10/16/2025
🌻A Sunflowerz Glow✨️ :Learning things the hard way and that self-love brings me closer to God and back into alignment.
💞 Self-Love Is an Active Practice 👌🏾.
Self-love isn’t a one-time act, it’s a daily practice, a sacred journey of returning home to myself and choosing me again and again.
I’ve learned that the same love and empathy I so freely give to others can sometimes lead me down detours routes that take me out of alignment, where I lower my standards, loosen my boundaries, accept less than I deserve and don't use my discernment.
Because of my divine connection with God, I would feel subtle nudges trying to guide me back. But often, those gentle signs were hard to read through the rose-colored lenses of love. It wasn’t until divine intervention struck through heartbreaks and betrayals that I was forced to see what Spirit had been showing me all along: not every relationship, friendship, or business partnership is meant for the path I’m walking.
Three years ago, I began my journey, made a vow to stop learning lessons the hard way and trust my intuition and follow it the first time. Yet, here I am, Summer ‘25, humbled by another round of lessons. But this time, I showed up differently.
It took me about 7x to set the same boundary, 7x to honor my morals, my values, and my worth but I finally stood firm. I learned that self-love also means saying “no,” even when it hurts. It means protecting my peace, even when I care deeply. And it means knowing I am worthy of sacred love, divine union, and aligned partnerships that God has already written for me.
After my divorce, I made another vow that I would never again enter abusive relationships, personally or professionally. I would no longer accept the narrative that love must come with pain and betrayal. Love may stretch you, but it should not destroy you. The love meant for me will flow with ease, reciprocity, and divine peace.
This is my self-love journey.
Each day, I choose to honor my intuition, trust the divine wisdom within, and rebuild and maintain my sacred boundaries. I am learning, growing, and glowing choosing me, over and over again.
