11/24/2025
C.G. Jung
Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.
The Spartan Basics
1. Most things you can't control.
2. Realize how you're wired.
3. Push the PAUSE button before you act.
4. Make progress towards your destiny of who you could become. Don't surrender to fate.
The Lesson
Realize that things in life will fall into the categories of:
- Control
- Responsibility
- Influence
- None of Your Business
The only thing that goes into the Control category is you ... your thoughts, feelings, and actions. You have control over your effort in the Responsibility and Influence categories, but you don't control the outcome. Waste no time on those things that fall into the None of Your Business category. Work on the Control category first. Calm your mind and emotions. Choose your choices.
P + B = E = A
Our (P)erceptions + (B)eliefs result in (E)motions and often trigger (A)ction. It's how we're wired, and it's a closed loop system. As you act, it rewires the brain. (** formula credit Jeanne Sanner )
Between emotion (stimulus) and action (response), PAUSE. Give yourself the opportunity to be mindful of what is in the moment and choose your choices instead of being fueled by emotion or mood as a result of limiting, warped beliefs and perceptions. Use PAUSE to become aware of what is, get into acceptance of things as they are, and seek the healthiest path of progress.
Create / review the best version of you (your top 5 - 10 character assets you wish to master mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually, and socially). These values are your destiny. Fate may create a path, but you can dictate who you become on your journey based upon your decisions and actions.
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