05/29/2025
I’ll be honest, over the years I’ve had a “Savior” complex as I’ve worked on hundreds of body’s. I hate to see people struggle and I have wanted to be the one to “fix” them. That’s ego and that is unrealistic.
I have a newish client who I’ve been treating for the past several weeks and I asked if they wanted to keep up with their sessions. I believe they were serious in their response, “Well, are you gonna fix me?”
I responded that I could not “fix” them. I can help relieve some of their pain and make them more comfortable but when it comes down to it…we have to fix ourselves.
Healing is a multidimensional journey. Most often, it takes deep inner wound work and commitment. It takes radical honesty and a willingness to open to oneself. It asks for forgiveness and acceptance. It’s not only physical but emotional, mental, spiritual, biological, ancestral.
I am not here to fix you but I am here to love you. I am here to lay my hands on you with deep compassion and tender care. I am here to be a safe place for your expressions of anguish. I am here for you to be your own authentic self. I am here as a witness and to point you back to who you are at your center. You are love, my friend.