01/24/2026
Boundaries protect your energy. Walls protect you from connection.
Boundaries say: "I care about you, and I also care about myself." Walls say: "If I let you in, I'll get hurt."
It's a subtle but important difference. Boundaries are flexible; they can shift based on trust, safety, and context. Walls are rigid; they keep everyone out, even the people who want to support you.
If you've been told you're "too guarded" or "hard to reach," it might be worth asking: Am I setting healthy boundaries, or am I building walls to avoid being vulnerable?
Both are understandable. Both make sense. But only one allows for connection.
What's one boundary you've set recently that felt healthy? Share below. đź’›