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Reddit AITA Judgment Point, 5684 E AZ-69, Prescott Valley, AZ 86314, Kabul (2026)

11/01/2026

it was my daughter's birthday yesterday and i wrote her the following in her birthday card "to my rainbow, happy 4th birthday. i love you to the moon, stars, sun, rain and back again. you make me so happy. happy birthday, love mummy" my partner was FURIOUS that i didn't write it from the both of us. a little more context - i showed him the card earlier and said 'look how cute the card is i got for insert daughters name he said "oh it's a little train - how cute" not anything like "sign it from me as well" or "put my name in there when you sign it". i just wanted a card from me to her? he knew there was a card, didn't ask it to be from both of us, and didn't get a card himself for her? AITA? edit: her father and i are also on rocky ground and separating. it not otherwise happy and secure and a standard nuclear parenting relationship. just also thought that may be important info. edit 2: there's also been no history of birthday cards specifically from us either way of signing both or not signing. iirc this is genuinely the first birthday card either of us have done - idk if that makes it more or less a__hole though but at least it's not been an expectation

11/01/2026

My fiancé (34M) and I (31F) are getting married soon and we're finalising the guest list. He has a daughter from his previous relationship and we're trying to include her as much as possible. The issue is his ex (her mother) who expects to be invited to the wedding. For context, me and my finance have the daughter for most of the time, her mother gets her maybe a weekend a month. She's a nice enough person but she has a lot of problems with drinking too heavily, and then becomes a less nice person. While I understand that she's an important figure in our daughter's life, I'm just not comfortable with the idea of her there at the wedding. From what I know, she's not made steps towards stopping with her drinking problem and I can only imagine what kind of choices she would make at the wedding and I don't want the stress of that on the day. She and I have had a pretty good relationship for the sake of the daughter, but there has been some tension and disagreements in the past. For instance, when she came over drunk before and said that she wanted to see her daughter more, that I'm pretending to be her mother etc. I can understand where it's coming from and she is nice, but she ultimately has problems that she's not willing to confront at the moment. I've tried to talk to her about it before, more for the daughter's sake but she just brushes it off even when she's sober. I want our wedding day to be about me and fiancé, rather than any potential awkwardness or drama. My fiancé wants to keep things amicable for our daughter (and he also has a feeling that his ex is already annoyed that we're getting married; and this only got worse when she realised she wasn't invited) but understands my feelings on it. His ex has already expressed her displeasure about not being invited and I'm worried that it will create more issues. However, I do want our wedding day to be focused on celebrating us without the stress of anything she might do. AITA?

11/01/2026

My husband and I have been married two years and we have a one year old son. My husbands father lived with him before I moved in and he is supposed to be building his own home but work has slowed and he is still with us two years later. When I moved in I asked my husband to get him to stop smoking in the house. He stopped for awhile. Then I caught him smoking again. Told my husband who reminded him again that it’s outside now. Then another time and my husband again told him he needs to smoke outside. I just got home from the grocery store and in my sons baby bowl are three ci******es and ashes and I have had it. I want him gone. He doesn’t respect me, the house or the kids. I told my husband he needs to go because he can’t follow one simple rule because he’s to lazy to go outside. My husband says he can’t just kick him out and it isn’t that big of a deal. It’s a big deal to me and I’m done. I told him either I go or his dad goes. He is pi**ed at me saying I’m blowing this out of proportion and that I’m seriously going to leave him over this. Now other family members are saying I’m being an a__hole to kick an older family member out. AITA?

11/01/2026

Some background: My girlfriend( K,31) lost her job a while ago. She was pretty distraught at first, but my job is good enough to support us and she gradually got used to staying at home. One of the things she likes to do in her free time now is surf medical websites (stuff like WebMD, yeah, but also medical journals and textbooks). A couple of months ago I had a health scare. I got sick and my girlfriend convinced me that it was something more. We went to a doctor and he said everything was fine but girlfriend thought he was a hack (which I get, he was kinda rude and dismissive to her).So, I went to a specialist and they said the same thing. I felt a lot better but my gf was mad that I didnt take her to the appointment and since then she's been acting like I'm terminally ill. It started off with small things, like asking me to make a will and discussing what sort of burial arrangements I'd want (a little m__bid maybe, but practical I guess). Then, it escalated. She started taking tons of photos to remember me and crying randomly. She would ask me what I'd like to do with my stuff and made plans about things she could do with the space when the bookshelves were gone, which creeped me out. I tried talking to her about getting a job, or a hobby or something and going easy on the medical stuff but she got insulted My work has decided to reopen our offices, so I'll no longer be working from home from next week This spooked my girlfriend, who's convinced that I'm at risk. Yesterday, I caught her trying to email my boss about making an exception for me because...

11/01/2026

My bestfriend and I have been friends since we were about 3 and a half. My brother is a year older than me, him and my bestfriend have been dating for over year. I don't really care that they're dating, they make eachother happy and I have no problem with disowning my brother. What I do have a problem with, is when my bestfriend comes over my brother always makes it about the two of them. If we're baking my brother will go in behind her and "help" her mix or roll anything that needs mixing or rolling. There have been a few times where my best friend will have to tell my brother to go away because she can't focus on anything if he's there. She always does apologise to me when it happens, but its not her fault. She was supposed to be coming over tommorow (its safe). I told my brother that he needs to stop taking her from me whenever she's here. My brother being who he is, took it as a joke. So, I called her and asked if we could do it at her place, she agreed. Now, my siblings and mom are telling me it was an AH move and that I should of just dealt with it. I disagree, if my brother wants to be with her go for it, but don't purposefully sabotage the limited time I have with her. (Her dad just got back from a buissness trip in London, so she's been spending it a lot with him). My dad is on my side because my brother literally has plans with her next week. So reddit AITA? Edit: It was a joke. Like she is bestfriend,I love her with everything in my heart. If my brother breaks her heart,...

11/01/2026

So I (f20) was invited to dinner on at my parents house and both my brother's were also there with there wife and kids. Both my parents, my siblings and I have a dog (my parents dog is medium size, around 25 kg). For the context, this wasn't the first family dinner we had together and the kids from my siblings know the dogs from an early age on. My dog is only 1.5 years old and doesn't yet have much experience with children (but loves the little ones), so whenever my brothers are there with their children, I keep an eye on my dog and intervene if he gets too wild and if necessary put him on a leash and take him to me so that he calms down a bit. Now one of my brother's children (almost 2 years old) has stepped on my parents dog's paws or tail several times on purpose, which is of course extremely painful for the dog. Of course they had told the little one to stop it several times and my brother has also said that he should leave the dog alone. Now the story: My dog was lying on the carpet, my brother's child came up to my dog and lightly stepped on his paws several times, but my dog stayed calm and just turned away. I told the child to stop. The child laughed at me and swung his foot out to now kick my dog ( who was now lying the other way round). This was too much for me. I jumped up from the sofa and shouted “hey, not like that!” in a relatively loud tone, whereupon the child froze for some seconds just looking at me and then ran crying to his parents. After that the mood...

11/01/2026

I read medical records for a living, including imaging, physical therapy notes, neurologist visits, etc. I work side-by-side with doctors and psychiatrists, and have for 13 years. I have a friend whose wife suddenly became disabled by back pain, three months after he married her. One day she was active and happy, the next day she was totally debilitated and spends most of each day in bed. She did not suffer an injury. Background: his last wife became disabled and he supported her for years. Wife #2 knows this. I asked to see her imaging and was surprised at what I saw. I told her, "This doesn't explain your pain." In his reports, her doctor described her as having a "heightened response" to pain and said there was nothing more he could do for her. My friend's life is ruined. She can't work, he can't support them both on his retirement benefits, so he's had to go back to work. At home, he has to massage her and comfort her and do all the housework, shopping, etc. He has no time to himself, can't leave her unattended, and can't bring her with him. She has no insurance, but she's covered by his, now that they're married. He pays all the co-pays. Even before this, she said she couldn't work because of covid, because of age discrimination, because there were no jobs that fit her skill set, because jobs she was overqualified for paid too little, etc. She talked about how she couldn't work in every conversation I had with her. I've tried asking him leading questions like, "Has her doctor discussed anxiety's impact on pain?" and, "What's her doctor's plan? Surgery? (no) Physical therapy? (Didn't help) Opiates? (She won't take them) NSAIDs? (She can't take them) TENS unit? (Didn't help)...

11/01/2026

I (26,F) have a best friend (M,26). He's gay and married to his partner. I have a husband. We chose to not have kids. My friend and his partner decided to have a baby. My best friend is going to be the donor. Him and his partner asked me if I'd be their egg donor as they want the baby's "mom" involved in the baby's life. I was on board. However when I mentioned this to my husband he was furious. He said he didn't like the idea of his wife having a baby with another man. I told him we would basically be the baby's aunt and uncle. He was not okay and now he isn't talking to me. So Reddit, AITAH? Edit: I'm not going to be pregnant. I'm only donating my eggs. They're going to get a surrogate to carry.

11/01/2026

I own a preschool/daycare. A little boy, David (3) was supposed to start with us on Monday. On Friday, his parents asked if they could stop by with him so he could get to know his classmates before his first day. It was during our extended care hours so by then we only had 4 kids and 1 teacher, Natalie (19). I texted Natalie and told her that David and his parents would be joining them and that I will be there ASAP to talk to the parents so she could focus on the kids. When I got there, David's mom and all of the kids were outside while Natalie was inside, held against a wall, and being screamed at by David's dad. Natalie always plays a show/movie on Fridays during the extended care. David's parents demanded that she turn it off because David isn't allowed any screen time. Natalie refused because the rest of the kids were enjoying the movie. They turned off the tv, Natalie tried to kick them out, and David's mom took everyone out to the playground so his dad could scream at Natalie. When I saw this, I ripped up all of David's paperwork and told him to get his family and get off my property. We ended up shutting down early and calling the police. Luckily, Natalie is okay, just a couple bruises, and will likely be back in a few weeks. We have also made sure to have someone at the front desk during extended care hours so parents will not be allowed into the classroom anymore (we previously had parents walk into the extended care room to pick up/sign out their kids since there were so few kids). David's parents have been blasting us on parenting groups, community groups, and our reviews,...

11/01/2026

My 6 yo son had a medical issue and needed to have a procedure. My husband hasn't worked for 9 months after leaving his previous job and my salary is barely enough to get us by. My husband bought some expensive things when he used to get paid. he had a high paying job and saved no money but instead bought some expensive stuff for himself. He had to sell most of it to be able to buy new clothes or get a new iphone. He had an expensive wristwatch that he was keeping to wear at important occasions. We discussed coming up with money to pay for the procedure and he refused to give up the watch and told me to "find some other way to get the money" when he knows I can't. He suggesred thst our son stays on meds to "manage the pain" til *I* come up with the money, but the procedure was advised as soon as possible. I just could not bear seeing my son going through so much pain I went ahead and sold the watch and paid for the procedure. My husband found out and immediately said that he considered this stealing and said that he won't look at me the same anymore. He didn't yell or react harshly, just kept saying that I committed theft and that I overstepped and betrayed his trust. After that he stopped saying anything else to me, just that what I did was stealing. His family sided with him and his mom (whom I'm not on good terms with) suggested that he either divorce me or get a lockbox to keep his stuff safe since, I "stole" from him before. I was so devastates by how I was treated and thought that I was doing thd right thing, now he's making me feel like what I did was really stealing regardless of the reason why I did what I did in HI opinion. Was it really stealing? AITAH?

11/01/2026

I (23F) live with three other girls: Kelly (23), Gina (22), and Jasmine (20). We're college students in a four-bedroom, two-bathroom duplex. I've lived here for three years, two of them with Gina. Before she moved in, I told her I'm strict about keeping shared spaces clean. She's an only child and had never lived with others, so it's been an adjustment for her, but she's improved except when her boyfriend, Jake (22), is over. Jake lives with his parents and visits often, but he has zero regard for our space or basic etiquette. He's left trash around, size-13 shoes blocking the doorway, and stained my couch and rug with food. I've asked Gina multiple times to talk to him, but she just gets annoyed with me and says it's 'not her responsibility.' The other roommates agree with my standards, but I'm usually the only one who speaks up. The final straw was one morning when I found our shared bathroom soaked. The floor mats and towels were drenched, the shower curtain was barely hanging, and there was clutter everywhere like Jake showered outside the shower. I couldn't even use the sink without cleaning up first. Then, when I went to make breakfast, I found their half-eaten fast food left all over the stove. Frustrated, I threw it out. I texted Gina about this mess, and she told me to bring it up directly with Jake since 'he did it.' So, I texted him, explaining that if he couldn't respect our space, he couldn't use anything I owned in the house, which includes most of the living room and kitchen items. He apologized but dismissed it as usual. He responded, 'I'll just stay in Gina's room then.' Gina then texted me, hysterical and crying. She was on our porch, telling...

11/01/2026

[link] My now ex partner, asked me to marry him even though I told him that I don't ever want to get married again. There's not really much to this story because the title explains it but, I f42 have talked multiple times with my partner m43 about this topic. I told him that I never want to get married and it's not about him but it's just the fact that I see no point in it. I was married once and had a horrible divorce when my ex tried to take away our daughter and more. Basically, I decided I never want to bound to anyone is that way, it's easier to just break up then to divorce. My partner isn't really happy with this and he asked me multiple times what would change my mind and do I just not want to marry him. These questions started to infuriate me and would lead to arguments because I said it million times. Last time we had an argument was at beginning of July when he started that topic again and I told him that I think we need to stop this relationship because it's obvious we don't agree in it. I made a big deal about it and my daughter and his kids were mad at me because I wanted to break up but he didn't. I decided to stay and I was finally convinced we were done with this topic and that he agreed to just continue living together until we went on vacation last week to Greece and for some reason he asked me to marry him. It made me so mad. I seriously didn't know if I wanted to cry or scream. He asked me this in front of my daughter and his kids and it...

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