05/16/2026
A nervous system can learn that being misunderstood feels dangerous. A life of trying to fit in, feel seen, wanted, be good enough, validated is exhausting so we slip into behaviors and ways of thinking that protect us. For some, no, it’s not just a little social anxiety. For some of us it’s been reinforced (even if it’s not true) that we aren’t good enough, or don’t fit it, or we’re too much, etc.
Many enter relationships already bracing for rejection.
If this sounds like you, it might be time to start getting curious about your relationships, your nervous system, and ways to improve your communication style so you can achieve that connection and understanding you’re looking for.
Looking for a therapist who gets it? These are things we work on with others daily. We want to help you get there. Link in the bio.