04/28/2026
“I cannot fix the mind anymore than I can fix the body.”
Someone who has been following my work wrote this to me recently, and I thought it was such a beautiful realization.
Because many people approach the body and mind the same way.
They try to fix the body.
Then they try to fix the mind.
Then they try to fix their posture.
Then they try to fix their emotions.
Then they try to fix their nervous system.
And before long, their whole life becomes a project of self-correction.
But what if the deeper shift does not begin with fixing?
What if it begins with noticing?
Noticing the tension you did not realize you were holding.
Noticing how your breath changes when you feel uncertain.
Noticing how your body prepares for pain before pain even arrives.
Noticing the stories the mind repeats.
Noticing how much effort you use to hold yourself together.
This kind of awareness is not about analyzing yourself.
It is not about becoming hypervigilant.
It is a softer kind of attention coming from genuine curiosity.
The kind that says:
“Oh, this is what I am doing.”
“This is how I am protecting myself.”
“This is how my body learned to organize around fear, tension, or discomfort.”
And sometimes, when the body is met that way, it no longer has to keep holding so tightly.
This is why somatic work is not just movement.
It is a different relationship with yourself.
Less fixing.
More listening.
Less correction.
More awareness.
Less forcing change.
More creating the conditions where change can happen.
Noticing is a powerful act.