04/08/2026
Babies deserve to know what’s about to happen to their body even before they have words.
We put all these in place to get the baby’s body ready for a massage:
• Auditory cues. Simply rubbing your hands together with the oil can be a great, natural signal!
• Visual cues. Making eye contact, letting them see your hands, slowing down
• Touch prep. Resting your hands gently before moving, giving their body time to respond
Then we watch.
Do they soften?
Do they turn toward you?
Do they engage?
That’s their version of consent.
When babies feel prepared, their nervous system settles.
They’re even MORE receptive, MORE relaxed, and MORE able to benefit from the touch.
This isn’t about doing a routine TO your baby.
It’s about doing it WITH them.
If you want to learn how to read your baby’s cues and confidently incorporate massage into your routine, join me for our Infant Massage Workshop.
We’ll walk through all of this together in real time, with your baby. Comment CALM and I’ll send you the link to sign up!
April 24
12-2 PM
Wise Mama Collective
1616 SE Ankeny St, Portland, OR 97214