01/14/2026
Dr. Donna Marks
"This phenomenon of seeking help and disavowing guidance was coined “resistance” by Sigmund Freud, the founder of psychoanalysis. Patients seek help because they are uncomfortable but taking corrective action isn’t always easy. 'I know something is wrong, but I don’t like what you’re saying, so I’ll select what I want and disregard the rest,' is the unconscious thought of many patients."
The Spartan Basics
1. Know how we're wired.
2. Get into healthy acceptance.
3. Willful blindness won't protect you.
4. Work on yourself daily to have the courage and clarity to face the truth.
The Lesson
P + B = E = A
Our (P)erceptions + (B)eliefs result in (E)motions and often trigger (A)ction. Consider your beliefs and perceptions. This is the lens you see the world through. You can't get into acceptance if you see the world through a warped lens. (** formula credit Jeanne Sanner)
Reviewing your perceptions and beliefs, you need to be aware of the facts and accept them as they are. You don't need to like them or agree with them. But you do need to accept things as they are so you can see things truly.
Trying to avoid reality with willful blindness seems to pay off now to keep you safe, but it creates a victim mentality. It won't protect you.
The best way to make sure you can engage the world as it is is to work on the best version of you (your top 5 - 10 character assets you wish to master mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually, and socially). This will help keep you clear to see things as they are and put the answers into action.
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