. We’re all in this together.

This past year of pandemic has been a strain on many relationships while at the same time therapists have had a difficul...
04/23/2021

This past year of pandemic has been a strain on many relationships while at the same time therapists have had a difficult time keeping up with the increased need for support. In response to this, in June I will begin offering a half day Couples Intensive for couples who are not engaged in regular couples counseling.

This is a one time half day session for couples who are committed to their relationship but are experiencing distress, conflict, or dissatisfaction and are uncertain how to move forward. The half day Intensive will focus on identifying the presenting problem, what’s underneath these challenges, and how to move forward with more effective tools for a happier, healthier relationship. This extended one time session approach is intended to provide couples with a foundational understanding specific to their relationship on the role of attachment history in shaping present day thoughts and behaviors as they relate to both the individual and the couple. Couples will leave the Intensive with a clear understanding of how their unique individual history has influenced their relational needs and how to meet those needs in a direct and positive manner that contributes to a strong, healthy attachment and a more satisfying relationship.

To learn more, click on the link below or contact Port Townsend Family Therapy directly through phone, text, or email.

https://sites.google.com/a/ptfamilytherapy.com/ptfamilytherapy-com/couples-intensive

Teletherapy: What do you think about it?Out of necessity to decrease the spread of COVID and to address the heightened n...
04/02/2021

Teletherapy: What do you think about it?

Out of necessity to decrease the spread of COVID and to address the heightened need for mental health support during these challenging times, teletherapy has blown up exponentially in the past year. It has been around in some form or another for decades, but until this year it has historically been the rare session often intended to accomodate logistical challenges rather than the norm.

What has your experience with teletherapy been? What advantages and disadvantages to the platform do you see? What would you like to see different? Do you prefer video or phone? Have you ever texted your therapist for a session with a format like Talkspace? After over a year of all teletherapy, I’d love to hear how therapists are doing and what we’re doing well and what we could be changing to better accomodate clients.

Messages about your experience are welcome.

https://www.thecut.com/article/mental-health-therapy-apps.html

An overwhelming demand for professional counseling has spawned slickly marketed companies promising a service they cannot possibly provide.

Here’s a great holistic perspective from Prosper Natural Health on stress and anxiety.http://www.prospernaturalhealth.co...
10/27/2020

Here’s a great holistic perspective from Prosper Natural Health on stress and anxiety.

http://www.prospernaturalhealth.com/2020/10/12/how-to-cope-with-anxiety/

Anxious? Here’s How to Cope Posted by: prospernaturalhealth   The pandemic has brought us over six solid months of stress, anxiety, and fear of the unknown. This fall things are ramping up again, with increased COVID infection rates and back to school worries. Hundreds of studies have been publis...

Part 2:SAD During a PandemicBehavior ChangeIn a previous post, I discussed the benefits of light therapy and Vitamin D i...
10/26/2020

Part 2:
SAD During a Pandemic

Behavior Change

In a previous post, I discussed the benefits of light therapy and Vitamin D in counteracting the impact of darker winter days on our mental health. What can often be overlooked is the role behavior change can have on how we feel. Think about early in the pandemic back in March when businesses and schools were closed, public events were canceled, and social groups went online. Our daily routines were upended, and we were forced to adapt to a new normal. This adjustment did not come easy for many, and it took several weeks (if not months) for most of us to develop a sustainable routine to make it through these new and uncertain times. Not only were we missing the meaningful activities and connections that filled our days, but our sense of self came into question. If I’m not able to go to the gym, am I still an athlete? If I’m not at work, what happens to my professional identity or sense of success? If I’m not spending time with friends and family, am I still loved and thought of? Many of the things that had sustained us through a sense of meaning, identity, and connection were no longer accessible in the ways we knew, and we had to develop new strategies if we were to get through those months intact.

In response to this new pandemic reality, we adapted in creative ways like working from home when possible, enjoying Zoom happy hour with friends, attending outdoor classes, and meeting with friends socially distanced while outside. We identified what is most important to us and found ways to meet that need in new and different ways. Locally, I’ve been thrilled to see the number of intrepid souls missing access to the local indoor swimming pool and choose instead to embrace the frigid waters of Admiralty Inlet in a bold attempt to continue doing what they love and in the process discover a novel adventure right in their backyard. Not unlike the changes necessary to get through the stark contrast presented by pandemic life, winter in the Pacific Northwest requires similar adjustment if we are to continue to nourish our sense of meaning, identity and connection that is necessary to maintain mental health.
The days are shorter, the weather is often cold and wet, and darkness prevails. Those early morning runs before work seem daunting under the lingering night sky when it feels like any sane person should still be in bed. The summer evening sunset walks after dinner that filled us with gratitude and a sense of place are often replaced with Netflix and a blanket while the wind and storm outside batter the windows. Even impromptu social gatherings at the beach or in the backyard are put on hold as it feels easier to stay indoors where its warm rather than attempting to trap the warmth under layers of jacket and sweater. Our survival instinct (and common sense) tells us to stay warm, stay dry, rest, and eat some calories and fat in case we have to leave the house and brave the elements before June.

Unfortunately for us, mental health was not factored into our evolutionary survival. We are able to purchase food at the store without having to gather or kill it first; we can physically survive mostly alone as daily needs are manageable, and our safety does not depend on others. So what does this have to do with SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder) and behavior? Many of us adapt physically to the winter environment by changing our behaviors without as much thought given to what we may be giving up mentally. What we do to stay warm, dry, and comfortable often comes at the cost of engaging in meaningful activities and achieving a healthy level of social connection. Not only do we experience the physiological impact of winter darkness, but we also begin to feel lonely, question the value of what we’re doing, and our sense of self worth can waver as our identity is put into question.

Maintaining positive mental health whether in a normal Pacific Northwest winter or a pandemic winter may be no different when stepping back to look objectively and what sustained you in times of normal. What level of recreational and meaningful activity felt right for you? How much social time is the right amount of social time? How were your days structured that allowed you to maintain a healthy balance of meaning, connection, self identity? Once you are aware of what you do that helps you feel good, how will you find a way to adapt to maintain that behavior or are there other behaviors more appropriate to winter to fill those holes?

The following are some ideas to maintain balance in meaning, connection, and identity during a pandemic winter:

• Invest in some warm clothes. Long underwear, quality rain gear, and a warm jacket can make the winter weather more bearable and even feel like a fun adventure when you’re able to stay relatively warm and dry
• Lighten up. Purchase a quality headlamp to light the trails and make you visible on the road for your evening stroll. Light up your yard with festive lights beyond just the holiday season to create a welcoming space for friends and family to visit.
• Add some heat. Take the edge off of outdoor gatherings with a fire, propane heater, and warm blankets.
• Provide shelter. Hang a tarp or setup a canopy to help visiting guests stay dry while providing you with some much needed solitude for that morning cup of coffee.
• Adapt. Incorporate new activities better suited for the winter or adapt your usual activities for the limited daylight light and weather. A reflective vest and quality headlamp makes for an exciting run in the dark. A wetsuit can extend the swimming season and make paddle boarding more appealing (and of course safe).
• Socialize. Get creative. All the above recommendations make for more comfortable social gatherings and when that’s not an option ZOOM it up with local and distant friends.

How do you plan to adapt to this pandemic winter? Feel free to share your ideas below.

Part 1:SAD During a PandemicVitamin D & Light TherapyFor many, the longer days of winter mean a time to slow down, catch...
10/18/2020

Part 1:
SAD During a Pandemic

Vitamin D & Light Therapy

For many, the longer days of winter mean a time to slow down, catch up on books and movies that were missed over the summer, and to fine tune those soup recipes with the remainder of summer’s bounty. For an approximate 6% of the U.S. population, however, winter can bring on a slow creep of depressive symptoms called SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder) that may include increased fatigue, decreased ability to concentrate, difficulty sleeping, and depressed mood. SAD can impact relationships and work while presenting at times just as severe as a Major Depressive Disorder. It goes without saying that a large percentage of those 6% experiencing SAD live in more northern latitudes like the Pacific Northwest. Shorter days coupled with an increase in cloudy, gray weather makes our region a prime environment for SAD to emerge.

Scientists believe predominant factors influencing SAD have to with shorter days and decreased exposure to direct sunlight which can interrupt our natural circadian rhythm. There are a few common strategies experts recommend to mitigate the affects of SAD and a few not so common strategies that I often recommend to my clients. I’ll cover the less common strategies in my next post.

Vitamin D

Of the most common strategies, addressing the decreased exposure to daylight has to do with Vitamin D and full spectrum light. We absorb Vitamin D predominantly from exposure to the sun and from certain foods such as salmon (and other fatty fish), eggs (yolks in particular), mushrooms and fortified foods (some brands of milk, orange juice, soy milk, etc.). Your doctor is able to test for vitamin D levels and recommend an appropriate vitamin D supplement if needed. In addition to impacting mood, low Vitamin D can also negatively impact the immune system and make us more susceptible to winter colds and viruses. In addition to Vitamin D, overall nutrition can have a significant impact on mood and maintaining a healthy, nutritious diet can be more challenging in winter where cravings for higher calorie foods increase and winter holidays can derail even the most well intentioned diets.

Nutrition Tips:
• Eat foods naturally high in Vitamin D
• Discuss taking a Vitamin D supplement with your doctor
• Maintain a healthy diet consisting of fresh, whole foods

Full Spectrum Light

Our decreased exposure to the sun can not only impact Vitamin D levels, but it can also alter our circadian rhythm. As the sun rises, our brain receives the signal that it’s time to get ready for the day ahead. Melatonin levels decrease, cortisol levels increase, and a complicated chemical shift happens to lift us out of groggy sleepiness and make us alert and ready to tackle the day. Waking in the dark, possibly heading to work or school in the dark, and spending more time indoors throughout the day, we may never receive a clear signal that it’s time to be awake. Because of this, we may not feel fully awake and, to further complicate matters, our brain can become confused about how many hours we’ve been awake and cues for when it’s time for bed become muddled. Not being fully awake during the daytime can mean not being fully ready for sleep at night.

A dose of full spectrum light (often referred to as light therapy) first thing in the morning can be a simple fix to this problem. Research shows that a full spectrum light at 10,000 lux for approximately 30 minutes can facilitate the transition from asleep to awake and help keep our circadian rhythm intact. It’s recommended to consult with your doctor and follow the directions provided by your specific light to determine the correct dose. Like coffee on a tired day, it’s not uncommon to believe more is better when it comes to light therapy, but just like coffee, too much and at the wrong time of day can disrupt sleep and decrease any positive benefits. I’ve witnessed the best outcomes when clients use their light immediately upon waking for a set amount of time and on a consistent daily basis.

For more severe cases of SAD, it is recommended to consult with your doctor and consider seeking support from a licensed therapist. To learn more about light therapy or purchasing a light, check out the links below:

Mayo Clinic: https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/light-therapy/about/pac-20384604

Verilux: https://verilux.com/collections/happylight-therapy-lamps-boxes

As the days grow darker and wetter, I’m hearing from many expressing concern for how to get through a pandemic winter. A...
10/16/2020

As the days grow darker and wetter, I’m hearing from many expressing concern for how to get through a pandemic winter. A Pacific Northwest winter can take a toll on our mental health in any year, but recommended precautions to reduce the transmission of COVID-19 make this winter an especially complicated one to manage.

The summer weather allowed for safer social gatherings outside, outdoor adventurers explored snow free mountain passes and plenty of “forest bathing” with few people to encounter, bars and restaurants expanded their services outside and provided customers with a needed respite from daily stress, classes of all kinds (yoga, woodworking, art...) embraced the outdoors to quench our thirst for learning and development. With shorter days and less hospitable weather, how will we adapt? How have you adapted to the darker days in past winters and how will this one be different for you?

Over the next few weeks, I plan to post on issues impacting mental health specific to this winter and the COVID-19 pandemic and strategies to address them with mental health intact. Stay tuned...

If you have interest in a particular topic or are interested in sharing your strategies, please message me. My hope is that we can all learn and grow from one another and collectively navigate a pandemic winter together.

09/18/2020

Thanks to Jay Inslee for bringing this issue forward.

08/27/2020

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