 
                                                                                                    05/16/2025
                                            Home birth transfer to hospital is NOT a failure. That can never be said enough. 
Most hospital transfers are not medical emergencies. Most are a quiet exit from the birth plan. That doesn’t mean it’s easy, but to surrender to your birth and your baby sometimes requires you letting go of your home birth.
When we broached the topic of support, Nessa immediately started the conversation by stating she absolutely did not want to go to the hospital. We fully supported that. She began asking insightful questions and was able to share with us her thoughts, her struggles, her perspective, and what mattered most to her. It was a beautiful journey of deep reflection and self-discovery. She said she wanted to feel strong. Wanted to be present. Wanted to welcome her baby into the world with joy and energy.
She then went on to say, “I want to treat future Nessa with respect and kindness.” 
It was a proud and empowering moment when she looked at me with dignity and said, “I need the epidural. Let’s go to the hospital”.
**SENSITIVITY WARNING** The second slide is a video of vaginal birth. 
Yes mama, you are SO STRONG 💪🏾 🥹
                                                           
 
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                         
   
   
   
   
     
   
   
  